Put yourself through mentally taxing ordeals.

>>17300904
>I feel as if she is probably the only woman I ever had a lot in common with.

That you've met. So far. In your short years of life. In a remote corner of the planet.

>How do you strength the spirit and mind?

Reading. Understanding. Not being a baby.

>>17300918

You don't get it man. She was borderline perfection. I could spend the rest of my years waiting for another like her. She was so exactly what I was looking for that now she is polluted my dating pool. Now, I feel as if I have to find someone just like her or else its a waste.

But you get the gist. Also, I will try to do more reading. What do you recommend?

>>17300928
The writings of E.B. Sledge, for some perspective.