Need advice anons...
Now i don't know why it's this way for me, but thinking of myself as/being called a "dirty slut" or "whore" or any variation of the sort turns me on a lot and makes me horny. It's almost like a trigger that automatically makes me horny. Even if it's said as an insult, but especially if it's by my partner in bed.
Now let me be clear that i don't engage in any slutty behavior (lots of casual sex, cheating, sex for money, etc.) which is why i don't understand why that's such a turn on for me.
Now my issue. My current boyfriend isn't the type of guy to call me that in bed, he's not even the type to really have rough sex (which i love. Being tied up, spanked, choked, etc.--all things i immensely enjoy) he's too much of a sweetheart. Whereas my ex would do it all the time, and i miss it. But i don't know how to express this to my boyfriend without him thinking i'm strange or crazy. I don't want him to look at me sideways.
Should i approach him about my desires? If i do, how should i go about it? What should i say? Ultimately, if it's possible, how do i turn a vanilla into a freak.
>>17328112
wud up slut u wan dis fukken dik yeh heh u lov it dont u hor
Sigh can i get some actual advice please
>>17328294
Yeah, fuck off slut
Sit down and talk to him
There's really no other option for a healthy adult relationship. He'll either understand or he won't, and if he doesn't you aren't compatible.
If you think he's going to have a kneejerk "no" reaction, ease him into some lighter stuff. Ask him to take you hard one night, harder the next. Encourage aggressive sexual behavior and be open and clear about how much you enjoy it, and when you think you've got him on board then you can talk him into stuff that requires a little more planning/prep work, like being totally tied up.
>>17328308
This is now a cat girl thread
>>17328112
You have to make your wishes known. Just try and bring it up slowly. "Hey baby, I wanna try something new, let's try dirty talk in bed, just tell me what a bad girl I am" blah blah blah till he's balls deep and trying to dirty talk you, by then if he's not giving you what you want asking him to call you a dirty slut might not be so bad.
You sloppy cunt ;)
>>17328112
Are you me?
I too enjoy rough sex and name calling but my boyfriend isn't too comfortable with it. I did bring it up one night when we were watching porn and ever since then he's been choking me every second he can.
Literally, every fucking second even if it's just a peck on the cheek he'll choke me hard as fuck and it's kind of annoying, then again my bf is immature.
Anyways OP, try bringing up the fetishes you're both into, when you mention it tell him exactly what you like and how you like it. If he loves you, chances are he'll be okay with it!
>>17328429
Omg yes i don't know why guys do that. They find out that you like something unusual and they run with it. When i hinted to my ex that i love scratching, from then in he would scratch me all the time, HARD. Just randomly throughout the day. Had to pretend like it turned me on but it was SO annoying
>>17328429
>>17328529
For all intensive purposes I think you are ALL wrong.
In an age where false morals are a diamond dozen, true virtues are a blessing in the skies. We often put our false morality on a petal stool like a bunch of pre-Madonnas, but you all seem to be taking something very valuable for granite. So I ask of you to mustard up all the strength you can because it is a doggy dog world out there. Although there is some merit to what you are saying it seems like you have a huge ship on your shoulder. In your argument you seem to throw everything in but the kids Nsync, and even though you are having a feel day with this I am here to bring you back into reality. I have a sick sense when it comes to these types of things. It is almost spooky, because I cannot turn a blonde eye to these glaring flaws in your rhetoric. I have zero taller ants when it comes to people spouting out hate in the name of moral righteousness. You just need to remember what comes around is all around, and when supply and command fails you will be the first to go.
Make my words, when you get down to brass stacks it doesn't take rocket appliances to get two birds stoned at once. It's clear who makes the pants in this relationship, and sometimes you just have to swallow your prize and accept the facts. You might have to come to this conclusion through denial and error but I swear on my mother's mating name that when you put the petal to the medal you will pass with flying carpets like it's a peach of cake.
Well it boils down to two options.
1) talk to him about what you want
2) or settle with being not fully satisfied sexually for the rest of the relationship
