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I'm going to have sex for the first time in about 3 hours.
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I'm going to have sex for the first time in about 3 hours.

1. My partner is very experienced, knows exactly what she's doing, and she knows I'm a virgin.

2. Although he is allergic to latex, she is on birth control. She also wants to be on top.

3. It will be at my house. My parents will be home, but I can lock my door and play music.

4. Lastly, my penis is slightly below average, about 4.7 inches in length when fully erect.

What can I do? I want this to be as great of an experience as it can be.
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>>17300537
>1. My partner is very experienced, knows exactly what she's doing, and she knows I'm a virgin.
Then don't fucking worry.

>What can I do? I want this to be as great of an experience as it can be.
Try to relax, and enjoy it. You will probably cum right away, but hey, you can always go for round 2 and 3.
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>slightly

You got a babby dick
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>3. It will be at my house. My parents will be home, but I can lock my door and play music.

This is a bad idea.
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>>17300562
Thanks for that.

>>17300568
Think so? This is usually what we do when we fool around. What should I do instead?
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>>17300574
>What should I do instead?
Wait until your parents are away for a weekend or something. Or go to her place. Or go somewhere else.

Your parents are most likely not idiots. Even if they don't barge in, they're going to knock and ruin it.
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>>17300574
If you're a legal adult, don't worry about it.
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>>17300537
About the size: don't fucking worry. A lot of people will tell you it's small only to put you down. Mine is actually pretty close to 4.7 inches and my ex enjoyed it.

About the parents, it's a bad idea unfortunatelly. Go to a better place or even wait for a better chance at home. You won't regret.
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>>17300574
I would feel awkward having sex with my parents in the same house.

If you don't; who cares; do what you want.
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>>17300592
Weirdly enough, there's a good chance that my parents won't care or would just deal with it. I wouldn't bet on it, but they've never interrupted us before, even when it was very obvious that we were messing around. Should I still risk it?

>>17300590
I'm nineteen and she's eighteen next month. This is legal where I live, so don't worry. We're both very sure about this as well.

>>17300588
Thank you. I've always heard you just need to know how to work it. I fingered her today and she seemed incredibly sensitive, so hopefully I can pleasure her just fine. Is the parent thing really /that/ bad of an idea?
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>>17300622
>Is the parent thing really /that/ bad of an idea?
Depends on your parents.

If you're nineteen and she's eighteen, then they probably don't give a fuck. Mine didn't at that age, but with my first gf (she was 15 and I was 16) they (and her parents) tried to stop us from having sex all the time.
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>>17300537
she knows youre a virgin and she wants to fuck you anyways, so dont sweat it. she isnt going to expect you to be great at fucking when its your first time.
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Think of a joke to explain your comically small penis.
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>>17300632
lol i was fucking 23 and my biblebanger dad was still bitching about me having my girl stay the night, it was fucking ridiculous.
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>My partner is very experienced
>she's eighteen next month
RED FLAG! RED FLAG!
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>>17300643
Anon, OP is a virgin. She could have had only one partner, and she would still be infinitely more experienced than OP.

>>17300642
Awh, that sucks, yeah. I'm so glad neither my parents nor any of my gfs have made a fuss about it in my adult years. Though I do understand why they tried to prevent me when I was 16, even though it was pretty futile since me and my gf fucked every fucking chance we got.
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>>17300632
I don't think they'd try to stop us at all, but I'd like to keep them a bit oblivious if at all possible. This is why I suggested the music. We've spent hours alone in my room in similar situations, and my parents never batted an eye. For all they know, we could have had sex multiple times already.

>>17300636
Thanks for this. I just don't want to disappoint her. She was the first girl I've extensively made out with and she laughed at me the first time because of how bad I was at kissing. She didn't mean it, and he said it was cute. We both laughed it off and I made an effort to get better. It didn't bother me because it was just mouth on mouth contact, but I'd really like to avoid this situation during sex, if only for my sake.
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>>17300537
>astly, my penis is slightly below average, about 4.7 inches in
Lmao surprised you had the confidence to even talk to a woman. You'll just have to be that guy who sleeps with a lot of women but never get involved.
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>>17300654
>I don't think they'd try to stop us at all, but I'd like to keep them a bit oblivious if at all possible. This is why I suggested the music. We've spent hours alone in my room in similar situations, and my parents never batted an eye. For all they know, we could have had sex multiple times already.
It's going to be fine, anon. Music is a good idea. Locking the door is a good idea, but yeah, everything is going to be fine.

