Need a guide for being a Chad. My plan is to start working out and dating sluts for sex because I'm a sociopath and will never have a real relationship. I have a decent body after sitting on my ass and eating a bunch of shit food for a year so I'm confident in my ability to get ripped. I have an adaptive personality so I act different around different people to appease them. I just need to know how to truly behave like a Chad so I can get hot girls.
>>17303504
>sociopath
>personality
if you were a sociopath you'd already be a chad.
>>17303510
I've never attempted before and when I say my personality is adaptive, I mean I have no troubles faking a personality to other people to gain their trust or acceptance
>>17303526
Man you sure are a badass.
>>17303526
and yet you never use it to do more than eat shit food and be a virgin. interesting.
you're so good at it that you are asking us to tell you how. double interesting.
>>17303531
Just wanted some tips. I already have an idea of what I should do. I've never had any desire to be anything else than what I am until now
>>17303504
First off I gotta warn you that /adv/ is infested with normies, 2nd only to /soc/, so your gonna get bombarded here soon by them insulting you
I'm basically in the same boat as you except I don't consider my self a sociopath and I've been at all this self improvement shit for a while now
You have to have 3 things, you gotta be /fit/, you gotta be /fa/shionable, and you gotta be /soc/iable
To get /fit/ you have to have a low body fat percentage around 10-15 %, and you need to go to the gym 3 times a week and lift to build muscle
You need to figure out your body fat percentage and if its no in the proper zone you need to do what's called a protein sparing modified fast which is where you eat a tiny fraction of the calories you can burn in a day by doing literally nothing, look up the rapid fat loss handbook and get the pdf and use the table of contents to find what I'm talking about and calculate your exact diet plan
For getting /fa/shionable it depends on what race you are which will determine hair, and you also need to go to /fa/ for clothes tips which are too many for me to list off right now
For getting /soc/iable read these books, some of the have pdfs others you will need to buy off amazon or something, I'm also gonna copy and paste the notes I have so that you can use them too
Dale Carnegie - How to win friends and influence people
Barbara Pease - The Definitive Book of Body Language
Allan Pease - Talk Language
Ogi Ogas - A Billion Wicked Thoughts
These will teach you how to manipulate normies into liking you
Once all of these things are done, you need to go to college and join a bunch of clubs, rush fraternities, and try to rapidly build up a giant social life
from how to win friends and influence people:
Don't criticize, condemn or complain
Give compliments
Make them want to do the things you want them to
Learn as much as you can about them, ask them questions about themselves, get them to talk about themselves
Smile
Remember people’s names
Listen intently, keep the conversation going based on what they have said, build off of it
Talk about everything in terms of what the other person wants / what is good for them / their interests in general
Make the other person feel important, relevant, like they matter a great deal
Avoid arguments no matter what, if one starts, defuse it immediately
If you must correct someone, do it subtly and politely, do not outright tell them they are wrong, slowly get them to connect the dots
If you are wrong (or there is no way to convince them otherwise), admit it rapidly and apologetically, get them to feel bad for you and to let it go
Faking being nice will get you way better results than showing your true feelings
If you want something specific from someone, get them to say "Yes" to lead up questions
Let the other person build themselves up in their mind by getting them to talk about themselves, only talk about your own achievements when they ask
Make other people feel like an idea is their own
Try to understand how other people see things, try to see things from the other persons point of view so that you can manipulate it
Pretend to feel bad for other people, pretend to care about their ideas and wishes, if you must conflict with them, spin it
to make it seem like they are helping themselves in the long run
Appeal to people's sense of morality (it’s the right thing to do)
Facts, figures, math, none of them are enough for normies, you have to dramatize things to get their minds to click and understand and accept it,
it is all highly dependent upon context, but essentially imagine you are talking to a literal child, word everything in terms of that,
just don't let them know you are viewing them as a child
So many people are motivated by a challenge, wanting to prove themselves, wanting to feel powerful, even if the challenge itself is stupid, they feel
a deep need to overcome it, to say "I won", exploit that in the appropriate contexts, but never directly insult them to achieve it, say it indirectly,
imply it, and do not have a hint of passive-aggressiveness
Beginning with praise is like the dentist who begins work with Novocain. The patient is still going to get drilled. But the novocain numbs them."
Principle 1: Begin with praise and appreciation
"An effective way to correct others' mistakes is..."
Principle 2: Call attention to people's mistakes indirectly
"A good leader follows this principle:"
Principle 3: Talk about your own mistakes (whether true or false) before criticizing the other person
"An effective leader will..."
