I posted this on /b/ with no help. maybe some here can give some help for a friend I'm 18 btw
>he is 14 and has been fucking this (8/10 9 in a good day) girl for a while
>the problem is that she is 23 (9 years older)
>his mom found out and freaked out
>the kid is scared his mom will make an scene and tell his father, because he really likes that girl
He just called me and need some advice, I told to try to calm his mom and tell her to accept it.
what else should I tell him /adv/
jail that bitch fucked
>>17321696
that hes fucked
and she is too only moreso
pedophilia in its purest form
>>17321702
>>17321704
The age of consent here is 14 and that is not the point they like each other and there was no rape. The problem are his parents she lives alone.
>>17321707
oh, you live in one of THOSE countries.
none of your concern really
if the parents decide to do something, stay away and let them. Its their affair not yours
>>17321709
no need to be xenophobic. if it makes you feel better its an european 1st world country, i can give too many details because most of my friends browse 4chan. and if the kids asked me for advice I shoul give the best i can.
>>17321696
His father, would be proud. only 14 and fucking a chick of 23. Damn son.
>>17321720
the main problem is his mom and the possibility that she will ruin the relationship.
Legal or not, that's still sick.
The mom is right to be worried and it is not normal that you accept it.
>>17321696
Tell him he shouldn't be fucking around with 14 and instead stick to Pokemon and other kids stuff.
He'll be an adult soon enough (only six fucking years) for the rest of his fucking life (60 fucking years). Why the fuck does he want to rush into doing adult things. No one can give him back his childhood once it's gone. He should be a kid as long as he can.
I can only shake my head to this and say just one thing: he has had shit parents and shit upbringing in the first place, so his shit parents shouldn't be the first one's complaining. I am just so sorry for the little ones.
OP ignore all these advices so far, if it's legal in your country, go for it.
All these guys giving advice are the same bitter virgins who bitch in /r9k/ about never kissing a girl at 30.
Tell him to tell his mom to mind her own business. She should be happy at least his son is not a faggot or one of these autistics.
>>17321819
14 year old with shit upbringing detected
>>17321837
>sex in the adolescence is having a shit upbringing
I bet you like my little pony, amirite?
>>17321819
are you saying fucking a 23 year old at the age of 14 is completely normal and the ones opposing it are the autists
are you fucking daft
if he is 14 and wants to fuck he can go get his first handjob or finger a girl of the same age, not have a fucking pedophile ride his dick
>>17321696
I understand he is your friend and everything but honestly if you aren't directly involved the best course of action for you to take would be to just support him the best way you can and be there for him when he needs you.
Your friend's mom is going likely going to handle this her own way and you shouldn't interfere.
Are you secretly that girl op? ;)
>>17321850
Yea, but it's kinda hot when the female is a young pedo.
FINALLY. A femanon post's something interesting...
>>17321850
You never had sex in your teens, right? 14 year old girls are the most entitled pieces of shit in the world. They literally only fuck the prettiest boys. a grown woman is way better. I'm not trolling, its my experience, I was rejected by every girl 6 and below I dared to talk, at the end I thought there was something wrong with me. At 15, virgin and lonely I met a literal 10 catalog model who was 21 and she fell in love with me. Teen girls are not worth IMO.
Yeah, this is frankly concerning, no wonder his parents are worried. This bitch is clearly crazy and she will fuck him up for life, that's for sure, and in the end sex won't be worth the damage.
>>17321864
I don't think you should be proud that you got banged by a pedo/basket case, mate. Come to think it's rather sad you couldn't score a normal girl round your age
>>17321696
It's bad advice to tell him to tell his mom to accept it. Her son is literally being molested, whether he enjoys it or not, and she should accept it?
If he accidentally gets her pregnant, then what?
His parents are legally responsible for him, and to have this situation forced on them by a 23yr old is nothing less than shameful on her part. Go to jail, go directly to jail, do not pass go, do not collect $200.
LOL kids nowadays have seen gore, beheadings and porn by 9. Keep living in your PG-13 world manchildren. Fucking an older girl is nothing special.
