What are the signs, traits, behaviors, looks that make a girl see a guy as a potential problem...
Im not talking about like someone she will be repulsed by, I am asking about like the red flags girls see in guys they may or are attracted too?
I guess what I am also asking is like how girls are attracted to bad boys or whatever, but where is the cut off, what is too much, and other variables in this topic
>>17336014
Any kind of promiscuity is basically a no-go for me. I don't like any body modifications either. Drug use (including alcohol) is also a big red flag or deal breaker honestly.
Basically every red flag a /pol/lock would have for a girl, I have for guys.
>>17336014
Wearing long sleeves in inappropriate weather.
Getting attached too fast and acting lovey dovey in a short span of time is a huge turn off.
>>17336014
>if he has no male friends
>if he treats his parents like shit (especially the mother)
>if he has temper tantrums or angers easily
>if he's close with his exes or has a female bff
>if he cant take care of himself/mamas boy/lives disgustingly (I've dated guys who didn't know how to do laundry back in high school)
That all is pretty much the sane for girls though, just reversed genders. Anything else I can think of isn't specific enough to apply to men, but both sexes.
>>17336054
That perfectly describes my dad RIP
>>17336054
I agree with absolutely all of yours, but especially
>if he has temper tantrums or angers easily
This one is huge for me. I cannot be around people with bad tempers.
>>17336037
10/10
Top kek
>>17336054
>he has no male friends
this is me, check
>he treats his parents like shit
I mean everyone does at one point. Even being born is a big slap on the face for both parents involved. I guess this one is relative.
>temper tantrums
not high T enough for this, unfortunately
>exes, female bff
HAHAHAHAHAHAHA fuck off normie
>mamas boy
CHECK
Well did I pass? I mean, I have exactly (x modulo 2) if x is an even number of friends.
>>17336054
>>if he's close with his exes or has a female bff
That's just insecurity on your part.
>>17336014
I spent my 20s as something a few steps past being a "bad boy" and I have a fair amount of experience watching girls go from interested, to infatuated, to frightened.
The tipping point seems to be when it becomes clear that a guy isn't misunderstood or rebelliously flouting social convention but is rather genuinely capable of and comfortable with violating important social rules. Every girl likes a guy who will step up to someone who grabbed their ass in a bar, but when someone actually gets hurt they begin to back away.
>>17336084
Not that anon, but there are plenty of guys without female bffs and who aren't close to their exes, and plenty of girls who don't have male bffs and aren't close to their exes, so I see no problem with them having a preference for and choosing each other.
>>17336084
I don't disagree, but I've experienced a guy being friends with his ex and then he tried getting back with her during our relationship.
People aren't all the same, but being wronged makes you cautious.
>>17336037
When I was insecure about my skinniness but wanted to wear something besides polos that made me look like a kid I used to do this, now I just wear plain t-shirts.
AHAHAHA. Women don't know what they want.
>lol I don't like it when he gets angry easily?
Lots of people get angry easily. What your really saying is you probably infuriating to be around because chances are you're an entitled white American milennial who thinks the world should be handed to you on a silver platter. Any man with self-respect would slap the shit out of you if pull your new wave feminist bullshit which is why you basically described a spineless cuck to give you attention.
Sage this piece of shit thread. I really hope Islam becomes the new religion of the west, that seems to be the only thing that'll keep women in line. Seriously, it's really telling when the only thing that can deter a woman from cheating and acting like a spoiled princess is being stoned to death.
>>17336144
>insecure about my skinniness
Thats easy enough to change.
>>17336149
Son, you need help. I know, white knight go home and all that. Whatever. Anyone this worked up over poon needs to take a step back and have a good, hard look at how his life got out from under him.
>>17336152
Insecurity or skinniness?
I don't want to get fat so I don't see how it'd be easy to change the latter.
>>17336152
no it isn't bro I've been lifting at the Planet Fitness for 2 months now and I'm more skinny fat then ever fuck you
>>17336149
This is b8 but there are men who throw little tantrums when things dont go their way or they are shitty at a vidya game
Things that have nothing to do with women
>>17336159
White knight go home.
>>17336161
Skinniness. Hit a gym hard and eat more food. If you're having trouble with lean mass, hire a trainer for a few sessions so you can learn how to encourage hypertrophy. If you want to shortcut look into SARMs.
>>17336167
If we went back to the good old days (or the Middle East now) where men could just slap ho's to keep them in line, that'd be great
>>17336171
Don't got money for that, I could apply for food stamps like a nigger but I can't get gym stamps.
>>17336149
lol he thinks sand niggers don't cheat
women who can read and drive is totally overrated
>>17336166
>Planet Fitness
Theres your problem. Find an old fashioned gym. Avoid machines (cable machines are fine), focus on dumbbells and barbells, hire someone to teach you proper form on deadlift, bench, squat, and clean. Look into your diet. Accept that its going to take time. Ask the huge guys for help and be clear about your goals, most of us are happy to see someone making an effort.
>>17336149
>throws a temper tantrum at women not liking temper tantrums
>>17336149
ayyyyeeee
>>17336173
Are you even replying to my post or are you just spewing shit you learned from being on /pol/ all summer?
Long time lurker, first time poster
I go through severe bouts of rage and depression due to being raised in an abusive environment
I suppose I fail your little checklist
>>17336210
I'm posting the truth so some lad stumbles upon my Wise Words of Wisdom and becomes Redpilled instead of brainwashed into some liberal cuck by the women here who are purposely misleading young men by telling them stupid shit.
To 17330654
>>17336159
Hello Chad
you've never been deprived of "poon" like a rich man has never been deprived of a hot meal
a person who has starved to death his entire life will appreciate food in a way that no millennial yuppy white girl will.
mcfucking kill urself basically haha
>>17336240
economist here.
your driving up the commodity cost of vagina.
stop that.
>>17336231
You're saying a lot of words that don't mean what you think they mean.
>>17336269
Shut the fuck up and listen to me. Nothing is more right and natural than an angry cocky nadculine man conquering female energy through domination and aggression.
>>17336274
You lost me. Gr8 b8.
>>17336037
>>17336144
i wear long sleeves whenever i can. i feel like sometimes all women see are my jacked forearms from lifting and bmx. my body is definitely more vascular than the average fit guy at 10%. i'm on creatine and i drink a ton of water aside from that substance anyways because of this dry desert. so all of this stacks on to me being more vascular by default.
if i wear a plain tshirt i feel like i'm showing off.
>>17336245
>implying vagina isn't priceless to non-chads
i didn't want it this way but it wuz
this aint a free market
>>17336080 (you)
>fat
>ugly facial hair
>bad style
>>17336080
>i arrived at work and when i got inside i said my hellos.
