[Boards: 3 / a / aco / adv / an / asp / b / biz / c / cgl / ck / cm / co / d / diy / e / fa / fit / g / gd / gif / h / hc / his / hm / hr / i / ic / int / jp / k / lgbt / lit / m / mlp / mu / n / news / o / out / p / po / pol / qa / r / r9k / s / s4s / sci / soc / sp / t / tg / toy / trash / trv / tv / u / v / vg / vp / vr / w / wg / wsg / wsr / x / y ] [Home]
4chanarchives logo
erectile dysfunction
Images are sometimes not shown due to bandwidth/network limitations. Refreshing the page usually helps.

You are currently reading a thread in /adv/ - Advice

Thread replies: 10
Thread images: 1
File: 1467339333689.jpg (94 KB, 601x508) Image search: [Google]
1467339333689.jpg
94 KB, 601x508
So, for the past two times I've tried to have sex with my girlfriend, I just couldn't get it up.
I have no problems getting erect while alone masturbating, but since this is the first relationship I've been in, fear/anxiety
of pleasing her might be getting the best of me. I've gotten hard while with her; I'm definitely attracted to her, but when it comes
down to us both feeling in the mood to have sex, it becomes impossible for me to get hard. Anyone have advice on how to overcome/
fix my problem? Thanks in advance.
>>
Have you tried not masturbating for several days?
>>
>>17335732
I didn't masturbate 2 days in advance in hopes that it'd fix the problem the second time we tried
>>
>>17335689
Holy fuck same here I j off easy but in sex I lose my boner. I fucked a girl for 5 minutes and lost my boner and she left and never talked to me again. As soon as we started making out I got hard as fuck really fast then worrying about parents walking in and shit ruined it. Same thing happened with my last girlfriend I kept having to get hard again.

I've always kinda lost boners switching positions and putting condoms on and now I'm literally going soft inside. With the girl I was about to blow my load and I stopped for a second and went less deep and then I lost sensation kinda and it just went soft
>>
>>17335689
Maybe she got fat. In that case your penis knows it is better not to fuck her.
>>
I have the same problem if I use a condom. If I don't, I cum immediately
>>
>>17335970
I'm >>17335951

And yeah same here I either blow in a second or I lose my shit
>>
>>17335689
Sounds psychological.

Watch a lot of porn? Stop with the fucking porn for a while.

Stop thinking about having sex and just fuck already. Don't worry about who's doing what and blah blah blah, just put all the fun pieces together and see what prizes you win. It's not rocket science, people have been fucking for as long as there's been people and it's never not at least OK. Just have fun with it.
>>
It's probably performance anxiety. The first time it happens you're embarrassed, so the next time you try to make sure it doesn't happen which causes you to think about it which causes it to stay limp. Just chill and relax, you should be fine.
>>
>>17335996
So much this.
Thread replies: 10
Thread images: 1

banner
banner
[Boards: 3 / a / aco / adv / an / asp / b / biz / c / cgl / ck / cm / co / d / diy / e / fa / fit / g / gd / gif / h / hc / his / hm / hr / i / ic / int / jp / k / lgbt / lit / m / mlp / mu / n / news / o / out / p / po / pol / qa / r / r9k / s / s4s / sci / soc / sp / t / tg / toy / trash / trv / tv / u / v / vg / vp / vr / w / wg / wsg / wsr / x / y] [Home]

All trademarks and copyrights on this page are owned by their respective parties. Images uploaded are the responsibility of the Poster. Comments are owned by the Poster.
If a post contains personal/copyrighted/illegal content you can contact me at [email protected] with that post and thread number and it will be removed as soon as possible.
DMCA Content Takedown via dmca.com
All images are hosted on imgur.com, send takedown notices to them.
This is a 4chan archive - all of the content originated from them. If you need IP information for a Poster - you need to contact them. This website shows only archived content.