>I just don't want to disappoint her. She was the first girl I've extensively made out with and she laughed at me the first time because of how bad I was at kissing. She didn't mean it, and he said it was cute. We both laughed it off and I made an effort to get better.
In my experience, that genuinely sounds like she thinks it was cute. I mean, she's still kissing you and going to fuck you.

She knows you're a virgin, it's going to be fine. Just don't stress things.
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>>17300660
You're a cunt and a liar. OP has nothing to worry about. Here's your (you)
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>>17300664
Thank you. I really hope things go well. She did honestly think it was cute, but I doubt she'll think it's as cute when I struggle to get into position and finish in under a minute.
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>>17300718
There's always second (and third) round. Just do a really long foreplay. Play around, make out, rub eachother, finger, whatever first. Do it for a long time.
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>>17300721
I suppose you're right. Is there anything I should avoid doing? Something that I should do a lot? She's into lip biting and hair pulling, so I'd imagine I'll do a fair amount of both.
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>>17300660
ignore this dipshit, hes likely a butthurt virgin. i wouldnt call 4.7 "small". and yeah, having a big dick is nice, but its more about how you use it.
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>>17300732
That's a good way to look at it. I've heard of guys working 3.5 inch penises, and a friend of mine has a 8 incher. He has trouble having sex and getting off because girls can't take it.
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>>17300537
>Although she is allergic to latex, she is on birth control
She has herpes. Don't contract herpes from her. Get a fucking latex-free condom.
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>>17300791
Seconded the latex free condom, but I'm not sure about the herpes.
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>>17300791
>She has herpes
Go fuck yourself.

>>17300804
Is it really that important?
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>>17300697
>>17300732
No woman wants to marry that guy with a small dick. the one thing I hate about you fucks is that you sugar coat things to be that 'nice' guy and make people feel good. No motnerfucker, that only gets people hurt in the long run, when they don't have the time to accept themselves and end up depressed the resr of their life. You do more harm than good.
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Sticking your tiny "penis" into the gaping maw of her experienced snatch'll be like riding one of those Little Tykes cars down to the bottom of the Mariana Trench. May as well get hammered, you're not gonna feel shit anyway.
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She had to leave early.
In somewhat related news, suicide is imminent.
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>>17300537
>My partner is very experienced
>she's eighteen next month

Lol enjoy your whore
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>>17300537
>I'm going to have sex for the first time in about 3 hours

G-good for y-you!
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>>17301293
What happened?
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>>17301293
Did she see your dick and then leave?
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>>17301355
She seriously just had to go. She had a family issue we both knew was possible. She kissed me and left.

When she was gone I just started thinking to myself about how we could never work. She's doing her best to avoid getting attached to me because she's leaving the country for school soon. She has very big plans for her future and I'm just some nobody she accidentally fell for from her hometown.

This, compiled with all my other issues are now weighing down on me, and I'm not sure I'll make it through the night.
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>>17301366
She's seen my dick multiple times before today.
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You're going to get an STD, boy.

I know that's the last thing on the mind of a virgin... But holy shit, it's very real. Especially if your partner is allergic to latex and very experienced.
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>>17300537
>she is allergic to latex

Bullshit. You just doesn't want you to use a rubber.
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>>17301379
Sex doesn't define who you are, Anon.
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>>17301370
You two probably won't last, but that's still no reason to kill yourself. It means there's someone better out there you just haven't met yet. I truly believe that, OP. You can make it through this.
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>>17301411
I hope you're right. I just can't imagine someone more perfect in every way if I tried. Before I met her, if someone asked what my idea of a perfect partner was, I would have described her exactly.
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>>17301467
I'm only a year older than you, and I hate the "you're young" and the "there are other fish in the sea" cards, but I feel like they apply in this case. You have so much time to find "the one". Please don't let this get you too down.
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>>17301404
Yes it does =(
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>>17301488
Did you really change your tripname like we wouldn't recognize you
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>>17301543
I changed it because I felt like changing it up

