Hello /adv/ , I've come seeking wisdom.
>been admiring this girl for sometime now
>share the same interests, hobbies
>know where she works
>know her birthday is coming up
>debating if I should send flowers + gift box to her work.
>I'd go in person but, don't wanna fuck it up and come off as creeper
>introverted as fuck
Pick very related ( how i'm feeling )
>she's very introverted as well if that helps.
Short answer: don't.
>>17302321
Hell no, don't send anything to her workplace, and don't show up there.
Call her to say happy birthday and such.
>>17302328
>Call her to say happy birthday and such.
Don't even call her. It'll just be an awkward conversation
>>17302322
>>17302328
>>17302335
Okay, so do nothing. Got it.
>>17302402
But do you actually know her, or is her some waitress you seen and then found on fb?
>>17302446
I know her, been crushing on her for about 4 years now, but I moved away and recently came back into town. I have her on Snapchat. We conversate every now and then on weeby things. I know that she is single.
>>17302328
Call her, but plan on making it a short conversation if words get stale. Have some excuse ready beforehand to end the conversation. "Happy Birthday X, blah blah blah, opps sorry was waiting in the vets office for the dogs appointment and they called us in, gtg bye."
Some shit like that.
>>17302555
Oh ok, then call her or text her saying happy birthday, its not creepy, from the OP it seemed you were stalking some poor girl
>>17302560
>>17302642
Like just hey what's up, just calling to wish you a happy bday, hope you're doing well?
>>17302642
Sorry, that wasn't my intension. I should've been more specific.
>>17302672
Idk how close you are to her but yeah, something like that
Do you ever hang out at eachother's places? If so you could surprise her at her place. Otherwise give her something next time you hang out.
Don't send anything to work. Unless she talks about you to her co workers it will be weird.
