>>17326304
you where probably nervous. first time i had sex, i never came. sex only started to feel good about the 4th time. plus, people like different things, you might not of found what you like yet.

when i used to watch porn, i used to think the girl on top was hot as fuck, although when having actual sex i dont really like the girl on top. i like being on top.

>>17326304

normal in the sense that sometimes it happens but not normal in the sense that its a good sign.

it may be the porn. it may be the daily jerking. it may be that you were just nervous. it may be that you used a condom.

I cannot tell you how many men have sex with a condom, cant cum (or worse, lose their erection) and then think they are broken men simply because the condom ruined the sex. i cant maintain an erection at all.... with a condom. take it off and im good to go.

nature did not intend for sex to be your dick wrapped in latex getting its circulation cut off. frankly i dont think someones really lost their virginity til they lost it bareback, cuz even those who can cum with a condom on must not feel very good.

>>17326329
i hate wearing condoms too. what are the alternatives apart from pull out?

>>17326341

birth control. getting a vasectomy. thats it really. straights have it pretty bad. gays have PrEP these days so theres very little to worry about.

>>17326363
lol im only 22 so definitely dont want a vasectomy. birth control is an option but the current girl i am involved in isnt on the pill because it makes her depressed. suppose there is the morning after pill. kind of annoying because i dont even like blowjob that much.

>>17326304
When you are having a fascinating new sexual experience your brain doesn't want to miss a second of it, so it turns off your cock so it won't be a distraction.

>>17326378

i hate blowjobs so i feel ya.

remember that the morning after pill is not for casual use. its called plan B for a reason. its extremely painful for the woman and kinda forces a period like event. relying on this for sex is not a good idea.

>>17326304
do you grip hard when you masturbate?

>>17326415
yeah, probs gonna just hold out until this girl sorts out her problem with the pill, and just use condoms for the time being, maybe use the morning after on a one off.

>>17326329
>nature did not intend for sex to be your dick wrapped in latex
Where as this may be true, I'm baffled that you did not mention this at first.
>I usually jerk off at least once a day
Nature did not intend you to waste ALL of your energy to jerking off
>and I watch a lot of porn.
More so for you to watch people fucking each other constantly....
>Does that affect this sort of thing?
Yes, you can bet your ass on it.
>Is it normal to not cum?
Heck no.

>>17326424

ask her before you assume shes down with it, its a very serious thing that can have bad effects. keep in mind that there likely is no way to sort it out. the pill makes her depressed. you cant just fix that and its more hassle than not for a female. you two may be sexually incompattible in the safe sex department.

>>17326431

>im baffled that you did not mention this at first

why?

>nature did not intend you waste all of oyur energy jerking off

im not OP, so thats not me, but nature does seem to want you to fuck once every day or two. jerk off no, but fuck yeah.

>more so for you to watch people fuckign each other constantly

hard disagree. as cave people privacy for sex did not exist. you'd watch people fuck. every day. that would be half the motivation for you to fuck someone.

>>17326329
It really depends on the person. My ex said it made just a slight difference to him and still felt great (and we didn't use condoms so there was no point in lying to make me feel better). His dick wasn't insensitive at all, either.

>>17326438
she said that she is meant to be going the doctors about the pill making her depressed, and is going to try new ones. and yeah, she has said she would do the morning after pill.

>>17326438
>but nature does seem to want you to fuck once every day or two
Just no. How old are you? Probably in the middle of puberty?
>>more so for you to watch people fuckign each other constantly
>hard disagree. as cave people privacy for sex did not exist. You'd watch people fuck. every day.
This is utter bullshit. Omg, you just have to be underage, or are you really this dumb?! Compare to African tribal folks.

>>17326453

>compare to african tribal folks

you mean where sex is so rampant that even supplying them with free condoms didnt decrease AIDS cuz they believed they could only get AIDS if they had sex at night without the condom? you mean the place where four kids will fuck a goat to avoid getting aids? but they have privacy?

>>17326471
Holt shit you really are underage.

Or at least your reading comprehension is.

>>17326329
>nature did not intend for sex to be your dick wrapped in latex getting its circulation cut off
But that's exactly how boners work

For now, Invest in some of the super thin condoms, they are more expensive but do make a difference for her aswell.

I had a similar problem, but after a while it'll happen. It might mean you last longer than average aswell, but that's a good and bad thing.

Ask your GF to think about an IUD, mine just got one, and as people have said, no condom and cumming inside is a feeling like no other

Just to note Sex without a condom will not protect you from the obvious but STD's is a factor that's always about. A girl can say she's on the pill and not actually be/ not take correctly so be it on your head. Same goes for sti's/ds whatever. I have friends who have been jinxed into getting a girl pregnant and another who's sexual partner swore she was clean but had the clap so good luck if you wanna take risks

It's your first time having sex, let alone having sex with a condom. Get used to wearing it, it may suck for a while but you'll get better wearing one and even more awesome when you comfortably go bare back!