Last week I had sex with 2 seperate guys (I'm gay).
The first guy was like a 5-6/10, and everything was fine. I didnt cum, but I had an erection the whole time.
The next day I hooked up with a much cuter 8-9/10. Because he was so attractive I was much more nervous about it, and when the time came not only did I fail to cum I also couldnt get hard for like the first 2 hours. I felt mentally very aroused, but nothing was happening physically..... :(
Whats happening and how do I fix this?
>>17310101
you were just nervous you faggot.
the nerves and self-consciousness will do that to a boner.
>>17310113
So, is it even worth asking if he wants to fuck again, or will the same thing just happen?
Is it normal to not get full erections when you masturbate? I'm getting close to my 19th birthday and I've never gotten anything more than a half-chub in the 7 years I've been able to get hard. Does the physical stimulation of a real sexual partner make the difference, or is my dick broken?
>>17310127
That is 100% not normal dude.
Maybe mention it to your GP or doctor or something?
>>17310118
you could ask, sure.
be open about it if you'd like. "hey, sorry about last time. i think i was just really nervous."
just try and stay out of your head. relax, get lost in the act, and/or focus on your partner.
it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy if you get super anxious and self-conscious about it. it's perfectly normal to be nervous when you're entering an intimate situation with someone you like.
>>17310130
Is there any fix to this (aside from pills)
>>17310139
the thought of telling him that makes me feel anxious
lmao this is such a fucking dumb situation to be in, fuckkk
>>17310141
idk man do i look like a dick doctor?
