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I have been with the same man for going on 3 years. I have never
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I have been with the same man for going on 3 years. I have never cheated, nor have I felt tempted to.
He knows I am bisexual, and has been fine with me fooling around with other women in the past. Our first sexual experience together was a threesome with my best friend.
Lately, our sex doesn't satisfy me. I think about women constantly. I feel like an adolescent boy in an adult female's body. I wait until I he goes to sleep then I get myself off to porn.
What is wrong with me? I know I'm not a lesbian. Although I'm not attracted to any other men at the moment, I have been all my life. Every time he's inside me though it feels so redundant, and dull.
Inb4 "he's small" - he is rather large actually. Too large for us to engage in anal.
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>>17302021
Seems like you just got bored of him and sex with men. You'll probably feel the same way if you constantly had sex with women and no men. Try spicing it up with another threesome
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Has anyone experienced anything similar....? I know most people aren't bi. Hell, a lot of gay people don't even believe in bisexuality. I'd just like to get an idea of what is wrong with me. This has been going on for a month
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>>17302030
This was another issue I hoped to address. Other females do NOT like me. I am not ugly by any means - pretty average looking. Women were all over me 2 years ago, but since we all moved on with our lives I've gotten nothing, aside from a friend's girlfriend who likes to do stuff with me occasionally. At this point, pretty girls make me nervous. I think maybe they can sense that?
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getting bored of a person with sex is nothing new

you need something to spice it up. how does he perceive the sex? does he feel its not the same either?
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>>17302058

He still begs me daily. He has always been super into me sexually, as all my boyfriends have (I'm small and have a tight pussy)
I feel horrible rejecting him, I love him so much, I just can't do it lately. Hoping this is merely a phase, and will pass eventually
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>>17302080
>begs you

You sound like you need to be seized not begged for sex. Tell him to stop begging and be rougher and take charge if he's too much of a pussy himself. I'd show you what's up that's for fucking sure, your bf sounds like a bitch.
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>>17302094
>>17302094
Thank you. Back in the day this was routine. I put up a playful fight, but he always took me regardless. It's like he has softened up towards me after being so intimate for so long. We have lived together since one month in. I have pressured him to be more aggressive, and he has listened, but he still stops when i say no??
Idk, I think he may be afraid of losing me at this point so he doesn't want to push his luck

Trust me, he's no pussy. He is the typical alpha male. It's more annoying than anything sometimes.
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>>17302112
Well then all you need is good communication. Relationship success and good sex and the whole thing boil down to good open clear communication with each other. He can't read your mind, and he might have shit going on you don't know about that's stressful, etc.
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Any advice on how I can attract other women..? Like I said, I was hoping to touch on this issue too. I work in retail so the majority of women I meet are complete retards. If they aren't then they're customers, and I feel uncomfortable flirting. I have a difficult time meeting others on my level of intelligence/with similar interests. Not that I'm soooo smart or anything. A little more so than your average bear I suppose? It's not like highschool where my entire group of friends consisted of intelligent, attractive, bicurious women. They have all moved on to bigger and better things :(
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>>17302135
He REFUSES. I know he had a difficult childhood, but he is the worst person to try communicating with. That could be part of why I'm craving the company of a woman. As I said before, he is a typical alpha male and does not believe that real men emote period. luckily i am intuitive enough to tell he does in fact have feelings, and he does love me, but trying to communicate with him on a deep level is like trying to talk to a brick wall. I'm afraid if i told him how I've been feeling he'd chalk it up to me being into women only and start a fight. He is emotionally retarded
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