lie or no lie
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i do all the finances in the house
i've been out of work since october
>he believes i'm on pogey and have $10000 in savings
i do not, it's gone, i thought i'd be back at work by now
i can
>use his money and keep the house running until i get work (i'm on a union list, it's only a matter of time) and he won't notice or
>tell the truth and upset him but the outcome will be the same
wat do?
>>17329350
Outcome will be same what's difference if you tell him?
Tell him. Most divorces are due to a lack of financial trust between couples. Plus if he isn't willing to support you financially when you need it, why the fuck are you with him?
>>17329366
>>17329369
risk/benefit
i know he's willing to support me but i don't know if it's worth bringing up since he doesn't internet bank or even open his pay stubs so the chances of him actually figuring this out are incredibly low
i don't like lying but i also don't like upsetting people
>give me the best of both worlds
