Is there pills or something I can get? Or other therapy?
How do I cure myself?
Suck a dick 2 to 3 times daily, as symptoms present themselves.
t. a doctor
>>17301719
i dont want to perform homosexual sex acts they're fucking disgusting
>>17301722
You said you have urges in the OP. Aka wanting to perform homosexual acts.
>>17301724
i said i wanted to stop them you utter spastic
>>17301702
Homosexuality is not a disease, if you think it is your problem is not homosexuality but thinking it is wrong
>>17301726
Sucking a dick will stop your urges. Trust me I'm a doctor.
>>17301733
i dont care whether its "right" or wrong i just want a way to stop the impulses
>>17301734
epic
You can't stop your urges.
Nothing wrong with sexual experimentation
You mean chemical castration?
just get down on your knees and pray the gay away
>>17301760
that seems a bit extreme
>>17301702
I'm sure this is bait, but I'll give a shot at answering seriously anyway.
You have to accept that it's okay to be homo so you can assess yourself objectively and work out why you have urges about men rather than women. If you have to experiment then that's okay. It's part of learning about yourself, and maybe that will be the only way you can figure out that you prefer women. If you let your emotions and fears get in the way of figuring this out it will cloud your judgment.
>>17301702
weak b8, get cucked roody poo faggot
>>17301702
Get yourself exorcised
>>17301775
i dont want to be attracted to men why is that so objectionable to you faggots
its a perfectly reasonable desire ffs
>>17301792
Don't let them try to convince you to become something you don't want to be.
>>17301702
talk to girls
>>17301702
Your options are the following:
1) Don't repress your sexuality and explore it (mentally speaking), find out why you think it is disgusting and go from there
2) Repress your sexuality and become Jeffrey Dahmer, John Wayne Gacy, or Dean Corll (Candy Man).
The choice is yours!
>>17302052
I'm not repressing my sexuality I just want to get rid of the impulses I don't want. I'm not gay
>>17301702
cock is the answer.
>>17301799
He can't "become" anything, he is already gay.
>>17302074
Repress - suppress (a thought, feeling, or desire) in oneself so that it becomes or remains unconscious.
You're repressing your homosexuality.
>>17302074
see below
>>17302101
this ^^
There is no cure, there is no magic pill and there is no therapy to get rid of sexual impulses/drivers. To do so is a mere attempt to suppress your basic human needs, and, in doing so, you also start waning in social acceptance without ever knowing why. Inherently making your life a living fucking nightmare.
Just stop, you have urges/desires, explore them and weigh the pros/cons on their own merits, not by using anecdotes that have been drilled in your head. If you don't like where your exploration is taking you, then you should naturally come out of it and lose the desires.
Homosexual urges are no different from say the urge of a married man attracted to another woman, or a person sexually aroused by latex balloons. The urge is real, but how it came to be is more complex, and doesn't necessarily define you as a person. There are for example people who experience sexual arousal involving children. These physical reactions are real, but not always morally accepted.
If you find yourself experiencing a sexual attraction that you believe is wrong, then there are ways to combat such urges. I would recommend speaking with a religious leader, if religious, or a trained therapist that specializes in human sexuality. Again, it is important to understand that by wanting to control your sexual desires, you are not making a statement or judgment on others. You have the right to control your own body, and sometimes that means control one's own urges. Remember, we all combat urges we don't deem functional or healthy.
>>17302074
>I'm not gay
You can keep believing that, if you like. There are no pills you can take, and there isn't any therapy that can cure it. The only thing you can do short of ignoring it is accept it. This is the best advice you're going to get. If you want, you can stand your ground and pretend you don't like men, but at the end of the day, what's going to give you a boner is going to give you a boner. You can either choose to live a life of constant self-hatred over something ultimately insignificant, autistically curtailing your clothing and mannerisms so as to not "look gay", continuing to seek some therapy that doesn't exist, so on and so forth, or you can accept it and move on, like most people do. It's completely up to you. Most likely, judging from your posts, you're going to ignore everything I just said and either A: seek some bullshit alternative medicine to cure the gay or B: find some "doctor" who will give you some "treatment" that won't work.
>>17302156
shut up, worst fucking advice ever.
>>17302171
agreed
>>17302171
The issue isn't whether the attraction is real, the issue is if he wants to entertain it or be defined by it.
Your advice is like say, "If you're attracted to dead people, then you might as well accept yourself as a necrophiliac and go find some dead people to have sex with".
I once encountered a study that identified a large percentage of a sample of men that were found to react sexually using brain scans while showing underage girls. By your logic, they are all pedophiles.