>this one slightly older chick thought i was acting like an asshole towards her
>simply because i wasn't talking to her throughout the day
>instead i was doing my work like a worker.
>another time a different female co-worker thought i was angry
>once again, doing my work and not talking to her
>every time she walked by she had to add in some comment
>she called me out on it and made a whole scene.
>it got to the point where she would literally whine and say,
"Anon, say something-uh...!" *storms until out of sight*
>she told basically everyone so that they would take her side of whatever was bothering her.
another time yet another female co-worker.
>she walks in through a set of doors in the building
>we turn and lock eyes for 0.3 seconds and she looks down at the ground
>i greet her at a normal sound level. doesn't hear it but i thought she did.
>so we stand in the area, meh for me, awkward for her.
>later on i hear her say to another chick reaalllly loud so i could hear her, "blah blah when i went back there? he didn't say anything? and it was reeeally awkwaaaarrrd?" <--- that's how she talks.
>>17336149
>people-actually-think-like-this.jpg
>>17336399
Thanks for the (You), but you really need to learn how to greentext lol.
Your post is unreadable to 99% of 4chan.
>>17336028
Good luck getting anything but pump and dump guys for the rest of your life.
>>17336347
You're an underaged permavirgin who needs to stay on /r9k/.
>>17336628
>underaged
no
>permavirgin
Don't fucking shame me, whore.
>>17336014
>is fat
>dresses like a slob
>makes less than 100k a year
>drives a shitty car
>has less than 2 dicks
For me
>neglects his body and health
>can't hold a conversation
>is an asshole
>has opinions on shit he knows nothing about
>works in finance or business management
>is a libertarian
>is strongly religous
>brags about sexual exploits
>smartass
>completely detached from his family(unless he has a real reason to be)
>follows trends
>spends money frivolously
>insecure about masculinity
>strongly hates some group of people
>isn't open to new ideas
Am I too picky ?
>>17336625
Kek, I'm in a happy LTR. Sorry to disappoint you.
>>17336663
He's cheating on you. You sound like a completely entitled bitch.
>>17336637
/adv/ is for people who want to be helped. /r9k/ is for those who do not, and only want to whine about life being unfair. You belong to the latter. Now go back to being a fat autistic neet on /r9k/.
>>17336670
implying you Chad'ing it up on /adv/ while people are genuinely lonely and suicidal is much better
kys
you have facebook, instagram, twitter, etc.
give us this sanctuary.
Uses 4chan or reddit
Says shit like he "kinda hates women-- b-but you're different!"
Excessive video games, especially weeaboo ones and dating sims/vns /whatever
Spends on expensive items while either being in debt or using bill money
Furries
Porn addiction
Having ever cheated or helped someone else cheat knowingly
Using words like sjw, normies, ___fags or any 4chan or internet vernacular in regular conversation
Secretive about small stupid shit
Bragging about Internet escapades like trolling forums or shit posting like it's impressive
>>17336657
Not really but kinda.
It's odd you would choose business/finance as an issue. I'm literally none of those things listed except I'm in business. Not everyone shares the same philosophy in business.
>>17336679
Didn't you notice you're on the wrong board? Your "sanctuary" is /r9k/. Or actually, even better, get off this site and go to wizchan.
>>17336686
You're on the wrong site.
>>17336685
Same here. I work in business/finance. She doesn't sound very knowledgeable about the world though, I doubt she's anything but below average in a world full of available girls.
>>17336688
Why not take the good /adv/ice you have been given?
drinks craft beers
libertarian
is an app developer or really has any job related to the tech scene
has ever used tinder
these might just be problems here in boston though
>>17336685
>>17336689
You are right, I may be unjustly discriminatory to you guys. I just have bad experiences with business/finance people, and I'm a poorfag, so maybe I do have some kind of sour grapes complex
>>17336668
>being this buttblasted about some stranger's preferences on the internet
>>17336695
Why not fuck off to facebook and other sites that were actually created for you.
Why is your hatred of the introverted and socially awkward so intensely seething that you have to invade what few havens they have just to ruin them too? Will you not be happy till everyone you deem as "not normal" like you has killed themselves from the extensive endless persecution and bullying? I hope you realize even if that happened, you'd just have to find some other group of people to hate and fuel your sadistic witch hunts.
>>17336707
How many times must it be spelled out for you? You're on the wrong board. Posts like yours belong on /r9k/. You're not here to ask or give advice. If you change your mind then great.
>>17336063
> tfw oneitis rejected me in favor of some autists who regularly ragequits at everything
Such is life of the beta
>>17336686
/r9k/ is flooded in excess by Staceys and Chads alike. My god, never seen such a massed concentration of failed normalfags, miscers, tumblrettes, and above all and in the greatest majority amongst any board, real live redditors.
/r9k/ attracts the highest normalcy population because normals love the illusion of self-deprecation, because it bolsters their pathetically shallow selves. This is where they go to share "cringe" stories when it's really just a front for anonymous bullying.
It sounds like you frequent /r9k/, desu. A true robot who lived there a long, long time ago would know that /r9k/ died many years ago. What remains is actually the most cancerous board on 4chan by a long margin, worse than /b/ ever was. Where you belong, actually.
>>17336713
You're the one who isn't willing to take advice.
>>17336696
Seconding these
>>17336722
You sound like one of those newfags who complains that 4chan won't adjust itself to be like you. If you have a problem with that, you can always create your own subreddit or infinitychan. Or go to wizchan.
4chan has always been a normie site, when you were still in diapers. Never a safe haven for the worst losers of humanity.
>>17336696
How are those red flags?... I'm all of those except libertarian.
>>17336730
>wizchan
I was there when it was wizardchan
which wasn't even that long ago.
>calling me a newfag
Buckle up kid, I can smell the Reddit on your cheetos-dust-covered fingertips all the way here from my own computer. You probably learned about 4chan from /r/4chan getting featured or something.
>4chan has always been a normie site
Nope. It was established as an alternative site for fans of Japanese anime. I came here around 2007-8 as a /b/tard and I learned my place as a retarded underaged newfag. These days newfags don't even lurk anymore. They just want to post-ironically "meme" like the cool cats at Reddit do.
Anyways, my memory ain't so good but /r9k/ used to be a pretty damn good board. Low traffic, high tripfags. For "gentlemen." Don't even know why I'm telling you this, you probably don't even care.
This applies to women as well, but these are things I look out for:
>picky eater
Not including allergies or vegetarians/w.e(assuming they're not annoying about it)
>argumentative
>shut down other people's ideas
Ex: friend had an ex who'd bitch and moan about doing anything that wasn't something he immediately thought might be interesting or fun which goes to
>doesn't like to try new things
It's fine if you don't like something, but at least try. Said ex bitched and moaned about several events before he actually went and tried and had fun, continued to botch and moan unless it was something he wanted to do
>unwilling to compromise
Said friend would compromise and do things he wanted to do, but he never did the same for her except said three times in 6 years of dating
>whines or tries to guilt into sexual things
Whining isn't sexy, and trying to make someone feel bad until they give in isn't going to do anything good for a relationship.
