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hey /adv/,

I am an obese 24 year old virgin from a small wealthy city in Florida. I am running a failing niche business with my parent's retirement funds along with having thousands of dollars in credit card debt (the card is a gold one though). My little brother goes to a highly ranked university while I didn't go to college.

I am obsessed with a girl and we hang out at inappropriate hours doing very appropriate things (not having sex, just talking). This has gotten to the point where it effects how I interact with my friends and other people in my daily life. I don't have a healthy schedule, I don't have a college degree or a future. I am in debt, I am overweight and in denial of it. I spend too much time with a girl I have a very small of ever hoping to have sex but keeps leading me on and makes me spend my money on her.

I am jealous of certain in my life and restrict around me because of my jealousy.

Basically I want help to figure out some things.

How do I get into better shape?
How do I get over this girl?
How do I have a future?

Overall, how do I get my life together?

Any help is appreciated, thank you.
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1. Go to a gym
2. Don't message girl ever again
3. Do something with a future like school or job that is valuable and needed

Problem solved :)
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>>17344409

THIS.
1) Go to the gym, get a bike, even just make the effort to go and walk for an hour every day.

2) Lose her to get on with life or drag it on and regret for wasting more time in your life.

3) Study something YOU want to do or skills YOU want to learn. Keep the mind busy and active and you will find self worth and success in your productivity in life and career.
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