So I'm staying at my boyfriend's place right now. He is playing Overwatch, I am playing Pokemon/tooling around on his laptop (with permission).
I went to go start a thread on 4chan, realized I would need to use a picture to start a thread, and it automatically opened to SO MUCH PORN. Rationally I know that every man on Earth likes porn, but the thing is...these girls don't look like me. At all.
I'm fat. None of his porn pictures have fat girls. Is he settling? Should I just dump him right now? He's fucking settling. I hate myself.
>>17336510
why dont you just lose some weight
>>>/fit/
read the sticky then gtfo
Or you could go down in weight, feel better and see that he is settling and THEN dump him.
you look better and can move on to a better man, that doesnt play games all day long. (unless its his job)
manchild are bad, never go for them
>>17336510
Girlll you need to chill everybody have dreams. I'm sure he isn't everything in your porn folder. Just fucking talk to him about it, be open and don't let this shit boil up inside you
>>17336513
I'm fucking always hungry no matter what I do or what I eat
>>17336516
I think about him when I masturbate and apparently he thinks about perfect girls
>>17336521
There's NOTHING besides him that gets you schlicking, really? There's gotta be other stuff that gets your fingers into the pink rink
>>17336520
>I'm always hungry
Excuses. It's not only about food. It's about lack of activity too.
>>17336525
I think about whoever I have a crush on. I think about past times we have done it and stuff I want to do with them in the future
>>17336520
The sticky addresses that. So read it
>>17336526
Fuck you I used to jog 2.5 miles home from work 5 times a week and didn't accomplish jack shit
>>17336527
Fine, since that department is dead end, here's the thing. He is dating you. Don't pull a "Porn or Me" stunt, just ask him about his porn. If you guys have already done the bun fun then porn ain't too far from that subject. JUST TALK TO HIM, GRAB HIS DICK TO GET HIS ATTENTION WHATEVER JUST DONT FUCK UP A RELATIONSHIP
>>17336532
Try harder then. 2.5 miles is nothing.
>>17336515
>she mentions he's currently playing a video game
>literally just that one single mention of it in the post
>somehow this instantly means he plays them all day and is a mandchild
Yeah fuck you cunt.
Not to mention she said she's playing a video game too. Does this mean she does nothing but play them all day and is a womanchild? No of course you'd never see it like that because you're biased and sexist as fuck
So again, fuck you cunt. OP is no major catch and neither are you.
>>17336525
Obviously not OP, but I only masturbate thinking about my bf too. I wish guys could be like that.
>>17336540
What kind of asshole would date a fat girl if they clearly don't like fat people
How lonely would you have to be
ENOUGH FUCKING WHINING JUST BURST THROUGH HIS DOOR SCREAMING LIKE THE BEERBARIAN AND TALK TO HIM DON'T PUSSYSHIT THIS FUCKING TALK IT OUT WITH HIM
>>17336548
Guys wish you could be hot. Is that one, optional requirement really so much for women?
He might be dating you because he likes you as a person, not as a sex object.
>>17336510
>Is he settling?
of course. did you really ever doubt this?
>I hate myself.
why dont you stop being a faggot and make the necessary changes for you to stop hating yourself?
>>17336560
I place my bet on this.
>>17336560
That's cold comfort bc now I know when he sees girls of his preferred body type he's gonna yearn for what he secretly feels like he should have access to
Slender bodies with giant tiddy
My tiddy are average, saggy, and I have a stomach. He's not gonna stick around, if his ideal is so different from me he's clearly just dating me bc I work "in a pinch"
Looks aren't everything, just cos he faps to porn of non fatties doesn't mean he doesn't love you. He's with you for personality, obviously. Fuck, you can't be that jealous, you fat slag.
>>17336568
Youre pathetic. His porn folder doesnt talk about you behind his back .
>>17336559
No, my boyfriend finds me very hot and I find him the same. So I have that covered at least.
>>17336520
Metamucil
Search it up, thank me later.
>>17336568
As a man I can tell you that men will yearn after anything with a pussy and tits. Despite that, he might be not have any porn that looks like you because he already experiences that in real life.
>>17336559
Women who aren't attractive get treated like shit, especially by their partners
>>17336520
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>>17336521
To be fair I've thought about my gf a he'll of alot when I masturbate but she looks nothing like the porn I have on my computer. It has nothing to do with her either. I'm a hundred times more attracted.to my gf and would rather fuck her any day of the week but I don't have eporn of her and porn really has nothing to do with her.
Try not to let it get to yourself esteem. Maybe he's different but porn really has little to do with reality in a guys head. Atleast for me. I've even known gay guys who masturbate to straight porn.
>>17336595
Ugly women have to live like men.
Which would normally mean you're right about getting treated like shit by their partners, but even ugly women still get asked out and dont have to pay for stuff. So even then they have it better than any average man.
>>17336595
Maybe in comparison to attractive women, who get whatever they want whenever they want.
I'm mainly attracted to fat girls in real life and this is the type of GF I'd want, yet 98% of porn I saved is of skinny/average women. This is because its not an exclusive fetish, I don't find most BBW porn appealing, and there are far fewer image galleries of plump models than others. Most of the stuff I look at comes from tumblr, where fat girls like to show off their fat and it gets reblogged on sites like http://nudityandstuff.tumblr.com/archive
>>17336510
I have tons of porn on my computer.