Principle 4: Ask questions instead of giving direct orders. Make them think they are playing a part in the decision.
"A real leader will always...“
Principle 5: Let the other person save face
"To become a more effective leader of people, apply.
Principle 6: Praise the slightest improvement, every improvement
"If you want to excel in that difficult leadership role of changing the attitude or behavior of others, use..."
Principle 7: Give the other person a fine reputation to live up to
"If you want others to improve, remember..."
Principle 8: Use encouragement, make the fault seem easy to correct
"People are more likely to do what you would like them to do when you use..."
Principle 9: Make the other person happy about doing the thing you suggest
Body language notes
Women have 14-16 sections of the brain for use in reading people's body language
Men have 4-6
Look for body language in clusters of 3, the more body language signals you can obtain the more accurate of a reading you can aqquire
Crossed arms and legs mean defensiveness and being closed off
Open palms mean friendliness, passiveness, openess
Fingers in the OK symbol mean thoughtfullness, goal orientedness, and being focused, and is to be used in the appropriate contexts
Avoid all instances of finger pointing
If you ever have a hand shake fumble, gently take the other persons right hand with your left and put it into your right hand
Flash a bright smile and say "woops lets try that again" and it will make them view you very positively because they think you care about them
Be wary of both having a limp handshake and of squeezing the other persons hand too hard
Unless you and the other person have a personal or emotional bond, only use a single-handed handshake.
Verticality is critical for handshakes, as is matching their grip intensity as closely as possible.
Only shake the hands once, not multiple times.
Never make a tight lipped smile: Showing no teeth, smile is relatively flat, it displays lying
Smile as often as it makes sense to smile: When meeting a new person, when they tell a joke, when talking about a positive event, etc
Make an effort to fake laugh when appropriate, use your own descretion
Smiles and laughter make other people smile and laugh, which makes them view you as friendly, open, non threatening, and it makes them feel happy
Never cross your arms or your legs
Never point at anything
Trust body language over words, body language is sub conscious and automatic, words are picked and chosen
If someone crosses their arms or legs try to figure out why they are doing it and fix it
If someone crosses their arms, try to give them something to do that forces them to uncross their arms
Negative body language reinforces negative thinking, break the negative body language as soon as you can
Arms crossed with clenched fists means hostility
Arms crossed with grasping upper arms means fear or uneasyness
Pay attention to arms crossed (or lack of) clusters to read people's thoughts before moving on, it allows you to figure out the best course of action
Lightly touch someone directly on their elbow with a single shake of the hands at a vertical angle for maximum effect
If elbow touching cannot be accomplished descretely and quickly do not attempt
When people motion with their hands to compare things, their right hand is the favored subject, the left hand is the non favored one
This translates as the left side hand from your point of view is their favorite, and the right side is the other one
When people rub their palms together quickly it means they feel that something good is going to happen to the group
When they do it slowly they think something good is going to happen to them
When people lock their hands together in front of them it represents frustration regardless of other body language cues
The higher their hands are raised the more frustrated they are, try to unlock their hands as quickly as possible to negate their frustration
When people press their hands together in front of them it represents confidence, observe other body language cues to figure out what they are confident about
>>17303550
Thanks for the advice anon
>>17303504
>>17303568
Alright so this is gonna take way too fucking long so see here for the entirety of it
http://freetexthost.com/szxansakjl
I'm still reading talk language so my notes aren't complete so this is what I have so far
http://freetexthost.com/dfvbowhbog
Also I haven't started a billion wicked thoughts yet
>>17303568
>>17303564
I've never experimented with body language before. I'll look into it more. Thanks
>>17303585
No problem anon, these fucking normies think that we deserve to live like this, they think that either you are born and naturally breeze through society or you deserve to live in isolation forever, I say fuck them, we can become better at all of this than even they are
We are so much smarter than them so it's time to start putting it to use
>>17303526
This is me to a tee. I didn't know there was a name for it. Nice
>>17303510
this OP
you have meme sociopathy, not actual sociopathy nor sociopathy as a personality type
I, on the other hand, have alpha chadmode sociopathy and get off by lying to women and making them horny but not actually fucking them unless they are hot or mentally ill. I will make a girl genuinely feel that I want to love her and be an amazing boyfriend to her, only to use her to get to the more attractive friends
>>17303608
I manipulated a qt recently. Made her think we had something special. Got her nudes and told her she was a whore. That's what makes me want to do this now. It worked before and I want to do it more
>>17303574
>>17303584
Thanks for these m8. I'm going to use them in a social engineering thing I'm writing up.
