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Advice on dealing with shitty friends.
2016-06-29 17:21:43 Post No. 17306696
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Advice on dealing with shitty friends.
Anonymous
2016-06-29 17:21:43
Post No. 17306696
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So here's the story, I grabbed the opportunity to make a few bones and get my hands on cool music gear, but in order to move it I needed a car. I asked my friend for a hand, since he had a car, and I thought he'd be cool with helping me. I was planning on making some cash as well, and thought since he was helping me I'd throw him some a nice chunk of the cut for being a friend. Turns out this guy was accepting fifty percent, and I had to give him a pair of the speakers I wanted in order for him to feel fair. Somehow in my beta-ness I gave into him, but now I'm pissed, and I want the speakers back from this ungrateful shit. I've tried talking to him, sharing my experience of the events that happened and how he wasn't be a friend. He just shrugs quietly.
We got an email from one of the orgs at my school saying we took some stuff that didn't belong to us. He offered to return the speakers to them, though I have another pair of speakers which are probably the ones they want. I told him since he was going to give the speakers back anyway he might as well give them to me since I gave them to him under false pretenses. He says he won't do it. This guy is a total stoner chill bro, but when I call him out for being greedy and untrustworthy he just shrugs and tells me I'm insulting him. This is not the first time I've had to deal with guys like this.
Did I mention I saw him with my ex, less than a month after our break-up. Less than three days after I opened up to this guy about my break-up. He didn't say a thing. Telling me I was jealous.
Anon, I need to save face and stand up for myself. I need those speakers back and I need to show this rich asshole that you can't treat your friends like this. I don't want to fight him, or do anything illegal. I'm just sick of having to meditate on my breath every time I think about it. How do I convince him to return what he hustled me for? How do I stand up for myself and make him feel like the mercenary he really is?