>>17295284
Nope. She made you promise because she was cheating and wanted to have the freedom of no repercussions.

Good job OP, you were not a faggot today.

Not at all.

It's a complicated situation and I'm sure there are many people (her included, I'm quite certain) which would defend her as being vulnerable, stressed out and emotionally unstable or numb. For me you are in the clear, she didn't uphold her part of the relationship, a part that doesn't involve doing nothing besides being cheating idiot, which shouldn't really be that hard.

Care to share story? How did you found out, how long has she cheated on you? I love good cheating story, was cheated on myself.

>>17295284
No you held your end of the bargain

Congrats OP right choice, now be dodge her manipulative attempts to win you back like wrenches and you will be in the clear

You're fine. Obviously she was going through some shit and maybe she's not a bad person day-to-day, but that doesn't oblige you to be treated like crap. She really fucked up here and has to take her lumps. Hopefully she learns from it.

>>17295284
Good on you op for not falling prey to her bullshit. That kind of level headed thinking and ability to watch out for yourself will do you good.

>>17295322
Posted it many times, getting bored of it.

Long story short.

We had a wedding planned in a month, I've broken into her facebook because she was acting unusual, somehow strange. I could see through her that's she's hiding something since it was pretty damn long relationship, love of my life, etc.
It was clear that she's talking to her friends that she's fucking other guy. Pretty nasty shit. That she loves him but she's unsure about his affections so she keeps me as a plan B for safe landing.

When I confronted her she started saying that it was all made up, there was no cheating, and she wanted only impress her friends and gather attention by making up some drama story. She was assuring me that she loves me.

It's even more complicated because I know she's mythomaniac and sometimes makes up shit about her life. She once told her friends that she has terminal cancer herself, told the other one that her parent is already dead, also for attention.

It seems so unreal, I can't tell what is truth and what is a lie now, but I've said fuck that and left.

I kinda feel like shit though because "what if".

It could be even that she really has cancer herself and was hiding it from me, and saying that was a lie was a lie in a lie.

It drives me crazy sometimes, but I can't find a way to clear that up. I'll never know because I've went no contact.

Still feel like shit.

>>17295376

Holy shit dude, RUN. This is so much worse than what you said in the OP. Fuck promises, fuck whether she really cheated on you, just stay away from her.

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>>17295457
It's done.

Only the feels remain.

>>17295457
Yeah, I'm gonna go with this. Run, OP

>>17295376
You did good OP, it could have ended into some serious shit.

>>17295284
No. She asked for your support and then stabbed you in the back.

>>17295376
what if what?

if she really has cancer then a bad broken person is going to die. oh well!

protip son, no girl is ever dying or has cancer. its the fucking oldest trick in the manipulator book.

>>17296398
>No. She asked for your support and then stabbed you in the back.
This. I'm sorry that you're going through this, but she brought it on herself.

You shouldn't have gone into her Facebook, though.

>>17296464
Yeah, a dick move.

But I've dodged a bullet. Can't feel bad for that.

What if I hadn't? From what I've read this whole wedding thing was a jealousy game for some other guy, she hoped that he will take her away just before the wedding or maybe even during it.

But that's too hilarious to fully be true, maybe she was really making this up, I'll never know.

One way or another, deal is broken and no coming back.