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99 problems 98 of them is bitches
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99 problems 98 of them is bitches
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2016-07-04 08:17:09
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I met a an ivy league girl in group therapy who wants to date me. The problem is she has clinical narcissistic, avoidant, and depressive traits as well as therapist/psychiatrist who only addresses secondary problems. Her therapist must be encouraging her to build a house on quicksand, because she's $20,000 in debt to said therapist, temporarily out of school, not pursuing a profession, and engaging in prostitution. An example of how self-inflicted this is, she lives next to the EMS station she could be employed at, but she's afraid of not being perceived well after breaking up with a coworker. She would sooner have the lights go out than return to doing what she enjoyed and what pays the bills. Her roommate said the house was extremely neglected and pretty unsanitary before her arrival. I'm not sure what the hell happens in those sessions, because they're twice a week and she still needs antipsychotics to sleep, which I would imagine is a symptom of not bipolar or some supposed shit but rather being very discontent.
She has been paying that doctor to roleplay what she's going to say to me about our status as friends or lovers (because we dated for three weeks) and I would really like for her to wake the fuck up and help herself rather than giving me any more detailed thought. Is there any way to convey the situation as I have to you, to someone who is simultaneously creating the situation and avoiding it?
My best plan is to remain friends (or friends with benefits if that's what she'd prefer) and just piss on the job her therapist is doing, while encouraging her to return to school and work, before she ends up another $20,000 in senseless medical debt.
Any other ideas?