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Hey so I've been thinking about this all week - a good friend
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Hey so I've been thinking about this all week - a good friend of mine "made a move" (by which I mean kissed me and touched my ass lolllllll) without my consent. We talked it out and I was able to say I wasn't interested, and since I've been friends with this dude for a while I feel like he's a good person - but I also feel like he's perpetuating a lack of consent and I wanted to talk about it to him.
I've been thinking of saying something along the lines of "hey, I wasn't really feeling it the other night and I know we cleared that up, but in the future, it would be good to ask first rather than just go for it. Confidence is cool, but I don't really consider kissing someone out of nowhere "making the first move" as much as just "taking them by surprise" "

Does anyone have any advice on how to deal with this? I really think this guy is someone who could really move forward from this experience being able to like, do good, and I'd like to let this be a "call in" experience where he can learn from his mistakes
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This, gentlemen, is bait. Move on.

Sage
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>>17317963
wtf? you should tell the police, you were basically raped
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>>17318549
Can't tell if serious or not. If you were being serious, people like you should just stop existing
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>>17318554
your a fucking asshole. he did it without her concent, thats sexual assult ATLEAST.
if she doesnt do something he will think its okay (which is not) and rape another person
im not even a feminist but things like this make me sick and want to be
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>>17318554
also , you realise you're basically defending a rapist, right?
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