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How do you text someone without looking like a desperate fuckboy?
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How do you text someone without looking like a desperate fuckboy?
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What's a fuckboy?
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>>17310176
New hip slang for a loser who's only after sex
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>>17310160
I sound like a fuckboy when I text and maybe I kind of am, sounding like a fuckboy isn't bad, sounding desperate is. I'm usually up to fun things so I just invite a girl I'm interested in to come if she wants. Just don't care too much or overthink and you'll do fine
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>>17310184
What if she just ignores you?
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>>17310215
Then she probably wasn't that into you in the first place, there isn't any perfect text you could've sent that would've changed that. If you see her IRL just act like it didn't happen and treat her the same as you did before.
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>>17310215
then she ignored you and you move on you faggot.
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>>17310184
What do you start with?
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>>17310227
Depends on how well I know the person. If it's a girl I just met and don't know too well I just throw out a "hey how's it going?" I know it's boring but I'm not an edgy PUA and hate feeding lines and it works for me. If we've had a good rapport prior to texting maybe I'll call back to the initial convo in my first text. If we're already friends and have hung out or hooked up I'll just tell them "I'm doing ____, you should come!"
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>>17310251
Thanks a bunch!

I wish there'd be tangible examples for me to heave on this conversation, but I'm really new to this so I don't have any yet.
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>>17310177
oh I thought it had something to do with homoerotica.
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>>17310272
Just don't expect anything or obsess or overthink. Texting is popular because it's low commitment, so treat it as such. It's easy for girls to flake over texts.
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>>17310160
holy fuck thunderbirds are real
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Never, never, never text in these situations.

Face to face is best, by phone if you have to, but texting is for betas.
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>>17310160
>Hey are you up?
>Going to the beach with some friends, wanna tag along?
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>>17310865
>hey, are you up?
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>>17310867
Kek, fuckbois and grammar?
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>>17310858
Sure grandpa maybe like 5 years ago. Hook ups these days all start in texts, DMs, messages lol.
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>>17310865
>going to the beach with friends after asking if she's awake
What?
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>>17310865
>bb girl u up
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