What can I do to finish off giving a blowjob more quickly?
>>17332588
Find out what he likes and then do that.
Use your hand and mouth simultaneously. My ex could only finish me off at all that way
>>17332588
Alot of tongue stuff. Make sure he feels your tongue, my gf flicks it up and down my shaft really fast when I get head and I finish instantly
>>17332588
Focus on the head with your mouth. Use a hand on the shaft or balls.
>>17332594
I use both hands and mouth, but still often have trouble finishing him quickly. I've been told I'm pretty good, but my bf seems to still take a while most of the time.
Bumping for more BJ tips before bed.
>>17332725
Come practice on me, qt.
I'm not sure what can be defined as quickly as I'm sure it's quiet objective but it's not just about giving head. Before hand I'd gently use my nails to rub his thighs then I'd gently touch his dick while kissing and sucking his balls until he was hard I wouldn't actually start giving him head until he was really turned on and moaning for it. When it comes to giving oral be gentle at first and use your hands and mouth rhythmically and start upping the pace you'll generally get cues of him as to when he is getting close and when he is close make sure you are going as deep as you can. I'm not one for swallowing so I'd usually let it run out of my mouth onto my breasts and rub it in to my nipples which he loves. Usually takes 10mins from foreplay to finish.
Also don't ever act like its a chore it's one way to turn a guy off and make it harder for him to cum.
>>17332754
Maybe I should have given context. I don't look at it at all as a chore. Quite the opposite
In the mornings we're always in a bit of a rush. When we wake up, he jumps in the shower while I make breakfast. After he gets out, I usually try to go down on him before he's got to leave. It takes like 20 minutes most of the time though, and often time he's either late or has to leave before I get to finish. I'd like to cut the time down some so I can actually finish him off before he's got to go.
>>17332788
breakfast and a blow job? fugg, must be nice.
my gf can't cook for shit and doesn't like giving oral. i need to up my game.
I wish I could even handle the thought of giving a bj, when I even think about it I start gagging. I feel bad for my bf, I guess I don't ask for the opposite so it isn't too horrible.
Would getting drunk be a good idea of would I just barf you think?
Sorry for asking in this thread. Seems stupid to make a new one.
I would give advice if I could, good luck OP on perfecting your technique.
>>17332801
I make a mean breakfast too.
>>17332805
No idea how to help. I've honestly never cared for being normally penetrated, but suck at every opportunity. my bf and I's sexual relationship consists pretty much entirely of oral and the butt.
>>17332603
For guys, blowjobs can be amazing or really underwhelming. And sometimes they're just really relaxing but you can't finish from it, and it all comes to how your doing it.
Like with my ex bf, sometimes when he'd give me one, he'd have his mouth open to much and the only physical contact I would get at all would just be his lips and that's it, and that doesn't feel good or intense enough to push you over the edge.
What does work, however, is making sure that your lips and tongue+ anything that isn't your teeth is having the most contact with it that you can. That legit feels crazy good.
>>17332922
>Like with my ex bf, sometimes when he'd give me one
>>17332801
You should upgrade from that jewbitch
>>17332937
i've brought up the whole oral thing recently. she said she's going to make a more concerted effort towards giving oral and more frequently.
i've heard this before. i'll shitpost on /adv/ about it if the problem persists. in all honesty, i'm probably going to just leave her if she can't follow through with this sort of stuff again.
as for the shitty cooking, i enjoy cooking. i'm teaching her what i can.
Nobody is asking the most important question: why would ever want to stop sucking your bfs dick? Or do you just really want his load.
early 20s guy here. i've had maybe 12 different girls give me blowjobs in my life. for me the best single rhythm that makes me cum the fastest is something kinda like this:
>pulling back on the shaft skin to the base
>making my head more tight and sensitive
>having my head well in the center of her mouth like a big jawbreaker
>her other hand tickling my whole sack slowly
also anyone who can deepthroat is pretty much going to be able to finish me. it's one of those skills that when you have it you also have other skills by default.
bjs to completion last 10-20 minutes for me. anything over 10 minutes is a long ass blowjob for any couple.
i have a pretty big head. when girls suck on my head like a sucker trying to do little tongue actions - i can barely feel anything and usually feel some teeth between sequences.
what they think is that they need to make out with the head. but it's completely different and requires more extreme movements than little tongue flicks and blowpops.
i don't know your morals but i highly suggest you watch some blowjob porn vids that feature the cock and just learn by watching rather than fantasizing the ideals of the subject through text.
this way we can use less faith and more of a source-worthy truth. then you can apply this to your blowjob game on your bf.
>^ 50 Shades of Grey VS. Pornography ^
I literally cannot finish from a BJ unless I intervene. Countless bjs from girlfriend and two previous encounters have gone this way.
I'll stay hard and it feels nice, but I just won't cum. No issue with gf's technique, short of being able to deep throat like a champ which is honestly a huge ask for a non-slut, I can't think of what to tell her. I think it's affecting her self-esteem, she gets pretty cut up about it sometimes.
I think it's something on my part, should I stop jerking off or something? Hold off sex until my dick "gets used" to the sensation of a bj?
Sex is absolutely fine, no problems whatsoever.
-Run your tongue along the frenulum
-Use your hands to put a bit of tension and taughtness on the shaft skin, suck or use your hand to manipulate the parts near the base of the glans
-Touch inner thigh, testicles, stomach, etc. All the stuff related to vibe and emotional connection not worth putting into words.
-Rapid short fast movements, or vibration, on the ridge of the foreskin.
>>17332788
You're doing God's work anon, your boyfriend is damn lucky to have someone as nice as you.
But, maybe you should give him oral some other time. The guy's a little stressed and getting ready to leave for work, so not the most ideal time to enjoy your SO going down on you in my humble opinion.
Just speculation. In any case, just talk to him. Communication keeps relationships working, ask him if he's too worried about leaving on time to enjoy what you're doing.
>>17333046
>I'll stay hard and it feels nice, but I just won't cum. No issue with gf's technique, short of being able to deep throat like a champ which is honestly a huge ask for a non-slut,
maybe she needs to pick up the pace if anything.
>I can't think of what to tell her. I think it's affecting her self-esteem, she gets pretty cut up about it sometimes.
definitely affecting her self-esteem. it's frustrating for both partners. i think she should use more verbal communication. but maybe it's not so common with people in their 20s and earlier.
>I think it's something on my part, should I stop jerking off or something?
yes. doing it a couple times a week in a not rough way might be the most you should do it i mean you have a gf so save your loads for her.
>Hold off sex until my dick "gets used" to the sensation of a bj?
i'd say don't try and push the bj efforts on either one of you. just go with the flow and focus on sex more than the bj situation. or just use a bj as foreplay for now.
>Sex is absolutely fine, no problems whatsoever.
you could talk with her and see if she would suck you off right before you cum from intercourse.
>>17332952
Bet you don't give oral to her :^]
