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dating a fucking normie and didn't realize till now. what do?
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dating a fucking normie and didn't realize till now. what do?
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can i just force my 4chan meme on them?
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>>17295514
Kill yourself obviously.
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>>17295546
why?
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>>17295558
>normie
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Scream 'reee' until she goes away.
We're your girlfriend how, anon.
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>>17295563
me or because i used that word?

i'm serious though. he even goes to 9gag. going to kill self now
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>>17295565
>sides in paradise

can i make a mixtape with that one?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i9bjm1-EU5M
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he has some good tendencies. should i just introduce him to 4chan and let the rest take care of itself?
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op youre a dumbass. anyone who bases their identity on not being a normie or being into 4chan is a tool
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>>17295580
>bases their identity on not being a normie or being into 4chan is a tool
completely agree with you on that. it would still be nice to be on the same wave.
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>>17295576
>grills are normies by default
Are you a fag or a grill?
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>>17295592
>>grills are normies by default
TRIGGERED
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>>17295593
Prove me wrong.
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>>17295596
this not /b/ silly
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>>17295514
Has your date seen you?
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>>17295600
wat? we're dating since half a year. and no, it's not a LDR-online thing
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>>17295593
Guess that means you're a grill. Just do generic grill stuff, be yourself, be nice and cute, and you'll be fine. If you're landwhale, shed fat.
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>>17295603
>Just do generic grill stuff, be yourself, be nice and cute, and you'll be fine
why the fuck would i want to do that? my problem is not that i think he might leave. it's more that he bores the shit out of me sometimes.
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>>17295602
Then what's your problem?
You have a happy relationship with someone for half a year and you're whining. Don't you fuck enough or what?
>robots these days
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>>17295608
>Then what's your problem?
that he sends me 9gag memes from 5 years ago and and plays assassins creed unironically
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>>17295607
What interests you?
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>>17295612
>people who love me have interests that aren't mine
Pure torture. If you don't like it, show him better.
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>>17295615
as in what my hobbies are? or what i want to do more of with him?
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>>17295617
Both, and also what's missing from your relationship.
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>>17295616
i asked if i can just force my 4chan memes on him... so, i can?
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>>17295514
This is an excellent opportunity to learn about normies: how to understand them, and how to make yourself understood by them. If you can do these two things, you wull have the tools you need to survive in the normie world. Do not let this chance pass you by.
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>>17295514
Man, go back to r9k faggot. Not all grills will share your love of the neet living.
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>>17295619
If they are not too /b/ or /r9k/ then sure, why not.
You have to decide what do you want to do with this guy and how much you value him, and show that face of yours to him accordingly. If you just want to fuck around, do whatever pleases you. If you want to marry him, appear normie, and slowly find out what crazy things he's into.
Also, what makes you not a normie?
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>>17295514
>talking to a girl on Tinder is considered dating
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>>17295618
i do paper cuts like pic related. i like to write silly fantasy shortstories.
i like to draw and play the piano.
i want to do stuff like watch anime with him and make fun about how pol is freaking out about muh habbening again.
but seriously, i think i miss him being not so naive mostly.
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>>17295628
>Also, what makes you not a normie?
nothing, actually. maybe that i'm socially retarded and very shy.
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>>17295667
You sound pretty normie to me. Your hobbies are normie, anime can be normie if you don't watch it too much, making fun of pol is normie. Believing pol is not normie. I think there's nothing wrong with you.

Is he inexperienced or sheltered beta?
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>>17295667
Nothing you like to do involves going outside. Pretty sure you're the boring one.

Sincerely, a normie
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>>17295620
>how to understand them, and how to make yourself understood by them
i did that. thus the normie bf. fact is, i like it on the other side better.
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>>17295673
Then two normies found love. Where's the problem with that?
>socially retarded and very shy
That's cute in a girl. Also you said to the other anon here >>17295667 that you miss him being naive. If you realize he's naive you're not socially retarded. You might be shy, but you are socially aware. Socially retarded people don't recognize naivity.
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>>17295674
>I think there's nothing wrong with you.
i never said there is...

>Is he inexperienced or sheltered beta?
both

>>17295676
Pretty sure you're the boring one.
never said i'm not, either
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>>17295677
>i like on the other side better

>>17295673
>I'm a normie

Make up your mind. What exactly do you find wrong?
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>>17295686
So you're the normie with some 4chan influence and he's the not normie beta who bores you with his betaness. Then either date alpha men, or own your desires and femdom him.
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>>17295694
i just think we are on a different level. we can't really discuss stuff because he never questions anything. he rather goes out with a bunch of friends whils i would prefer to stay at home. i find myself faking a lot of things around him and i hate that.
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>>17295697
>bores you with his betaness
it's not that.

>femdom him
i do. doesn't do the trick.
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>>17295702
So you're an introvert normie, and he's an extrovert. Open your mouth and talk with him. Don't fake.
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>>17295716
Yes sir
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>>17295704
Then why are you bored of him, if you like his betaness?

>i do. doesn't do the trick.
Uhm, then you're the one who's boring. If you took the lead and the relationship is still boring.
Is sex good at least?
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>>17295719
Communicate more. Sit down, and explain to him what you miss and what you want differently. If he's ok with you taking the lead, it's easy.
Communication makes or breaks a relationship. Communication and orgasms.
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>>17295720
You can be beta and still be able to hold a conversation.

I mean't it doesn't help with the rest. Sex is good.
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>>17295727
If he's the extrovert and have friends, he can most likely hold a conversation just fine. You have some serious communications problem. Betas are shy and socially retarded, so being bad at converstion is something to be expected.
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>>17295514
>dating
>Doesn't text her, uses tinder instead
>"dating"
>normie
Yeah fuck off
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>>17295667
make those things in the shapes of city maps and people will buy them, maybe put lights behind them and use really opaque papers
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