>>17302201
"reacting sexually" is different from "having a sexual urge". People can "react sexually" to practically anything. That's pretty far from wanting to do something to a person. I also never really suggested that he should act on his desires. There just isn't a way to change them.
>>17302201
There is a huge difference between what you're suggesting and OP's issue.
You don't just wake up day and start desiring to fuck a corpse, there are underlying causes to that mentality.
Have you taken any psychology, at all? Can you provide a link to this study you're referring to? Did you also read a study on necrophilia?
Same-sex attraction is just as natural as opposite-sex attraction, and by that standard, you're claiming necrophilia is natural, which it isn't.
Just quit, out with the bad advice.
>>17301702
Dude I hit up a really hot girl on okcupid and I was straight. She said she wants an open minded straight guy to pair with her in a foursome with another girl and a feminine dude. I have never been turned on from male features and I have never had gay urges. EVER.
I just let this guy come over and blow me, I came in his mouth 3 times per the agreement I had with the girl. I was very uptight about my sexuality at first but eventually came to the understanding that we are all human and some things feel good no matter who's doing it to you. Shit I even let him lick my ass and it was great, there's something about a woman doing that to me that is a bit of a turn off. Not so with feminine gay dude. My advice is to let it go. Let go of this fucking ego you have that dictates YOUR OWN urges as bad. They are only bad because other's are telling you it's bad. Homosexual acts have been happening FOREVER. Homosexuality was even more popular than heterosexuality in Rome.
But I'm 27 and have spent most of my life exploring what the world and my body has to offer. I'm speaking of mind altering drugs of course. Alternate states of consciousness. And currently I'm exploring my sexuality. Since my experience with this guy, I definitely know that I am not gay but that definitely doesn't mean I'm against him sucking on my balls as rocking this girls world. I think it's just time to grow up and accept who you are. Ego is getting in your way. Ever hear of the book beginners mind? It's like 100 pages, I really recommend giving it a read. It was written in 1970 and was instrument in opening my mind past the bullshit barriers my parents placed around me.
>>17302218
Reacting sexually is the exact same as sexual urges. The "urge" we feel is a reaction to a stimulus. For a straight man, the sexual urge may be triggered by a feminine appearance, and the way the brain reacts during an urge can be measured, which is wear sexual attraction is identified in my example.
Simply put, human beings are capable of virtually any sexual outlet, since so much of attraction and arousal is psychological. However, that does not mean that we should treat every sexual urge or sexual attraction as healthy or edifying.
>>17302052
Or Tom Cruise, Hugh Jackman or Chris Evans
>>17301702
cock is the answer
the problem is I don't have the same urges when I see girls. I'm obviously not gay, I don't want the feelings towards mens, so you can stop with the epicb8 trolls and give me real advice or fuck off
Just be gay you fucking faggot.
>>17301702
smoke crack
>>17303263
>I don't have the same urges when I see girls. I'm obviously not gay
this is some next-level denial.
there is literally nothing you can do. there's no "real advice" and nobody is trolling. you're stuck being gay.
luckily, nobody cares anymore. just don't move to Saudi Arabia or Europe.
>>17301702
You know you might just be bi, not 100% gay. Just a thought. Do you get off to girls?
Anyways there isn't a way to stop being gay. Pray away the gay camps don't work, and you'll just end up hating yourself more for the experience. It's best to learn to live with yourself. Why do you care that you sometimes want to suck a dick?
>>17303314
I masturbate to girls but before I cum I always think about something gay.
I don't want to suck a dick otherwise I would. I'm not gay I just need to get rid of the urges
>>17303847
Stop masturbating with porn. You're just getting desensitized to normal stuff and your mind's needing more deviancy to get off. It's a downward slope from here.
This is obvious bait
But if its not inject 4mg of Triptorelin in to your belly fat.
You should be able to find it pretty easy on line
>>17301792
You're just really scared that you don't want anybody to know.
Don't worry op, once you come out the closet nobody will care, it's 2016
>>17303847
Do traps/femboys/shemales turn you on?
Don't lie op you're anonymous. We won't judge you
We just need to know if you're heteroflexible (attracted to girls and guys that look like girls)
>>17303847
Yeah you're attracted to the deviance. Just embrace the homosexuality in a safe space online with porn and you will grow tired of it just like you grew tired of your other fetishes. It happened for me.
Also if you're bisexual, which I feel is more likely, you're probably confusing the amount of attraction you have. If you are 99% attracted to girls, 1% attraction to men can scare you shitless, thinking you are 100% gay, which isn't true. Most people aren't 100% one way or the other, but still stick to their sexuality of majority, aka kinsey scale.