>>17321911
Would you be okay if it was a 23 yo guy fucking your 14 yo daughter?
I fucked a 35 year old married woman when I was 17. I was horny and she wanted my dick. Win-win situation in my opinion.
>>17321917
Both are different scenarios, tho.
>>17321920
Why? Because a child having sex is okay, but only if it's a boy?
>>17321844
Nope, hate it. Still yeah, sex in adolescence is shit upbringing. It implies only one thing: that your parents didn't care enough about you, didn't love you enough and didn't invest enough time into you.
Taking you to fun places, doing fun things/hobbies with you, talking about serious topics etc.
Only bored kids run into adulthood. Bored with their own dull and empty life .
Shit upbringing for ya.
And didn't even start talking about how adultery can't even be comprehended by kids that age in its full meaning yet.
>>17321911
>LOL kids nowadays have seen gore, beheadings and porn by 9.
So edgy aren't ya.
And you think it's a good thing YOU saw all that? Because only because you lived a shitty life doesn't mean majority of kids live a shitty life.
That's the reason you're on 4chins while normal people are out there living beautiful lives in the fullest btw.
>>17321958
>>17321946
Then why are you here instead of living your "fulfilling" life?
I bet you are one of those weird lonely guys whose the sole idea of sex is something degenerate. All your posts scream lonely virgin kid.
having sex at teen is something natural.
>>17321968
>Then why are you here instead of living your "fulfilling" life?
Im here on my mobile phone occasionally and only here on advice to help pitiful 4chan folks. Because you are human too. I was once ten years ago part of the /b lulz crowd every now and then so..
>I bet you are one of those weird lonely guys
Nope I'm a married woman of 30 years...
>whose the sole idea of sex is something degenerate. All your posts scream lonely virgin kid.
With three kids and you can believe me if I tell you I've had lots and lots of sex with my husband in 10 years.
>having sex at teen is something natural.
Yes I think so too. In your later teens. My first time was with 17 and that's pretty much the youngest age you should have sex with. My husband was 21 and he doesn't regret either. Ideally you should wait until 18, that's what I wish for my own kids.
You all don't need to be degenerate sluts only knowing one way to enjoy yourselves in life. There's so much more to it. So much wonderful and enjoyable things, the more so in your childhood where everything seems even bigger and more astonishing. Why do you need to rush and destroy the few years of your childhood which will be over soon enough without even rushing.
You all will have the next sixty years to be adult why isn't that enough for you? Why do you insist on engaging in adulthood and insist on having 70 or even 75 years of adulthood?
>>17321718
Its france. Gross mother fuckers there. Probably literal mother fuckers too.
>>17321696
if the 23 y/o girl is hot i see no problem. most girls like younger men.
only girls with daddy issues and goldiggers date older men.
>>17321696
>>17322154
Consent age is 15 in France.
>>17322188
Agree to disagree.
>>17321707
>>17321718
Who cares? The kid isn't gonna get into any trouble, and the most the parents will probably do is scold the girl, if even that. Dad is probably proud as fuck.
If the parents (mom) tries to punish him, just pull the innocent card and have him tell her how the 23 yo manipulated him, made him feel pressured, how she made the first move, how he'd feel like less of a man if he didn't have sex with her, how he felt like that's what you're supposed to etc. If he can fake cry, that might help.
And if the kid can land a 23-year-old, he has no problem getting another chick.
>>17321810
Do you not remember what it's like being 14? Back then, I was fapping on the daily and thinking of the best ways to get laid.
>>17321696
Noice, lucky bastard.
>>17321864
>get bullied in middle school and very beginning of hs
>girls don't look my way
>suddenly, it's senior year
>girls are actually showing me interest
>freshman girl I've never met before knows my name and hugs me every time she sees me
>college
>suddenly, pussy everywhere
You may have a point.
>>17323011
You are replying to a woman, dude. see>>17322036
They just have it too easy and can lose their v whenever and with whoever they want.
Losing the virginity for a boy is really important because most girls find virgin men repulsive.
men and women issues are just to different.
>>17321696
You're 18 and friends with a 14 year old? I'm calling bullshit
>>17323041
Why?