There's a big difference between that and "hey I really want to try X" and discussing through it like an adult if they're uncomfortable. Then you decide if it's something you can't go without if they don't want to do it. Sexual compatibility is important, but you shouldn't try to make your partner compatible if there's no agreeable compromise.
>appearance
Don't dress like a slob. A set of business casual "uniforms" are excellent if you don't care about fashion or have no sense of style.
Make sure things fit properly, and get a flattering haircut and clean facial hair.
Look like you give at least enough shit to be presentable when you're going out.
That faded graphic t shirt and cheap I'll fitting jeans make you look like an unkept child. If you don't look like you have a little bit of pride, no one week respect you. Don't be a slob.
>>17336696
My profession is craft beer and this makes me sad
>>17336014
>girls
>on 4chan
This isn't /soc/ m8
>>17336736
You're lying. You've come here maybe a year ago and found you belong with your fellow losers on /r9k/. You didn't even know what the robot was. And now that cancer is being eradicated, you're all butthurt.
What I don't get is how you suddenly visited /adv/ and decided to try to make it your own safe space. Maybe the sticky gave you the idea.
You are not asking for advice nor giving it. Therefore your posts do not belong here.
>>17336742
Not that poster but I tend to agree, from my experience with men who were "enthusiasts"
Sorry man, I'm a tea kind of grill
>>17336746
/adv/ has one of the higher concentrations of girls actually. It's always been one of the more normal boards.
>>17336751
If a girl is straight-edge, that's a huge red flag right there.
>>17336750
Stop projecting. Does it seriously bother you that some people have been on this site for almost a decade? I've literally grown up with this site. Had my first sexually-confused wanks here. Experienced my le ebin trolling days on /v/ and /b/. Had my /fit/-phase. Now i'm mostly on /out/, /n/ and occasionally /ck/, /lit/, and /adv/. It's called growing up anon, but unfortunately I'm still here so I can't really be all that grown up now, can I.
>>17336742
That's a positive! Brewing is cool! If you're a craft beer "enthusiast" though, its a red flag, since you're probably an insufferable liberal hipster.
>>17336742
Not them. Personally I've never had a good craft beer and I have no interest in it.
However a guy/girl with a hobby they enjoy is attractive.
As long as you're not an annoying twat hipster about it, it's all good. Also if it's your only hobby or main thing you talk about, then you need to reach out and broaden your horizons.
That goes for any hobby/"enthusiast"
>>17336754
>/adv/ has one of the higher concentrations of girls
>one of the more normal boards
dat "coincidence"
>>17336756
I'm not straight edge, that's a pretty wild assumption from very little indication
People are allowed to have preferences. I prefer guys who don't drink or smoke, because I personally find it nasty. It has nothing to do with being straight edge.
>>17336741
>argumentative
>I'm right even if I'm wrong, and I am going to be a bitch about it when proven wrong
FTFY
>>17336766
I've actually been here since the beginning. You're acting like a newfag. 4chan has never been a safe space for what later became robots. I don't know why you have to make stuff up.
>>17336741
>>17336054
All of these, and:
>doesn't look at me when we talk
>takes everything I say personally
>always agrees with me
>"oh I hate all women but you"
>gets attached easily
>compliments me all the time with generic compliments
>>17336869
>oh I hate all women but you
>compliments me all the time with generic compliments
>>17336696
Why app developer?
Why tinder?
Should i stop writing that i design apps on my tinder?
>>17336657
>strongly hates some group of people
Is it realy such a big problem that i hate pedos and murders... Again be careful here.
>smartass
Aka corrects you? There is a wide range on this and its darn dangerous if you dont accept any criticizesm
>is a libertarian
"Libertarians seek to maximize autonomy and freedom of choice, emphasizing political freedom, voluntary association, and the primacy of individual judgment."
I um ok.. i thought these ideas were relativly G.
>has opinions on shit he knows nothing about
I find this a double edged sword. You obviously cant know everything but to claim that you cant have opinions about it... I dont like the way you phrased it i suppose...
>Anyhow more trying to say your list is concerning... Its extreemly vague but makes you sound like a bit of a control freak. Suppose i would say yeh just a bit picky.
After all your a hippocrit on your last point if your not open to what he might think/do.
>>17336657
>works in finance or business management
Mad you got pumped and dumped by a wall street alpha?bahahaha
I'm honestly surprised no femanons haven't said "lives with their parents after 24" or somewhere around 24.
I'm not sure if it varies outside of the US when a guy should gtfo of their mom's basement.
Or maybe it's imply with how much money women expect men to make.
>>17337137
In europe (northern) it's around 20.
>>17336028
You sound boring.
It's not exactly a red flag but if a guy isn't into oral, I know the sex is not gonna be a great time
>>17336054
>if he's close with his exes or has a female bff
>EXES
>FEMALE BFF
If he's introverted. Dont want to deal with that
>came here to read about red flags.
>end up reading about autism and /r9k/
meh. i can take it. keep it coming, guys.
Sexist jokes (different political views in general)
Being rude to random people (waiters, old people)
Flirting too much, being too much of a people pleaser (yet I was once in a relationship with a guy like that)
Having feelings in the past for a girl he's still close friends with (unfortunately I found this out only after I started dating my current bf, I wouldn't date him if I knew that before, now he's extremely faithful and in love with me but I'm an insecure pathetic fuck so it's difficult lol)
No friends of any gender (I think friends are very important in life and I managed to have quite a few with my social anxiety, so I'm suspicious of people who don't have any)
>>17336657
Are these red flags? Or just turnoffs?
How is libertarian a red flag? Smartass? Follows trends?
What are these flags for?
>>17336014
Too many one night stands. Going to strip clubs way too often. No real life goals. Like "I want to be a proskater" or "I want to rap." Like, I mean, if their hobbies you love, that's cool. But I don't like guys who assume they'll get rich or famous quick.
A bajillion followers on social media you don't know. Anyone who treats their parents disrespectfully. Although there are some exceptions if you're parents were abusive. Reckless spending habits. Obsessed with brand names or in general, appearance overall.
Drug use that exceeds the occasionaly use of marijuana. Drinking to an extent is fine, but if you're borderline alcoholic or *need* alcohol to have fun, no.
