Why does my boyfriend not want me to give him oral or a hand job when I am on my period?
He told me "sex or nothing" and to just wait until I finish my period.
Is he disgusted by me?
I asked him and he just told me to stop being obsessed with "it". Whatever that means. I am not a nympho or anything, we average sex once or twice a week and sometimes go months without it. So I am not obsessed..
>>17293422
Could be various reasons OP. Oral and handjobs doesn't necessarily feel good per default, perhaps it's not that pleasant for him?
>>17293422
he sounds weird, but he isnt disgusted by you. thats his weird thing, and has nothing to do with you at all
>>17293422
Women are honestly pretty shit at blow jobs and hand jobs. Can you consistently make him cum from a bj under ordinary circumstances?
>>17293437
Seems like this. Maybe OP gives bad hand jobs or oral so the bf doesn't want to bother with it.
>>17293422
If he won't do it when it's red he's not good enough in bed.
>>17293437
>>17293448
Perhaps.
>>17293468
Yes, usually he cums with blowjobs and hand-jobs, he always tells me I am the best he has had with blowjobs.
>>17293470
I wish he would tell me if that's the case. I am willing to improve but he tells me the opposite.
>>17293517
what religion is he?
>>17293533
He is not religious and doesn't believe in a god
I dislike receiving when my girlfriend is on her period because I want to be able to please her, too.
>>17293422
Personally I feel like the GF is obligated to do this when on her period, like she does it to keep me satisfied because she is afraid of me being fed up due to no sex. (Then again my GFs period lasts for 2 weeks due to bc)
Also she often gets horny during bj or hj, especially during her period. Since I personally dislike swiping blood off of my dick after sex, I feel like avoiding those situations. Because I wouldn't want to fuck properly and I don't wanna disappoint her. (As a guy I know how fucking annoying it can get when you're horny as fuck but can't get off)
So basically, don't worry. He told you your bj are awesome, the rest shouldn't be your problem.
Also, he might have a low sexdrive at those times.
Maybe he's overdone self-blowjobs and jacking off so much that he enters a state of complete disgust by just thinking about it.
I had the same thing with mars chocolate bars, I once ate so many of them as a kid that just thinking about them now is making me nauseous. True story.
>>17293610
dude same thing happened to me but with butterfingers
i got over it though
>I asked him and he just told me to stop being obsessed with "it".
Your boyfriend refuses to talk about it because he is ashamed. Maybe he has a pornography/masturbation addiction and would rather just masturbate to pornography than accept your blowjob, no matter how skilled you are.
There is no other reason than shame why he wouldn't want to talk about it.
>>17293594
>personally dislike swiping blood off of my dick after sex
This made me giggle
Meanwhile womens be swiping blood off their nethers a solid 10 times a day for 7 days
>>17293422
That's pretty fucking disrespectful of him. Honestly it would be better if you dumped him; you deserve better than that.
>>17293672
>t. bitter permavirgin
You forgot to tip your hat at the lady.
>>17293664
Rumor has it that women don't like this either. So why should I?
He sounds boring af bet he is boring in bed too
>>17293422
If he doesnt want a bj it just means you suck at giving them. Case closed.
>suck
giggle
>>17293422
There might be a lot of reasons, as a man i know from first hand that we usually don't like to speak about stuff..
Still, it doesn't has to be that he's disgusted.
Maybe he's just disgusted by periods? Or blood in general?
It doesn't even have to smell or even see anything, maybe just the tought doesn't sound good.
>>17293856
It's strange...I didn't notice this before, thanks anon
>>17293422
OP, are you refusing him sex during your period? Or is he abstaining?
You didn't make this clear..
Might this be the problem?
http://hormonehoroscope.com/2015/04/dodge-bad-breath-on-these-days-in-your-cycle/