How much does culture play into body language? Are these all more aggregated from western culture samples?
>>17303608
I'm not OP I'm the guy that's been dumping advice and notes and shit
Technically at this point all of the stuff I'm talking about is just theory, it should work but I don't know that it will because it hasn't really been tested yet
Can you confirm that if you do all of this that it will work?
jesus christ youre pathetic
were you truly a sociopath youd already know how to or get hot girls, or youre just extremely ugly.
just stick to porn and extreme masturbation
>>17303626
Social Engineering == """Sociopathy""" == Charismatic Alpha Male
A series of techniques learned and practiced, over time, will develop better and better. If said techniques involve human """manipulation""" (hate that word tbhfam), then by practice you will become better at getting people to do what you want them to do.
That's the explicit knowledge stuff you post and a lot of SE people work with. Implicit, tacit ability comes from learned behavior. I manipulated my parents, friends, and teachers at a young age just because I "wanted" to, for example. The biggest tip for tacit knowledge is to believe your lies, to become immune to cognitive dissonance - this is seen as "charisma", or "confidence" to females and other stupid people.
>>17303643
So is that code for "yes" if I keep studying my shit and keep practicing?
>>17303630
spot the maddie underfucked stacy
You will NEVER have my sweet sweet DIO bod
>>17303647
Yes, keep practicing and reading - this field is moving really fast nowadays too.
Be sure to dissuade yourself from cognitive dissonance, always believe your lies and live in the moment.
>>17303667
Do you any other advice you can give me? Any books to read or whatever?
Also do you think my plan of joining a shit ton of clubs, rushing a bunch of frats, and in general trying to build a huge social life all put together on top of all the shit I'm already doing and will continue to do will all be enough to get me laid before the end of the year?
Or am I still too new to the alpha game?
>>17303651
Kek
>>17303630
Like I mentioned in this post >>17303623
I already know I can. I want to learn more about this so I can do it more. I already practice extreme masturbation but thanks for the suggestion
>>17303692
>Do you any other advice you can give me?
One thing that's hard (or easy, I don't know you) to do is to apply gravities to any social situation. Asking yourself "What is the gravity if I act on this hunch and it is not correct?" Concerning women, always do that. Assess your risk/reward AS you talk and lead the conversation. Not before, never before! The very second you two are eye to eye and talking about faggy romantic things and she parts her hair or eye-cues you as attractive - kiss her. The risk is "oh no I lost my chance with Suzy by not making out with Stacy" vs the reward of bj and sex and Suzy later. As soon as you feel your hunch has more gravity leaning on positive than negative - that is when you act, "move", "do". I call it gravity because I imagine scales for some reason.
>on frats
Depends on how much money you have. Those fuckers are expensive. I quit after a semester, fucked some bipolar chick wanting to be model tho. Parties were fun.
If it was easy to become a Chad, we'd have no more virgins and /adv/ would be obsolete
>>17303776
That sounds nice but what if she flips out or something
I could handle a single girl going "ew what the hell man" but I don't want to get kicked out of a place and have everyone dislike me over it
>>17303809
Who gives a fuck dude, after 3 hours everyone forgets you did stupid shit. After 3 days everyone forgets you exist.
Think how you think, that's how others think - only about themselves.
>>17303822
so no one will care except for the girl?
Different anon here. I was gonna start a thread and ask on how to stop the "sociopathic/social engineering" parts of my personality after a date I had last night. For the date (about 4 hours), I was very frank and leading on how it went. Even said things that made her blush and try and get a hold of herself (oh I am falling for him too fast). However you know that you can't rush love too fast, which made me think it wasn't gonna work. Well today I was bored and opened up the dating app we matched on. She had put up a new photo today on the app which pretty much confirmed what I guessed. Which made me think back to all the times when my family and friends complained that I somehow get mostly I want, even though I don't complain.
After reading what y'all have written, I guess it's best to just refine whatever skills I have rather than unlearn and build new skills and habits. Maybe I'll start getting more out of my life rather than constantly double-checking and fighting myself. I know that I don't want to hurt anyone, I'm just tired of being sad that things aren't going according to my plans. I could have meme sociopathy as an anon said above. Thanks for the references tho.
>>17303784
It is, really
The problem is that betas make it way more harder by believing that they will never make it
>>17304476
Agreed, all it takes is a little confidence
