How the fuck do I move to a decent city from a small as fuck shit town? It feels like there's nothing I can do but save a shit load of money and go there and probably blow it all and just come back home after. I don't have any skills because of this place the only thing there is to do is cut trees or milk cows and everyone I know that cuts trees still has to go hours away for it.
I can't fucking live here, there's no jobs, no opportunity, there's no girls, the bars are all shit and just play country music and has fat chicks and rednecks everywhere. I literally don't need anything to live I just want out of here, I don't care if I sleep on a couch sharing an apartment with 3 other people with no food tv or internet just Jesus Christ this place sucks
are you that one asshole?
>>17322550
that's what an education is for anon.
i don't necessarily mean college/university. it could be a trade or a skill. something you are capable of or possess that can generate income.
save up money for roughly 6 months of expenses in a new town/city and just go. work your ass off till you stabilize.
or keep bitching in bumblefuck and end up with an overweight wife that you take to country bars.
>>17322566
So just put myself in debt and waste more time here for a maybe career?
>>17322577
welp, see you at the bar every Friday to Sunday for the rest of your life.
>>17322595
I have some computer skills can't I be an administrative assistant or something for awhile until I specialize in a trade. I'd rather take a trade out in a city then have some unqualified redneck teach a program and then find out the training excludes a bunch of shit you need.
>>17322577
ever heard of helpx/workaway?... look into it watch thumbs up dave choe.. stop being a bitch.
newsflash: the grass isn't greener
cities are expensive, noisy, and can be an absolute pain in the ass with things like traffic and crime
>>17322555
Yeah he is
>>17322577
>So just put myself in debt
Ideally, no. Education, whether vocational or academic, ought to be cheap at community colleges. Do it a little at a time if you have to. Avoid the big for-profit certificate mills/bogus tech schools/online 'universities', and start working or apprenticing in your desired field while you're still in training and you ought to be able to afford it.
>and waste more time here
If you're investing in your future by learning how to do something you can get paid for somewhere else, I don't think that's a waste.
>for a maybe career?
Again, ideally not. Should be for a definite career. Think carefully about what you might actually want to learn how to do.
>>17323028
>>17323028
This.
Everything is expensive, so the extra cash you earn goes to paying for housing and food.
I live in a tiny apartment. I could have gotten a house with a lawn for the same price on the contry side.
I still only date fat chicks. Moving to the city didn't change my attractiveness to women.
City girls are catty and judgemental, they sleep around and never stick with anybody.
>>17323099
Life just sucks I guess
Why are kids from small towns always so bitter?
I literally dream about spending my days in the sun. If I could somehow make a living out there I'd go for it
>I want to spend twice as much on housing and never find a parking spot again in my life
