>>17344644
if you make out for hours then yes, blue balls are very real. and they ache like a motherfucker. why not give him a handjob?

>>17344644
It's not real. I've had erections that wouldn't go away, but no blue balls.

Tell him you've found an article that recommends blunt force trauma to the testicles to relieve blue balls.

>>17344644
That's real...I used to date a religious girl, we used to make out alot...and when I was driving to drop her at home my balls hurted alot...well it means he needs to ejaculate.

I don't know if balls hurt more in the scenario you describe as I have chronic epididymitis- so my balls always hurt.

I will say that I have learned that the balls/spermatic cord area is richly innervated but very delicate, so I imagine it is different for different people, yes, on a spectrum of constantly hurting balls like mine to balls that never hurt like your exs'. Your current bf is likely somewhere in the middle.

It's absolutely real. When I "had sex" the first time we made out but after that I couldn't get it up even though I was horny af. The pain really was horrible and I almost couldn't walk.

>>17344644
Blue balls are real, but guys still use them to manipulate women. FYI they don't hurt that much and he can just beat off when he gets home. But also y'all are nearing that part of the relationship, or are you guys religious?

blue balls are absolutely real.

it is incredibly painful and you almost have to go jerk yourself off or you're gonna be suffering p bad.

>>17344673
Not religious, we've only been on a few dates and I'd like to get more comfortable with him before we do anything

>>17344684
Fair enough

Don't any of you girls get that too?

If I'm extremely aroused for a while and I don't get touched down there, it starts to feel like the opening and a few inches in gets extremely taught and aching. It's comparable to the feeling of when you try to fit something too big down there and it stretches the opening too harshly.

It's not at all bad enough to need pain killer though, and it goes away after a few minutes.

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>>17344644

The truth is that prolonged erections can be painful but exactly how much of this pain is psychosomatic is very much so up for debate. In short, its a condition based in some truth but its primarily a tool guys use to cajole women into sex.

If you aren't ready for sex, then don't have sex. Even if you are open to sex, being guilted into it hardly seems like a cool way of taking that step into your relationship.

I, personally, have never had blue balls. I think its bullshit but maybe I'm just built different. Who knows.

The bottom line is his erection management isn't your problem, not yet, anyways.

>>17344644

I don't know. If I get too horny its more of a "i'm going to pass out and I'm almost scared to cum because my heart is racing and I'm short of breath feeling."

As for actual pain? I've never experienced that. I think it is a load of shit.

If he needs painkillers for his balls he should probably see a doctor
also my balls have never hurt from not ejaculating, ever.

I've had it before, it hurts like fuck. I didn't believe in it and thought blue balls were just an expression until me and my girlfriend kinda got wild and then mood calmed down and started to hurt

It's very real.

>>17344709
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>>17344653
For everyone saying it's not real, have you made out for extended periods of time before? Or has it just been having erections that don't go away for a while? Wondering if that makes a difference.

>>17344745
I've made out with girls without getting laid and I did not have blue balls. I've only had them once when I started having sex and then she got a call from her mom and had to leave lol.

>>17344692
I know I've felt some sort or weird feeling, almost pain but not that intense. It is a little uncomfortable but happens rarely when I'm really turned on and haven't been like that in awhile

why don't you just have sex?

Blue balls is another term for vasocongestion, some guys get it and some don't. Just like some women experience it during their period and some don't.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vasocongestion

It's a real thing but the guy can jack off to solve it or just suck it up/take pain killers like he already does if it's that bad for him. It's not the end of the world.

>>17344644
Tell him to see a doctor.
You don't just wake up with really sore balls multiple times without something being wrong...

It's definitely real. A girl friend of mine stayed the night and we cuddled all night and fooled around a little bit. Next day my balls were so fucking sore I wanted to die.

>>17344697
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>>17345636
Thanks for this info!

>>17345775
No problem. I'll add that if it's that bad for him you might want to stick to shorter make-out/whatever you're comfortable doing sessions. Not everyone I've been with has experienced blue balls but all of the worst and most painful experiences (a few of which had the guys really upset and completely killed the mood for them they were in so much pain) involved a lot of teasing beforehand. Of course, you don't want to kill off sexual tension by decreasing it too much either and this is a temporary problem anyway. So go with whatever balance works for you.

>>17345797
Thanks yeah, it's usually him that wants to keep going so I might tell him to settle down haha

>>17344697

>never had blue balls

don't fap for a week and edge to hardcore porn

then stop before cumming. you will get blue balls unless you have klinefelter's or something.

Its a thing, i've had them too and it hurts like hell. Cumming helps a lot. So Tell him to Jerk it or give him a Bj, whatever.

>>17344644
Happened to me once. Holy shit it hurts

It's real.

I couldn't come with my first gf for several days of fucking multiple times a day everyday. Had a real huge pain in my balls and had to fap in the bathroom.


Also before that I made a deal with some girl over the internet that I wouldn't fap for a week. I constantly would chat with her and get horny alot, after a week had painful blue balls and cumming was actually painful.

I've gotten blue balls, it literally feels like your balls are getting squeezed. The only guys that never experienced phenomenon are the ones that Jack it to the point of never having much sperm.

As a general rule of thumb I don't bring it up the first time, but if it happens again and I'm left hanging I leave and am no longer romantically involved with that girl

Had a few dates with nice making out and sexual touching, got horny as fuck but ultimately didn't have sex (didnt want to do it outside lel). These few dates ended with horrible blue balls pain.
The first girl I dated wouldn't fuck, just grind on me to get off, only came a few times, god damn that was the worst relationship I had, constant blue balls and guilt tripping if I suggested something more, but I was a young kid finally happy to be in a relationship.

>>17346252
>just grind on me to get off
Get herself off or get you off?

Either way it does sound horrible. But then again, everyones first sexual experiences are shit.

>>17344644
They're real... Same thing as you, never complained cause I'm a gentleman, in the morning when I used to go home (same city) to clean and dress for uni, the first thing was take a shit and masturbate, I hurts, a lot

It's real. But you should've been more frank about him that there will be no sex and he should just wank it off before sleep.

I'd not have him over for sleep anymore. He should respect your boundaries and jack off before coming over.

Didn't read anything in the thread, just figured I'd chime in with my blue balls story.

It only ever happened once.

I went out of town to meet this hot teenager I'd been talking to online. And, oh my god was she fucking hot when I got there in person.

And, a virgin. So, not only does she introduce me to her sister, and her sisters boyfriend, but then her and her sister start making out.

So, this is fucking hot, and then we go to a cemetary, and hang out. The sister and boyfriend are fucking in my car, and I'm making out with the girl I came to visit, and end up eating her out.

Anyway, I don't get my dick wet and end up driving home (about an hour drive) and oh my fucking god, soon as I hit the highway, my nuts are hurting, felt like they were curling up inside of me or something.

So, I have to rub one out on the highway, and it was worth it. But, damn, yeah it's real and it sucks.