>Meet this girl last year
>we get to know each other, she shows interest in me, but has a bf
>things goes fast, we can't stop talking.
>one day she asks me where the things are going
>told her I like her but won't move anything since she has a bf
>we stopped talking for no reason (apparently)
>few weeks later, she breaks up with his bf
>won't talk to me
>months later, she messages me, tells me she miss me and we should hang out.
>we set up a date but she cancels hours before
>we stop talking
>weeks later, she messages me again an ask me (sometimes she implies it) to go out but suddenly, we stop talking again
>repeat cycle x3
Does she want only attention? Since she know I like her or what its happening?
Need serious advice on this
>>17318537
Lol.
>>17318594
yeah, I know.
She might want you to take the lead more. From what I understand is that you just let it go when she cancels to hang out, like just "ok" instead of trying for another time/something else. It's also important (for us) to know why she canceled them. Have you ever asked her to hang out or grab a drink/date yourself?
>>17318537
This girl is playing you like a fiddle.
Abort, captain.
>>17318537
>probably gets to a desperate moment of loneliness every certain period of time where everyone shits on her
>you are her last option for romance
>messages you
>life gets better
>"nah it was a mistake to msg him, nvm"
>>17318830
This seems legit since the first time she canceled (because she had to go to a some reunion of something) I just went like "oh, ok, whatever" to not look desperate. I didn't even tried to set another date to hang out.
I think I'll try one last time to ask her to go out and see what happens. Thanks anon.
>>17318856
>>17319769
This was my first thought. I will try to ask her to go out again, if this time doesn't work I will get rid of her.
>>17319911
You're welcome Anon. There's indeed a difference between looking desperate and seeming too uninterested. I'd try it one more time and this time ask it yourself. Good luck!
>>17320316
i don't want my final jig in the belly of a squid