Clingy, obsessive, possessive are just a straight no. I'm very open about expectations from the get go. I know some girls like it, but if you tell me you love me in the first 6 months even, I'm just like how. As far as anger issues, I can handle that. I'm easily frustrated too. But when it reaches red flag zone is if he takes it out on me when it's not about me, if he needs drugs/alcohol to calm himself, or if it's constantly every day, it's too draining.
Either a deep closeness, or a deep hatred for exs just implies to me that their are still strong feelings.
25/F here, obviously this list applies to guys my age. College kids need not panic.
Annoying little red flags you notice right away:
>Drives a piece of junk car. Old is okay, unreliable/falling apart is not
>Asks you to spot him/borrow money to pay for date
>wears basketball shorts or flip flops on a date
>bad breath, bad hygiene
>loud chewer, talks with food in his mouth
>constantly texting or looking at phone on a date
>Doesn't make any decisions, constantly asking you what you want to do/where you want to eat, it's always "I don't care, it's whatever you want."
>references memes in conversation
>wears anything with a pokemon or anime reference on it in public (at home is fine)
>flirts with other girls around me
Deal breakers:
>Done with school for months, still no job
>Never went to college and has no plan to support himself in the future, okay with working at a gas station/grocery store forever
>Drug addict
>Doesn't know how to take care of himself, mamas boy, depends on parents for food/laundry/money
>Fat (sorry)
>>17337407
Just realized I used the wrong "there/their/they're" like two times. Sorry, I'm tired.
>>17337326
I don't know about that... Woman have told me they value a man who can still be on friendly terms with an ex. It's a sign of emotional maturity.
>>17336054
>if he treats his parents like shit (especially the mother)
Kys
This thread made me realize women are boring as shit and only good for a one night fuck.
>>17336014
no we dont like dreadlocks
>>17336054
preach it
To all the girls against libertarians: what would you think of a Stirnerian bf? Also, is it ok if you dress nice but sometimes you put on band t shirts?
>>17337442
Why are you so insecure about spooks?
Couple questions:
1. How pathetic would it be to quit my job and move back in with family to attend school full-time at 26? I currently have a dead-end job making 30k that is full-time only, and i don't want to do it forever. Planning on studying easy-mode engineering (industrial or civil)I may get a part-time job for some extra cash too. Parents giving free room+board if I go back.
2.if I do it what's the best way to get rid of my furniture? I have a bedrooms worth that I would no longer need for the next few years.
3.should I do it? Restart completely in community college in my mid 20s? I have the aptitude for it, but maybe 2 years in tradeschool might be better. I already have credits piled up from the last time i tried about 6 years ago, so it's probably a year less of schooling.
I'm anxious about it.
>>17337530
Oh hey, that was meant to be a new thread, but anyone who wants to answer feel free
>>17337535
Hahaha well since you posted...
1. If you're only making 30k at a dead end job, DO IT. That sucks and you don't want to spend your life doing that! Absolutely go back to school and secure a better future for yourself! You will be so happy that you did.
2. You can either:
A. Sell as much as you can, for as much as you can. Craigslist, tagsale sites online, OfferUp
B. Store it, but only if you think you'll want it when it's time to move back out. Keep it in your parent's attic or basement if you can or you'll have to rent storage space somewhere.
3. 26 is not that old, and you should definitely take advantage of the fact that you can live with your parents for free while going back to school. Go back full-time and after 2 years of community college, try to transfer into a good university near you. You might have to commute up to an hour but it will be worth it if you have a degree from a better school. Do as well as you can, make friends with your professors, so when you graduate they will forward emails from companies to you who are looking for new grads to hire.
I'm speaking from experience. It might be miserable but it will make you a better person and you will be so happy you went through that when you're living on your own, making decent money and working at a job you love.
>>17336028
What are you black
https://youtu.be/GbCgQKHUhQc
OP wants us to see red flag, but black lives want you to see false flags, i want you to see sticks and stones
>>17336054
What if he has male friends, but he only sees them once every few years?
What if he doesn't treat his parents like shit, but rather just avoids them?
What if he angers easily, but does not ever become violent?
I am an attractive guy who has had several LTR's (including now), but I never realized these were a big deal. I think all of this stems from my general disinterest and impatience when it comes to people. The good news is I can fake it in my career so I make over $100K a year in a people profession.
>>17336014
Smoking cancer sticks
>>17336637
ok sorry wizard
man i miss Gattuso
he was so volatile
>>17337312
Sadly we can't all have the exciting life of raising an autistic child, namefag.
>>17337567
Only 2%, so yes. Pay me my reparations whitey.
The biggest red flag for me is a guy who is trying to go way too fast. I once met a man who seemed really charming and kind, but immediately went overboard trying to have the most serious relationship. On the first date he told me he loved me, and needed to know my last name so he could put me on his insurance as his spouse. Holy crap, you just met me, slow down and let us get to know eachother before you start acting like we're going to get married. That date could not end fast enough.
>>17338129
yes.... the azzurri have not been the same without him and are solely lacking a player of his stature
Also.... Thanks to you idiots who hijacked my thread with your pissing matches.... I asked for opinions from girls, not for guys to get involved and go to war....
also no one really anwsered the question in regards to how one should walk the line between crazy and being a "bad boy"
don't act like you dont want a "bad boy"
its historically proven that its a requirement.
Instead i got a thread where girls list their preferences which is not what i asked for.
>>17338134
>>17336149
It's so easy to tell who the ignorant fucks are when they overreact like this.
>being cruel to animals
>rude to people he doesn't need anything from or perceives as below him
>he habitually dates significantly younger women
>not being able to respect self described boundaries - you say that you seriously dislike/are scared of some everyday thing, and he amps it up (including under the guise of "really, you have an issue with -this-?"), tickling is a common example
>disrespecting sexual boundaries (trying to take off the condom without you realizing, "accidentally" doing things you told him not to anyway)
>every fight or issue he describes boils down to others victimizing him for no reason at all
>lots of short term friends, but no long term friends
>he doesn't have anything good to say about any of his exes (provided it's multiple, one is too little to go by)
>he does a 180 when drunk and becomes aggressive and cruel towards you
>when he fucks up he is more concerned with convincing you ("I don't know what came over me, this is not who I am, please forgive me") than with chewing on the fact that he did this in the first place and where that came from
>he dislikes all of your friends and/or family members with no or weird petty reasons
>he tries to discourage you from bettering yourself or from pursuing your own hobbies
>>17336274
>domination and aggression
But definitely NOT rape right? Cause that sounds like you're sort of advocating doing that to someone
>>17336014
I asked my wife and my sister something along these lines before, they came up with these (pretty quickly):
>fat
>no hobbies
>unemployed
>agency worker
>any job that doesn't progress into a career
>fedora
>trench coat
>clingy
>quick to inform about sexual preferences
>cartoon/TV/band t shirts
>uses drug
>ever been gay/bisexual
Keep in mind that we are in our mid 20's, so I don't know how relevant this is to the younger viewers in this thread.