Nobody else factored into it faggot
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>>17301550
>autist tripfag thinks I'm the faggot
Funny.
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>>17301563
You have a low bar for humor
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>>17301568
As do you, apparently.
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>>17301579
Stop responding to it, holy shit.
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>>17301584
I know I'm sorry. I can't believe I let myself get sucked in. I'm a disgrace.
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>>17301594
I didn't even suck you in moron you started it
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>>17301467
Why is she so perfect? What is it that's going for her so much?
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>>17300537
>allergic to latex
>she is on birth control

this is the oldest trick in the book they use to trap guys like you. enjoy your child support op and having your life ruined.
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>>17301643
Every bit of her appearance is perfect. Everything she does is perfect. Every mannerism, every interest, every word in her vocabulary. All of her hobbies, all of her phrases. She talks to me in a way nobody ever has before, and I've never met someone so easy to talk to. The way she smiles and stops me when we're kissing just to look me in the eye and smile. The way she sits up while we're messing around and holds my hand against her heart so I can feel how hard it's beating.
Everything.
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>>17301651
For real. I'm allergic to latex and on birth control but still use latex-free condoms
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>>17301664
Life isn't a movie, OP.
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>>17301664
This is called having a crush. You click very well, and you think she's perfect. Stop putting her on a pedestal.
What are her interests and hobbies?
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>>17301666
She's not against the use of latex-free condoms. The only reason I mentioned it in my OP is because I wasn't sure if I should go out of my way and buy some latex-free condoms or if her birth control would work it out. I didn't want to show up without condoms as well, because maybe she expects me to bring some.
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>>17301664
What does she think of you?
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>>17301688
She likes me. A lot. And she doesn't like that, because she's going to be leaving.
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>>17301704
Why does she leave?
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>>17301706
School
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>>17301664
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>>17301709
Can't you go to a school near her?
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>>17301744
I was too stupid when I was in high school, I don't have the grades or money to get there. She'll find someone new by the time I get my grades high enough to transfer anyway.
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>>17301770
But pitying yourself won't lead anywhere. Act like a man, get your shit together, for you, and achieve what you want. Ambition and charisma is attractive. If not for her, for pulling girls that are even better than her.
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>>17301784
You're right. Fuck, you're so right. This is what I needed to hear.
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Step 1: Get her in the mood
If you're a virgin, don't go in for the bangarang right away. You're gonna end up with Nerves, underperform, and end up mentally scarring yourself the rest of your life after she said the sex was "alright" after you think you swung it out of the park for some reason. Take some time to get her in the mood for it. If she wants romantic, do romantic. If she wants dirty, dirty talk her while you're making out and get your hands ALL OVER THAT SHIT
>Step 2: Speaking of hands
Foreplay -IS- fucking important. Whether you've got an average, mediocre, lacking, tiny, or even huge dick, foreplay actually matters. And, once again, don't think the shit in porn works. Don't just start jamming your fingers in her squeezebox like you're digging the last bit of peanut butter of the jar. Tease her, kiss parts of her body that aren't her tits, crotch, or ass. Rub some thigh. Massage her pussy over her panties. Kiss down her back. That sorta shit.
Step 3: The mouth is a sexual organ
Dirty Talk if she likes it. Kiss, lick, play with her whole body. Then eat her pussy like you mean it. Trace the folds, run your tongue around, explore with it, probe with it, then lick your want in. Want to be lazy? Trace the alphabet a couple times over/in her pussy between the folds, over her clit (lightly), in/over her actual hole.
Step 4: NOW fuck her
If you made her cum before this step, congratz. She now thinks you're a sexual god probably. Either way, she's obviously enjoying herself, she already got off, Get yourself off guilt free too. Wrap it and tap away from here. Don't be a beta-pussy when she doesn't cum on your cock cause guess what? Vast majority of women need clitoral stimulation to cum. Vaginas are complicated.

The reason why girls go for douchebags and not for nice guys is because douchebags are loud and confident while 'nice guys' are quiet and introverted/shy - the biggest turn-off for women. You think you're a 'nice guy' but actually, you're a little bitch.
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>>17301798
Now call her, arrange another date and sex her until her legs won't work.
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>>17301806
>>17301816
Gonna happen tomorrow.
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>>17301859
Keep us updated.
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AYY BABBYDICK LMAO
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>>17301868
(You)
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>>17300537
>at my parent's house
>they will be home
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