I'm 22 and know children as young as 6. I've given advice to teens.
I ain't gonna go to the fucking cinema with them or some shit, but it's not that odd.
>>17322036
>being this much of a moralfag
Just because the law says you're an adult at 18 doesn't mean it's right. Back in the day, it was normal to be a dad at 14. Are you gonna say humankind was wrong about reproducing up until the last century or so?
You only think it's wrong because you don't like the thought of your son having sex with someone your age. But for a 14 yo boy, the only things that could come out from it is that he has high expectations for sex and may be butthurt when she eventually gets bored and leaves.
>>17321930
Yes because a boy cant get pregnant dumbass
>>17322036
>>17321930
Let me tell you something, you are a cunt and that thing between your legs is a coupon-book for almost everything from free drinks to free sex. For a boy having sex is a rite of passage into manhood, for a girl is just "meh, I'll spread my legs for any of the many guys who want to fuck me".
Don't talk to the parents, but make it clear to the 14-year-old that she's probably massively fucked up. There's a reason she isn't with someone her own age.
Anyone who wants to try and defend this: Think hard about the person you were at 14, compared to who you are now. Would you want to fuck that person? Really?
>inb4 well i was a very mature 14 year old
So was I. I was still a childish shithead compared to today, like literally EVERY 14-year old kid.
>>17323041
That's not weird, it isn't like he's fucking the 14 year old. What, you've never had friends from different walks of life? Shit, since I was 17 I've been friends with this old Buddhist guy who works at a local gas station. He was a combat medic in 'Nam, and one of the most level guys I've met in my life.
>>17323406
you sound like you didn't get laid in high school and are very bitter about it.
>>>/r9k/ is that way
>>17323407
When I was 14 all I wanted was to have sex with Charlize Theron. And if I had the chance I would be the happiest kid in the world.
>>17323414
Yeah, and Theron would have been a kiddie diddler if she did it, like the girl in OP's post.
Good choice btw, Theron is fucking hot. Was Winona Ryder for me, but I'd still hit that to this day.
>>17323411
I lost my virginity at 13 but even so I gotta say getting pussy isn't as easy for boys as it is for girls getting dick, you dumb whore. also /r9k/ is for vrgin losers.
>>17323420
>I lost my virginity at 13
suuuuuuuuuuuuure. not a woman btw, i just don't have a grudge against women because "getting laid is easier". which isn't a thing i've heard anywhere but places like r9k and /r/redpill, btw. if you lower your standards to anyone who wants to fuck, i.e
> "meh, I'll spread my legs for any of the many guys who want to fuck me"
it's pretty easy to get some strange. it's far harder for both sexes to have sex with someone that they actually want to fuck
>>17323419
I'm talking from the boy perspective, all these people saying that the boy would end up fucked up or traumatized when in reality the boy would be just happy as a clam.
>>17323427
Initially, yeah, but he would also still be a child. It's pretty well-documented that, while it's not a hard and fast rule, those kinds of relationships can develop some pretty significant issues. The kid would almost certainly have a different view of it 5, 6 years down the line.
>>17323064
>it was normal to be a dad at 14.
No. Just no. Please do you even hear the words that leave your own mouth?
>>17323064
Humans also believed that the sun revolved around the earth. Are you gonna say humankind was wrong about astronomy up until the last few centuries?
Just because something exists
doesn't mean it should
>>17323475
It's a fact, calm down.
>>17323491
Having sex at a later age is obviously ideal, but that anon is saying that mankind has been having sex at an early age for a long time, so teens are actually pretty equipped for sex though it would be ideal if they waited.
>>17321696
if I were his father my only advice would be to use protection to make sure she doesn't get pregnant, and to not put his heart on her hands. If it just for fun and the kid won't get attached go for it.
>>17321726
absolutely should be proud!
>>17321707
>Age of consent is 14
Disgusting. But your "friend" should talk to his mom about it. Nothing you can do and nothing you should do, other than stop hanging around a fucking infant.
>>17321864
Both you and OP's friend got with actual pedophiles. That's not something to be proud of
