>>17322059
>she's very hot and cold

Like me. Depending on my mood or what I'm doing my texting interactions can vary greatly.
If I'm having a bad day or I'm just really busy I'll be on the cold side.
I also avoid fiddling with my phone when I'm interacting with other people as I find it rude.

My current partner was freaked out when we first started dating as she would think I had lost interest if I was cold for a few days.

>>17322059
This is only going to end in one way... And not the way you want it too

>>17322059
>>17322059
She's a girl.

You need to get over having a oneitis. It's pathetic, and holding you back.

She shits, and pisses, and picks her nose when no one is around, and has retarded opinions about common sense things, etc. If she were so great for you, she'd be more interested in you and wouldn't make you chase so much. I promise you are only infatuated with your 'idea' of her - NOT THE REAL HER. Stop having a oneitis.

>>17322069

This.

So much this.

She doesn't give a fuck about you, she's just sitting in her tower and if she's in a good mood for 5 mins MAYBE just MAYBE she'll let you buy her something nice.

Maybe.

>>17322080
OP here, actually she suggested the second date and paid for it

She also responds to texts straight away and seems pleased to hear from me, but she never texts first which is annoying

>>17322090
And married couples of 10 years can still get divorced; I'm sure her opinion of you can change. In fact her paying for it may have been her way of saying "sorry for wasting your time.I'm not sure this is going anywhere. I'll at least be nice and not waste your money."

Who knows. You are asking us what is going on with a person we don';t know in a situation we aren't a part of. Surely you realize how ridiculous a question this is to ask if you won't even accept our opinions.

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