>>17336657
Do you not like a dude who brags about his sexcapades because it makes it harder for you to cuck him?
>>17336754
>implying women normalize anything instead of just crying like bitches about everything
>>17338542
Would you like it if a girl was blatant about all the studs she fucked and expected you to be impressed to top it off?
>>17337380
>different political views
muh feminism, muh oppression, muh "open" relationship with Tyrone, Jamal, Ray Ray and Demarcus
Literally just become a lesbian because no man worth his salt is going to waste time on someone like this
>>17338540
>Didn't mention "bad self confidence", "short".
all of these will be some variation of
>has money
>is not fat/pref ripped
>doesn't talk to girls except for me
>has to have hobbies, but cant be too good at them or less attention for me
>has to have several girls interested in him but his loyalty to me is unwavering
Basically 1. have money 2. be good looking enough to get other girls attention 3. be a social doll for a girl to use as a status symbol for what she can gain from her personality/looks.
>>17336085
>genuinely capable of and comfortable with violating important social rules
That is, he is a genuine asshole to everyone.
Why would anyone want to be with such a person?
>no male friends or he's friends with exes
>feminist
>picky eater
>doesn't like animals
that's all i can think of
>>17336696
>doesn't like craft beer
faggot
>>17336736
/r9k/ was never good, there's a reason why it was deleted
>>17336742
Don't listen to these limp wrist faggots and keep brewing
>>17338611
Let's all love Lain
>hates a group of people
>is religious
That is literally you whore.
>has opinions on whit he knows nothing about.
So, like 99.99% of the human population?
>>17338561
no i wouldn't date the slut in the first place.
Both sexes should be slutshamed, its not something to be proud of
>is a nigger o r not white
>>17336084
You clearly haven't been with someone who has those traits or even herd of a friend having a partner with those traits because 9 times out of 10 they will leave you for the other person.
I'm detecting Virgin
>makes sexist remarks or refers to females he knows by name as just "woman"
>blames any personal flaws as being "women problems"
>miserable
>extreme hatred for specific types of people
>le internet bully (casual shitposting is fine though, I guess)
>2D women over 3D women meme
>lack of empathy in general
just blatant sexism or racism in general. a little is okay. a lot is not. i know this is a lot of nitpicking but i have given every guy who i've met on 4chan with these traits the benefit of the doubt and they have all turned out to be sociopaths who have stalked me and doxxed me at some point. watch out for crazy fuckers.
>>17338491
Okay that's literally an abusive partner, so yeah stay away from that shit
>>17338740
>what if that's his way of speaking? hippies do it all the time with MEN
>what sexist remarks? Kitchen and Sandwich ones?
>We're all miserable on the inside, including you
>Different strokes for different folks, even you have some hatred within you for some people
>well, ok
>Now that's just his preference when it comes to you having a headache. A man's gotta relieve himself somehow
>Eh, fair enough, empathy is a dying race and we need as much members as possible to keep it from dying
>Nonetheless, we're in this site, which barely has any
>In this world, this world is a world
But anyway, it's understandable not to call a dude a mooley, a wob, a chink, a jap, a spic, or whatever other fun terms. However, it's funny to say those things. mooley is pretty funny, and so is chinkwob.
But okay, I know not of who you are, but...
>dating on 4chumps
>4chumps
>dating
This was your first mistake. I advise you to not do that again.
I judge a guy by the company he keeps. If his friends treat women poorly or cheat on their girlfriends then it is a dealbreaker to me. You are a sum of the company you keep. Whether you realize it or not you will take on their traits, so you'd do well to surround yourself with positive influences.
Also, if he treats his family poorly. If I'm to eventually become his family, that's how he'll one day treat me.
Femanon here who has large group of female friends so this one might get a little complex
>drug addict
>too serious
>too opinionated
>doesn't listen
>gets aggressive easily
>is too distant (emotionally speaking)
>bad fashion (you want someone you can show off to your friends)
>bad hygiene (seriously this ones a killer)
>too flirtatious with others
>brony
>furry
>complains a lot (seriously a girlfriend is not your psychiatrists)
>(this one will piss some people off) merchandise collection, whether it's gaming or anime related (if you have that shit hide it when she first comes over unless she's into it too)
>waifus
>doesn't know how to cook or clean
>controlling
>message harassment (multiple messages without a response)
>too many exs (shows you're not good in a relationship)
>can't afford to live by himself
>gaming too much (because in the end it will affect your relationship)
>sexist (duh)
>morbidly obese (skinny and fat is okay but one time this guy liked me and he had a really attractive face but he was obese which put me off)
Obviously not all females will be like this and generally the uglier the female the more tolerable she is to men like this
There you go OP hope you're happy
>>17336054
I'm replying to these
>>17336080
>>17336084
>>17337326
Do any of you know what a red flag actually is?
>>17336028
>Drug use (including alcohol)
Are you talking about getting shitfaced, or are you lumping in the guy who has a beer or two with dinner as well?
>>17338772
>bad fashion (you want someone you can show off to your friends)
I've always wondered what this even entails. Obviously ragged clothing is a no go, but past that what do you have in mind?
>>17338787
I don't even drink caffeine, baby. There's a reason why Mormons look damn good even when they reach 70.
>>17337395
I think shes just describing her ex haha
>>17338785
Do you know what a red flag actually is?
>>17338803
If you start off with an ugly face you won't look "damn good" either way, even as a teen.
>>17338809
Yes, here's a definition
> :a warning sign : a sign that there is a problem that should be noticed or dealt with
>>17338810
I guess that's why you drink then. Nothing to lose.
>>17338815
Then why having a female bff or being friend with an ex be one?
Do you expect people to never be friends again after a break up?
A man being close to a woman and not being in a relationship is bad because?
>>17338816
I like how you didn't deny you're ugly. I'm not ugly, I'm actually quite good looking and I don't drink caffeine or alcohol. I was just commenting because I assume your looks are compatible with the picture you just posted, reminiscent of a troll.
>>17338795
A couple come to mind:
>the autistic gamer
White wash jeans, ugly trainers, anime or gaming r shirt and the worse is some sort of hat with pins and badges on it (I fucking cringe)
>the half-assed steampunk
As the name entails half normal clothes half 'steampunk accessorised'
>the greasy Italian
Wet look hair, something from g-star, grossly 'bling' accessories
>the hillbilly
Basketball shorts, tank tops, backwards hats, socks pulled up high
Just dress like you're at least fashion, nice shirts, nice jeans, nice shoes followed by coat or hoodie it's really not that hard
>>17338828
>a warning sign
It's not always a "dump the psycho" type of situation, it's just something you have to be weary of.
