Ok, so I fucked up big time...
I recently came together with my crush and yesterday we wanted to have sex. I however didnt manage to get hard. I just turned 18 and I have no medical problems. Why the fuck didnt it work? Shes the most beatifull girl ever and I want to make her happy. Please help...
Too much porn
That sounds painful. Do you masturbate often?
you were nervous af. it happens to the best. don't think too much about it. try to not pressure yourself. it will only make it worse. instead, try to focus on your senses when you are with her. get yourself out of your head and into your dick, mouth, skin, hands and so on. notice her warmth against you, how she smells, her touch, stuff like that instead.
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>>17346365
Not OP but I masturbate and watch porn multiple times daily and I have NO problems at all in bed.
>>17346381
So? You're two different people who may react differently to the same thing
The fact is, either OP is jaded/desensitized, or he has problems that he should see a doctor about, or he's not into women. Trying to fix the first one before the other two is just logical m8
>>17346383
>Trying to fix the first one before the other two is just logical m8
Okay? I never denied that. Are you sure you read the post right friend? It was simply a statement of my experience. I'm not sure how that was confusing.
>>17346365
Mostly one time a day, never more
>>17346383
But I really really like women, also I never had any problems before
>>17346394
It could be the porn, or it could be nervousness.
Stop watching porn. After a few months off porn, if you continue to have issues, it's probably because you're nervous. The only fix for that is to be comfortable with your sex partner, whether you get a boner or not. A little alcohol or weed might help you there (too much will hurt you though.)
>>17346406
Yeah, Ill try
>>17346406
Thx m8
