So I recently turned 20 and I would like to ask your opinions. Should I try to find love? I've never had a girlfriend, never even kissed a girl. Never felt weird around them, but for some reason I just don't have the desire to put in the effort for a girlfriend. I'm confused, because most males my age peril over these problems but I can't seem to find any fucks to give. I'm 100% straight, I enjoy the female body immensely and really like the idea of finding a compatible mate to spend my days with, but... Should I?
I feel like I could very easily live my entire life single but I'm afraid of missing out on some important life events by not finding a gal.
So, I ask you; should I try and experience love, or should I continue not giving a fuck about love or lust? I'm sure there's some kind of point of no return. What should I do? (Oh, and please no "Just try it and see if you like it" answers. I know how they work, I've studied this extensively. I just want opinions.)
>>17309339
I'd start at the age you're at personally. Once you hit 23+ you'll start having to date women with kids already.
>inb4 younger girl
They'll be hard to come by and your maturity levels/life experience will be on a whole different level for the relationship to be worth a shit.
>>17309339
I think you should continue your life and if you realize a girl who is interested in you, go ahead.
My advice is just wait, theres a lot of people like you and at the end everybody find somebody
>>17309344
Once you hit 23+ you'll start having to date women with kids already.
Do you live in the middle east or something
>>17309348
This is fucking illogical advice. If you want to make a relationship happen, you will have to be in the physical presence of girls. If you sit at home and work and go to the store every so often, you will
>>17309348
Agree. Few months after I started my first job and had only half a dozen friends left, there came this girl who was into me and I literally was too autistic to kiss her at first, she did all the dating work. I don't regret going ahead.
Love? No. Do what makes YOU happy. ..what you're seeking will come naturally.
>>17309365
Good job. Where did you meet?
>>17309365
With go ahead I mean that he tries having a relationship, or make a deeper friendship with that person
>>17309407
She was a friend of a friend both from my college. We just hung out together by accident.
>>17309339
>I can't seem to find any fucks to give.
Same here, man. I'm 21.
I figure eventually i'll find someone, but the fact that everyone else has already found at least 5 or 10 somebodies is worrying.
My friends on facebook are posting their engagement announcements and wedding photos already. A couple even have kids.
Feels like i'm missing out on all the fun, you know?