>>17338846
Yeah, why? That's what i don't get.
The only reason i see for it to be a red flag is insecurity on the girl's end.
Flirting too soon.
Always a bad sign. Always.
>>17338836
>basketball shorts
>tank tops
...what if it's hot out?
>>17338850
Well there are plenty of stories of male and female promiscuity with their "best friend" or ex that backs this insecurity up.
>>17338858
Tank tops are okay if you have the body for it but basketball shorts are only good if you've literally just come back from playing sports otherwise get yourself a normal pair of shorts to wear
>>17338835
>I assume your looks are compatible with the picture you just posted
Y-you're saying I'm as cute as Ritsu, anon? Thank you so much, but I'm sorry, I'm taken.
Also, good on you for not using drugs. I hope you find an SO like that if you haven't already.
>>17338828
>Then why having a female bff or being friend with an ex be one?
Because a lot of people have poor boundaries. There have been a lot of examples where people get drunk as an excuse and make a "mistake".
My best friend is a woman but I understand it might make a woman I'm dating uncomfortable. Accordingly I make reasonable gestures to help her feel more comfortable about it, sometimes something as just letting her see what you guys are talking about can go a long way. A red flag isn't a deal breaker, it's just something someone might be concerned about without more information.
>>17338836
That's reasonable, every time I just heard that phrase I just thought the woman had something more flashy in mind. People have told me a few times I "dress like a dad" and I've never been sure how to feel about that. Jeans, button up plaid shirt, that kind of stuff.
>>17338861
There are even more stories of promiscuity with random strangers; does that make meeting new people a red flag too?
>>17338851
is doing that to her online after a few days of talking too soon?
>>17338803
rip in pieces
I understand why people would be uncomfortable with someone who drinks until they're acting like an idiot, but complete restriction seems a bit overkill.
>>17338863
I assumed you were male, I like cute males so I have no problem with you being as cute as the retarded female.
>>17338873
Didn't your mother ever tell you not to talk to strangers?
>>17338879
Good thing there are also guys out there who don't drink out of their own free will so no restrictions on either end are necessary.
>>17338881
Are you even following the thread lol KEEP UP SHORT STUFF
>>17338872
Yeah but having a female friend tells nothing about you, a red flag is.something that gives you info on that person's personality or lifestyle; in fact being friends with an ex is a good thing, it means a person knows how to deal with losses without going belic.
>>17338872
>As long as they're dark jeans and not super pale
>plaid shirts are good due to the whole 'lumberjack' look being in fashion
>depends on shoes if you own trainers never wear them apart from their intended purpose which is sport
nicely dressed man is a real good sign to women
>>17338885
I don't really care enough about you to read all your posts. I want a cute boyfriend now.
>>17338886
>Yeah but having a female friend tells nothing about you
It means you're very close to a woman. It may be harmless, or they may be entirely inappropriate. The red flag is that ambiguity until you get more information. If it's established that the relationship has healthy boundaries, it's no longer a problem.
Come on dude this is simple stuff.
>>17338894
I hope you get one. It really truly is the best.
>>17338886
Since I've only known people to be "friends" with their ex for sex, and I've known a few, I'd say it isn't usually a good thing.
>>17338772
I guarentee youre a hypocrite who expects things she cant offer.
Fuck off and die.
>>17338895
>being close to a woman is bad
C'mon, that's so much insecurity, you can do this to almost anything from skin color to shoe size.
>>17338904
You can't have an inappropriate relationship with your shoe, probably.
You definitely can with a woman. Again, the red flag is not knowing if that relationship has healthy boundaries or not. Stop being purposefully dense.
>>17337410
>Done with school for months, still no job
"Oh, get a job? Just get a job? Why don't I strap on my job helmet and squeeze down into a job cannon and fire off into job land, where jobs grow on little jobbies?!”
>Drives a piece of junk car
same as above
>>17336279
Don't make me lick your ass hole Charlie.
>all these complaints about libertarians
I don't understand
>>17338908
>he has a male best friend
You cannot know that he is not in a relationship with the other guy, huge red flag.
See what i mean? That is shit logic fueled by insecurity.
>>17338903
Oops looks like I hit a nerve there anon
What I basically described is a neckbeard basement dweller that lives with mom and since my post angered you so much you must relate to what I've said?
>fuck off and die
I'll tick off aggressive for you ;)
This thread is hilarious. Women's dating checklist is for guys they aren't very attracted to, and are merely willing to settle for..."maybe".
If a girl thinks you're hot enough, nothing else matters, I've been unemployed, living with my drunk uncle and scored with non-fat women who have money...they just thought i was hot, and that's all that mattered.
Basically, if you're not an 9/10 guy, you just need to shop around a lot, and this is key "make sure its in person" the animal magnetism doesn't work online, you need to be sitting there so they can smell you and stuff. Girls who think "i'd only date a doctor or lawyer" will settle for a garbage man, if you are hot enough for them. They don't think logically like men. lol.
>>17336683
>doesn't want to date someone on 4chan
>she posted on 4chan
Ok
>>17338942
I'd like to believe your post senpai I really would but I think you may have just been interacting with mostly retarded chicks
>>17336014
>asks you for casual sex
>ask you to "see how we go"
>wants to have threesomes
> asks you if you want to come to an orgy
>smokes weed or does any kinds of drugs, alcoholic
>isn't willing to please you, sexually or otherwise
> texts you 3 times a month and assumes you're in a relationship
>acts "macho"
>very muscular =looks gay, probably likes the male body more than you ever will
> has an earring hole/wears earrings, looks like he just came out of a rap video, isn't capable of speaking English despite growing up in an English speaking country, acts careless /animal-like in public
>>17336179
best post
>>17338967
Just because you use a website doesn't mean you want to meet the mongolodds that also use it.
See: any other website on the internet for good example
>>17336014
>has too many female friends
>starts inviting me to his house on our first date (even though he says he just wants to cuddle)
>kissing and touching too soon in a relationship (i like gradual build ups)
>gets too clingy or tries too hard too early in a relationship
>if he is arrogant or a know it all
>immaturity (this is a big one)
>neglects his health (smokes, drinks often and no exercise)
>>17337426
you are boring
>>17338910
lol did you get fingered?
>>17339248
But like won't guys also see your using 4chan as a red flag too?
>>17339284
You want a guy to be in a relationship with you without kissing?
I think you want to stop him from having a relationship, that's different.
>> He says all his exes are crazy
>> Thinks being overprotective is healthy
>> Identifies as sapiosexual
>> Gets upset when you hang around with male friends but openly hangs around with female friends
>> Lied about interests or intentions to get with you
>> Not interested in listening to your favorite album or watching your favorite movie at least once. Similarly if you hang out it's always stuff he wants to do, places he wants, food he wants to eat, music he likes.
