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2016-06-24 22:47:48 Post No. 17289831
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2016-06-24 22:47:48
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>be me, 23 work at hotel
>work with qt 9/10 blasian, we'll call her A
>have had crush on A since I started
>she's had a bf for the last 4 years, until about 2 months ago
>I just recently got /fit/ and lost 50lbs
>she definitely noticed and started getting flirty
>she'd always make sure to lmk when she goes on breaks
>always looking me in the eye, twirling her hair etc
>tried to get her to hang out with me a few times
>we'd make plans and she'd bail on me last minute
>talk to mutual friends/coworkers who say A does the same thing to them all the time
>confront A about why she makes plans and bails
>she says it's b/c she's super antisocial
>I tell her that's fine and give the whole thing a rest after making it clear that the ball is in her court
>it's been a little over a month and she's still flirty but she still won't hang out with me outside of work
Now I've got a new job and I won't be seeing much of A anymore and I'm wondering what to do. Part of me wants to talk to her again and tell her how I feel (partially because I suspect she's not interested and I could get some closure, making it easier to move on), and part of me wants to just hold out for a couple more weeks to see if my absence might make her more willing to actually hang out.
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