Some of it looks like my GF, some doesn't.
She's skinny and she still occasionally gets insecure and says about how I want a girl with bigger tits with her.
Which is true, I would enjoy sleeping with a girl like that, but I wouldn't leave her for one.
Anyway, if you're seriously considering dumping him over this, you probably should. You need to be more secure about yourself if you're going to date someone.
>>17336510
>fatty thinks if 1 guy is settling for her that she'll be able to just walk out and find anyone better who isn't also just settling
>>17336646
>She's skinny and she still occasionally gets insecure and says about how I want a girl with bigger tits with her.
>Which is true
So cruel
either you are dumb as shit or this is your first relationship, everyone likes different things, my bf likes milf porn im not gonna go of and be like omg im not milf fuck him does he love me, your bf is with u cause he is attracted to u if not he would leave, just because he doesnt see fat lady porn doesnt mean hes not into u fuck dumb ass
>>17336735
seconding this, just a bit less rude. my bf likes loli and furry porn. doesn't mean he would rather date a little girl or an animal (that's what roleplay is for). porn is porn. don't give it too much weight OP
Are we just ignoring the fact this bitch started a thread without an image ?
>>17336761
she probably put one from the porn folder and it got deleted.
or she put the "file deleted" as pic
99% of the found porn on my boyfriend's computer are tanned girls and Asian girls with big tit's. I'm a pasty white girl with small boobs.
Don't be so insecure. Porn taste doesn't translate to IRL taste. Those forks might be what he finds the most sexually appealing, but it doesn't mean he doesn't think you're sexy because you don't match that. Most guys have a pretty big range. My boyfriend is just more of a boob than ass guy, but that doesn't mean he hates my boobs.
If it's more of an insecurity in yourself, then get fitter.
Audio maybe you should communicate to your boyfriend?
Just don't do shit like shame him for his porn or 'ban' him from it. That's just childish.
>>17336543
Yeah, you need to run like 15 miles every day of the week, and even that's barely anything at all. All the people who do REAL fitness run like 40 miles a day.
>>17336761
You can't start threads without images you dumb newfag. It got deleted because it was a picture of a topless woman.
I can't speak for your weight, but you sound paranoid as fuck.
Every guy watches porn, and 95% of us do it at least once a day. Fucking relax.
>>17336510
Just catfish his ass and find out if he'd cheat on you. If he arranges to meet your catfish, just show up and dump his ass.
>>17336980
Your life depresses me.
When my gf found my porn collection she also asked me why none of the girls looked like her. Honestly, i dont think men, at least i dont, think a lot about how the actresses look.
>>17336510
Not having fatty porn doesn't mean anything except that he doesn't have a fatty fetish.
>>17336520
Then you might as well not eat.
>>17336510
He's check out pics of (presumably) hot girls with supermodel bodies and tits to good to be transplants the same way girls check out cute boys and guys with amazing faces or 6 packs.
We all want a taste of the fantasy but settle for the reality. He a decent guy for wanting a normal girl fat or not, instead of chasing the fantasy so try not to over think it.
>>17336520
and this is why fat girls are a red flag
>>17336595
that is bullshit and you know it. ugly girls can still pull dates like the OP and she is ugly. meanwhile their is more male virgins then female virgins and get rejected way more.
>>17336548
I'm a guy and I only MasterCard to the one girl iv been in love with for 10 years, cause she's the most attractive to me. Unfortunately she's not my girlfriend, just friends.
There are two points to address here OP.
First. If your bf loves you he'll stay with you. Us men only watch porn to get our funny bits tickle. He doesn't think you're unattractive, he sees those girls as objects. You're a person to him, which is far more important. Oh and you should probably watch a bit of porn yourself, and you should also watch porn together. That'll make everything less awkward.
As for your weight, you're clearly a compulsive eater. Go see a doctor. If you get to lower your weight you'll feel more confident about yourself and this will take less of a hit to your self esteem.
Hey OP, this insecurity has nothing to do with the porn he watches.
You clearly don't like how you look, and that's the problem. This is the problem you need to fix. My gf is a little chubby, which is not my ideal body type. But not only are women with my ideal body type rare, but women with my ideal body type that ALSO have an amazing personality are even more rare. And this may surprise you, but personality matters in a relationship, moreso than what you look like.
Men in general have a big range. I've fapped to asians, blacks, whites, latino, thicker, skinnier, cartoon women with dicks, etc, so that's not something to be worried about. If when you have sex, he still gets off, that means he's attracted to you.
But the issue you need to deal with is the one you have 100% control over: your weight. If you don't like how you look, change it. You're the only one that can. Yes, it might be hard, and yes, you'll be hungry all of the time until your body adjusts (this will take longer than a month, so you have to be patient).
Eat no more junk food, no more soda pop, and limit sugar to less than 10g a day. Go to /fit/ too, there are some good resources there.
It's either do this, and be happy with yourself, or don't, and continue being insecure. Do you like feeling insecure?
>>17336510
If he was dating a skinny chick, he would be jerking it to chubby ones.
Seriously, don't look too much into it.
>>17337335
Lol, no way. People need to be horny to jerk off, so they jerk off to whatever gets them horny best. Yes, there are people who get the most horny over fat girls, but they're the minority.
People date who they can have and jerk off to who they wish they could have. Sometimes the two intersect, sometimes they don't.
