I'm in a co-dependent relationship which is quite toxic. We both have anxiety, depression, low self esteem, we're anti-social, and we're alcoholics. I really want to know how we can make a change without breaking up? If we broke up I think my heart would stop.
>>17318405
for starters maybe the two of you should cut back on drinking
>>17318425
Drinking is probably the least of my worries in this situation, as bad of a habit it is.
>>17318405
Oh shit
>>17318405
russian roulette. two losers enter. one winner leaves.
>>17318474
thanks for the help it really helps
>>17318482
alright if you want the truth relationships don't work unless you're both mentally healthy people that can lift the other up. if you're both nutcase losers with no prospects than all you'll ever do is drag each other down. so the fact that all you care about is not breaking up is most likely a sign that you're doomed.
>>17318488
>>17318488
Yes, I agree with you. I just want to know what steps we can take to becoming healthy.