All womyn are whores.
>is not Chad
Pretty disgusting desu
>>17337137
Might depend on the reason, sometimes people hit hard times and stuff. (Parents sick, got fired, etc)
If you're the type who never left home and is always broke then it's a red flag for both sexes really. No one wants a leech.
IF YOU HAVE A BLEEDING STINKY HOLE YOU DON'T BELONG TO THIS WEBSITE.
>>17339550
no kissing is fine but i've been in a date where they guy is kissing me every second. it got on my nerves. he wouldn't let me breathe in other words.
>>17336679
Or, just disregard comments you don't enjoy and move on with your life.
>>17336149
THANK YOU.
Women don't know what they want. Why the fuck would I get romantic advice from a woman when they only tell me what they think they want, and not what they actually respond to?
>Lots of people get angry easily. What your really saying is you probably infuriating to be around because chances are you're an entitled white American milennial who thinks the world should be handed to you on a silver platter. Any man with self-respect would slap the shit out of you if pull your new wave feminist bullshit which is why you basically described a spineless cuck to give you attention.
THANK YOU.
Anger is good though, in minute doses. Historically, we found that out in the Age of Fire! We kindled and kindled and kindled the bonfire some more until we started going into Renaissance Age, marking the evolution of the Soul of Cinder into Omnimon!
Also, don't you women like opinions? You certainly love expressing them! And men love you! I love you! I love you expressing yourself and your beliefs, and I love disputing your beliefs and I love hearing you dispute my beliefs! You know what we call that in a relationship? Compromise!
What I will dispute though, is when the fire gets too hot. If you block people on Facebook, or block people out, they will stay out of your life. I don't fuck around. Fuck me off? No worries! Fuck you and fuck off!
>Sage this piece of shit thread. I really hope Islam becomes the new religion of the west, that seems to be the only thing that'll keep women in line. Seriously, it's really telling when the only thing that can deter a woman from cheating and acting like a spoiled princess is being stoned to death.
I can see you are still kindling fire in Renaissance Age? That's fine. We in the Renaissance are accepting of views. We kind of needed to anyway, after the Christians fucked our shit up in the Dark Ages. Age of Dark. Actually...
Weren't we in the Age of Dark before? Prior to the Age of Fire? Prior to the current Renaissance?
Red flags for me is a guy who comes on way too strong way too early, a guy that can't tell he's making me uncomfortable or a guy who seems desperate. I've met a lot of bad dudes who openly complain about their moms to anyone and everyone too.
Having a lot of lady friends or a bff that's a girl doesn't bother me considering I all around love and respect girls a whole lot more than men. Hell I have a lot of guy friends too.
>>17339665
This too.
>>17338910
Says the fat, jobless, NEET as he cries in his parents basement about not having a girlfriend
Piercings in the face
Tattoos
Dyed hair
Fedora
Vegan
Hipster clothing
Feminist
Left wing
Promiscuous
Drunk
Drug user
Sympathetic towards left wing causes
Anti-capitalism
Immediately goes off about "oppression" when seeing traditional gender roles
>>17340275
Says the woman who demands way more of men than she ever does herself because she was born into life on easy mode.
>>17340382
>Dyed hair
When you say dyed hair, do you mean all colors?
Is natural hair color ok?
Just wondering
>>17336028
First post best post.
The negative replies it garnered speak volumes of the disgusting depths the morals of today have fallen into.
God damn hedonistic degenerates of no virtue plague the western world.
>>17340436
Oh? And how do you know I'm not all the things I look for in a man?
Do you think I'm some skinny, blonde, outgoing, Stacy born into a rich family? I'm posting on 4chan, retard. But I've still worked my ass off to get to where I am and make something of myself. What's wrong with expecting the same of my partner? If being a woman is easy mode and just having a vagina is desirable, then why haven't you gotten yourself an attention-starved, obese, tumblrina? Oh because you have standards? Yeahhh so do I.
>>17336657
Me being a libertarian and agreeing a lot with all the other statements, I tend to guess you mean 'furiously libertarian ideologicaly uncompromisable'
>>17340570
Man here, and I can say that with this mindset your in your right to expect as much commitment and discipline from your bf/husband.
Good luck, but I am sure you will find a nice man to settle down with. I'd be proud to have someone like you in my family.
>>17340564
>he FPBPed me
That's the nicest thing anyone has said to me all thread. Even nicer then that anon who called me as cute as Ritsu.
Keep on keeping on, anon. We need to stick together in the spicy cesspool of crime and villainy that is /adv/.
I laugh whenever a post is made in /adv/ asking girls for opinions
the average BMI in this thread is easily over 30
>>17336054
>(I've dated guys who didn't know how to do laundry back in high school)
why discard him if he can´t do the laundry?
wouldn´t you feel better to teach people stuff, so why not show him and if he still fucks up then dump him.
give instead of take
i live alone but i still bring my mum the laundry
a. because i can´t afford a washing machine atm
b. she else has not that much laundry and the machine would run half empty so it´s not cost effective
>>17340602
Because women believe relationships should consist exclusively of men doing the giving and women doing the taking.
If he's not perfect directly out of the box they're instantly not interested. Any modicum of effort she might have to do is a giant turnoff and she'd rather just wait for some better slav- I mean boyfriend to come along and ask her out.
>>17340595
>tfw BMI is 17.5
Maybe I can counteract the fatty chans ITT so the thread average will actually be normal.
Red flags or dealbreakers? They're two very different things to me.
>"I think I'm a pretty good catch to be honest."
>"I'm a perfect gentleman."
>"I'm a nice guy."
Run.
Don't stop don't ask just run.
also uncleanliness/excessive fatness (hints at poor self respect/self control)
If he's in denial about any aspect of his personality especially if it's an unpleasant feature (like if he's got a temper/anxiety/obvious ASD but absolutely insists he doesn't)
Temper tantrums
Believing the friendzone is a thing
Ignorance
If he gives pre-said responses to things or uses cliche phrases in serious or unironic contexts ("there're plenty more fish in the sea," "tomorrow is another day" etc)
When they think they're smarter than they are.
>>17340584
Ok Mr. Whiteknight, settle down now
>>17340570
Oh so you've asked men out just as many times as they've asked you and you always split every bill of every date 50/50. How noble of you guess you showed me.
I mean, you do do that don't you? Cause if not then that whole post you made would be a lie and there's no way you'd do that just to look better in an internet argument.
>>17336014
Every guy is a potential problem to a girl, and vice versa.
