>>17306803
>What i should tell my partner to do? He's admittedly pretty small "down there", does that matter?

REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

>>17306803
> vaginal orgasms

That exists? I was happy to think a man was capable of giving me an orgasm in the first place.

Male here. Was married for nearly a decade and my wife never orgasmed. I thought it was my fault, even though I'm 8 inches and proportionally wide too. After the divorce, I banged out a few or more sluts, and they had no problem orgasming.

After what I've learned, I've decided it is almost always the girls fault. Asian chicks orgasm all the time in jap porn, and those dudes have tiny dicks. Maybe your guy needs to jack rabbit you like the asian dudes do. There's also the possibility you just can't orgasm from vaginal stimulation, which I heard is fairly common for chicks.

I only ever get vaginal orgasms in doggy style and unpleasantly intense g-spot orgasms when SO fucks me hard with my ankles over his shoulders.

G-spot isn't too far inside of you so your partner should be able to stimulate it even if he is a little small.

I need to know this too OP. My partner has never got me off, not even through clit. My clit is sensitive and hurts when others touch it. I can only touch my own clit.

>>17306911
Even oral?

>>17306803
It's interesting that you draw a distinction between vaginal and clitoral orgasms (not that there isn't one to some degree), but this makes me wonder if you've ever REALLY had an orgasm at all. Some women are just incapable of orgasm. Fact of life. Some can only cum from clit stimulation, some can't cum without being vaginally penetrated, and on and on and on. Every vagina is different. Love it, experiment with it, don't ever let yourself get down about it, and just have fun. When you figure out what works best for you, show your boyfriend. Bring him into it. Have him just play with you sometime and tell him what feels best.

In certain positions when he's hitting my G spot, and especially when he's fingering it, it feels amazing and i feel like if he keeps doing it something might happen but i feel like it'll take FOREVEEEER and he'll get tired and it'll become a chore that he won't want to do it anymore after a while of it

>>17307509
>it'll take FOREVEEEER and he'll get tired and it'll become a chore that he won't want to do it anymore after a while of it

that's my problem too, as soon as he seems annoyed by it I have 0% chance of cumming anymore (down from like 3)

Luckily I can orgasm clitorially

>>17306911
they are either pressing too hard or dont have enough lubrication (from you or the bottle :)
get your partner to touch you so lightly he isn't sure he is except with his eyes. Your clit is way more sensitive than his fingertip.
Also show him the motion you use to cum so he can try it (for instance I move left and right mainly and not circularly)