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I am a 21 yo male student and in '15 fall I met a girl in a dorm. I kinda liked her instantly. She’s beautiful and everything, has a nice personality but there is a little problem(it’s not a problem really, doesn’t bother me at all no matter what), she has a 2yo boy. I am a fucking manlet and she’s slightly taller than me…
>this was just some backstory, my problem is explained below
I think I fell in love with this girl. Never ever in my life felt this for a woman, never. (I also never spent this much time with any) Our sex life is really good, we get along well, very little arguing. Most of the fights (if you can call them that, disagreements maybe) are about we getting serious. I mean a real relationship. She disagrees with me because fuck me, she’s taller. She told me she feels nothing for me, yet in the last 2 weeks (we’ve been seeing each other less because school is almost over and we only got exams) she has been calling me like 5-6 times a day, talking for hours, sending me pics of her little boy, etc. A month ago(maybe more) she started spending nights at my place. So, we know each other since October and have sex since march. I never thought that I would grow to like her so much(at least not to the point of thinking I want her in my life in the long run). Every time I talk about caring about her she goes silent and changing subjects tho last weekend I got mad about me getting nowhere with her and told her that I want to end it. She did not accepted it and we continued to talk and have sex. Now, we’re not going to see each other for 2 weeks, then we’re going to have a summer break until the end of September. The distance between us is like 150-200km at best. I can easily travel that weekly and on top of that I have a apartment at about 30km of her home city.
What should I do? How do I end it eventually?(if I need to) It really started to cause me emotional distress.
>pic not related
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She. Doesn't. Want. A. Relationship. With. You.
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ok, i kinda get that already but why call me all the fucking day and insist spending nights?

Also, how do I get out without hurting her (she may feel something eventually...being rejected does that) and without feeling guilty after? I really do not want to continue this if it gets nowhere. Other than sex I haven't gained one thing and sex is something i can get elsewhere without any emotions.
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>>17292999
Leeching
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>>17292771
>has a kid
>spending nights at your place

you picked a winner.
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