>>17340613
benis or bagina
>>17340641
>he doesn't know how to tell a person's sex from their skeleton
>>17340643
I highly doubt they specifically selected a skeleton picture of their gender
>>17340643
finally, a true red flag
>>17340620
>implying I am not settled already
>>17338982
I'm sorry you find it that unbelievable, its completely true. I'm neither super young and naive or really old (not with the times) so I'm confident that I know what I'm talking about. I know a ton of men, and quite a few women, and I can verify this is a universal truth for at the very least, 70+% of women. Why else would a girl marry a guy who is perfect, then cheat on him with the gardener or something? Its simply because of their non-logical animal style attraction to certain guys. They pretend to have a type or red flags, etc, but really they don't. Here's a story...
21 year old girl, came from money, was in the most expensive school in the area, did well in school, blonde, blue eyes, white, thin and athletic, looked "hot" by most peoples standards. Was full blown SJW, went to gay pride, volunteered for stuff, wanted to help the immigrants lel, etc. Was at a beach party, same time as me, she lost her shit because someone threw a paper cup in the woods (it will break down, calm your tits) went on and on about a captain-planet style lecture. How the guy was such a dick, how she hated people who did that and how they were just so ignorant and non enlightened. Guy was like "Lel, whatever, the worlds polluted who cares" she started raging about it, how he's the reason the globe is being destroyed etc... moon light comes out (keep in mind she doesn't drink) and she gets a better look at him, omg, he's ...umm...giggle... yeah they hooked up later. more than once too. lol
>>17340653
But I did though!
>>17340584
Thank you.
>>17340630
I'll be completely honest with you because fuck it. I've asked one guy out ever. Before him I had two, month-long relationships in highschool that never went anywhere because I was very shy, awkward, and unwilling to have sex. I asked my now fiancé out when I was in college. I was terrified but nobody knew me there so I had nothing to lose. I was an assistant manager at a fast food place (cool, I know) that I worked at all through high school and college, and supported him in his last year of school because his program was pretty intense. Then three years later he supported me when I was doing clinicals in school and didn't have the time or energy to work part-time. We are both working now, own a condo together, and have a joint bank account to split everything down the middle. Sometime I pay a little more because I make a little more than him, and because he still has student loans to pay off. But it's really just when we go out to dinner I'll grab the check, or I'll pay the cats vet bill when I get it in the mail with a check from my own account. We're a team so it's not an issue.
>>17340587
I simply find the modern, hedonistic, consumerist culture, where the only virtue people strive for seems to be personal pleasure, to be despicable, and one of the core reasons for why our societies have become weak, and complacent, and thus ripe for the exploitation, and conquest of hostile foreign groups.
It is like the opium the British empire forced upon the Chinese, it rots our cultural moral fabric, keeps us complacent, and blinds us to the threats that endanger the futures of our peoples. Bread and Circuses of the masses, if you will.
The worst part of it, is evident in the replies your post garnered, for people who have been enthralled into this degeneracy, will aggressively lash out, and shame anyone they see rejecting this poison. It is a disgusting, and repugnant defensive mechanism, that serves to drag other people into the same hole of filth, and keep anyone from escaping from it.
Hopefully, the coming hardships, that will tear trough europe, will wake more people to the importance of strong cultural, and national ethos, before it is too late. A strong culture is like the immune system of a nation, whereas the degenerate popular culture spread by the elites, is like HIV, it destroys the immune system, and makes the nation, and it's people vulnerable to threats that they would otherwise be able to deal with.
>overweight/underweight/unhealthy
>unresolved issues with parents
>bad hygiene
>sexist/racist
>pushover/control freak
>brown nosed
>too sensitive
>>17340549
No, I mean unnatural and crazy ass colors (pink, blue, green, etc.)
>aposematism.jpg
>>17336063
How am I meant to avoid my anger issues? I try to keep myself in check but I get set off easily. It's why I tend to avoid competitive events and games. I never get violent but I can get very angry.
>>17337410
all these apply to me
>He has no savings account or investments
>He doesn't have his own place
>He is less than 6 feet tall
>He's in a dead end job/career path
>He doesn't want kids
>He's a Trump supporter
>>17336668
Entitled bitch for not wanting a guy who fucks about and takes drugs?
>>17336053
>Ew, how dare you be interested in me you creep. Only I can show interest
Basically every woman ever. I don't fucking get it; how do you live contradicting yourself every fucking minute of your lives?
All I've learned from this thread is that for some women, just being told they're wrong and why is a "temper tantrum."
You lasses should really lighten up, you're probably not good enough to get any man to act precisely how you want them to.
>>17336657
Of course a woman wouldn't like libertarians. Our principle guarantee we'll never fulfill your fantasy of being raped.
>>17341227
Think of it like shopping.
Women tend to wander back and forth and be unsure about stuff, go to visit another store, eat, pass by the perfume shop for samples, and then get what they want, but only after visiting the restroom as well. For some reason what they want needs to be validated with lots of time and consideration and what men see as conjecture. It's as if things don't have substance or value or meaning to them unless they've gone through some fucking tribulation to get it.
Handed to her on a platter? Nope.. Doesn't want it.
Required to wait in line and crawl over a horde of other shoppers to get it at 10% off an already marked up price? Nothing will stop her from getting it.
Whereas men just want the minimal possible fuss to get what they want because they already fucking know that they want it. It has value and substance and meaning to them just by virtue of existing and being what they want.
Alas, it's the way things will commonly go unless Men decide to only put value in women once they've jumped through a whole bunch of irrelevant hoops for them.
>>17336054
>if he has no male friends
Why though
>>17341275
In your first post you basically say that women actually think before they buy. You need to stop making this complicated, it isn't. Both men and women can fit all stereotypes of either gender, there's no tricks, the genders aren't a hive mind and there is no stereotype that will fit every women.
>>17340613
Why would you be happy about being underweight? I guess the difference isn't that big as I, with a weight of 110 lb, would have to lose 5 pounds to have a BMI of 18.5 (as seen as the lowest before you get to be too skinny, I think my current BMI is 19.5-ish.
>>17340549
Why do you even care about the opinion of an obvious autist?
>>17341405
>Why would you be happy about being underweight?
Am I a red flag?
>18
>never had a job
>don't know how to drive
basically it
>>17341366
Yes. You're correct. It was a silly attempt at humour and isn't very helpful.
>>17337317
That actually makes sense. Oral is all about the giving.
Don't really understand how guys can operate that way. I'd probably be able to enjoy sex even if I couldn't feel anything because I'd enjoy making whomever I'm with feel good. Sort of like second-hand smoke/pleasure.
>>17341418
You just need a good man who can make you a good hamboigah
>>17341479
>Don't really understand how guys can operate that way.
Eh. Oral used to be something I had issues with because if we're honest genitals arent exactly pretty. I got over it as I got older though.
do girls think of guys that are car enthusiasts to the point of eating ramen for a year to build a project race car as a red flag?
