I haven't had a boyfriend in 4 years, I'm a 28 year old woman/girl, and I think I want to be voluntarily single forever. I had a boyfriend for 5 years, was in love but secretly thought he was annoying and an idiot. I love being alone, but so I really want to miss out on love for the rest of my life? Maybe I can change? Men annoy me. All people annoy me, but at least women will be friends with me. I know that if I want to date a man I need to learn to accept them how they are, but I hate everyone. People are so goddam stupid...but I know some people make it work anyway.
btw I have a 2d husbando, been with him for 4 years, dunno if he had something to do with this, just...yeah.
tl;dr Is it even worth it to have a boyfriend/girlfriend if you don't really need one?
>>17288796
>Is it OK to not date anyone if I don't want to?
Sure. Why not.
>>17288796
Some people would never fall in love at all, had they not heard such a thing existed.
>La Rochfecauld
No it's not and if you feel like it is the rational choice for you to be single that's ok.
Just ensure yourself you're rational and then carry the weight of your decision though you do sound somewhat weird I suppose.
People shouldn't annoy you by default, they can be annoying but by saying that they annoy you make their problem yours. Let people be people and just live your own life on your own terms.
>semantics
Yeah, but the further I get into this lifestyle...basically, there's gonna be a point when dating will no longer be an option
I suppose that if you have friends who fulfill your social needs then you don't; however, they're gonna get real sick of any late night calls when they have their own families to worry about. Part of the benefit of having a partner is that you can rely on each other in dark times or emergencies. My friends might balk at taking the day off work to take me to the ER, but my fiance will do it without hesitation or question.
Also, as a side note, you sound pretty narcissistic.
>>17288804
Well, they do. I don't know what's wrong with me, that's kind of the point.
>>17288805
You've been with a husbando for 5 years, surely you made this decision to stay alone and didn't just fall into this lifestyle by chance
>>17288805
>Yeah, but the further I get into this lifestyle...basically, there's gonna be a point when dating will no longer be an option
Yes, there will. Your call.
>>17288812
it's true, but it's saved me from crushing loneliness. I have severe depression and anxiety to the point where even being with people I care about is terrifying. I couldn't even list all the things wrong with me.
>>17288810
>I don't know what's wrong with me, that's kind of the point.
What's "wrong" with you is that you want to be alone, but can't accept that "being alone" is a valid choice.
>>17288810
Are you mentally on the edge?
When I knew I had to clean my place for visitors I didn't really look foward to like family and such I'd be easy to annoy and when I was happy you could probably smack me right in the face and I'd let you off the hook.
Be balanced and happy, build the foundation for happiness and make it sturdy so that you can enjoy life by default and when people prove to have a negative influence you can piss you off and you can avoid them and go back to happy default.
I'm like you only a lot younger, I live my life happily on my own sure I'll never have kids but you can always settle and if it's to late to have kids I can still adopt with my partner if she is up.
Though maybe you've already been through this phase and I'll end a 2d loser like you.
>>17288816
Bro you're fucked up cmon you need to calm the fk down.
You're 28 people should not have this kind of effect on you, cmon man I'm way younger and ai already learned to not give a fuck.
Find out who you are and embrace the lonliness and yourself, come out knowing what you want and go get it.
This is some shit you should've done in your early 20s at the least.
>>17288816
Loneliness is not related to being alone.
Loneliness is related to feeling you're not known, as a person.
You can feel lonely in a crowd, or in a bad relationship, but you won't feel lonely if you're accepted when you open yourself about who you truly are.
That's why a husbando makes you less lonely. Of course your husbando knows you: he's your mental construction.
>>17288825
s/relationship/casual sex
>>17288820
Yeah it started with me taking time to be alone and work on myself. I used to be extremely on edge and depressed, and the mental problem situation has gone from a 10/10 to 4/10, which is good enough for me. Then, that transitioned to be being comfortable alone, even though I always wanted to have a boyfriend. I was in love with my ex, I just hated myself or some bullshit...gees, being in therapy for years makes you so realize how complicated relationships are
>>17288834
Don't you get fullfillment through your carreer?
>>17288796
>hate everyone
What do you hate about them exactly?
>2d husbando
/r9k/ tier. Pls don't shoot up a school out of your hatered towards everyone.
>>17288845
i get really bored around people. i used to have a couple friends who were creative and used to be able to have fun conversations with me, but they moved. i feel like people say the same things over and over
>>17288796
You're perfectly normal, girl, fictional men are superior to the vast majority of real men. You're definitely not the only one here, don't let the desperate r9k shitposters fool you into accepting a man that you deem not right for you. No one can blame you for having standards.
>>17288860
>the other gender is evil, pathetic and 2D is better
>I'm not /r9k/
Yeah, no.
>>17288845
>/r9k/ tier
Please, we ladies just write and draw our husbandos making amazing love with each other, only men became bitter and spiteful crazy psychos the opposite sex doesn't want them since they base all their worth on sex.
>>17288853
What interests you?
Don't expect that others will just keep you entertained 24/7 while you do nothing, that's not friendship or relationship, that's leechhood.
>>17288863
>haven't seen psycho underfucked creepy bitches gobbled up in their emotions and detached from reality.
>>17288860
>perfectly normal girl
Normalslime needs to be cleansed from our waters Brothers. Their putrid stench emanates from a growing corruption at their heart. I call on every Chapter on this world to cleanse the filth tainted by the warp. They cannot be allowed to live.
>>17288796
Hey OP, I don't want to date you either. Instead, I could just come over and fuck the shit out of you whenever possible? This way there's no feelings, no talking, nothing except me tapping that ass. Then once I bust in your mouth, I could put my clothes on and leave until I need your body again. What say you?
>>17288872
This sure helps OP with her hatered and annoyances.
>>17288865
nah i'm entertaining. i'm a nurse and artist and so people always wanna hear about stuff i'm doing. really, some people are interesting, but those people seem to like to move a lot. they keep in touch, though.
>>17288860
lol ty
>>17288875
People who have a lot going on in their lives are usually the ones who are interesting.
>>17288861
Who said the other gender is pathetic and evil? All that's been said is that 2D is better. For me, that is true; a lot of 2D is beautiful and attractive to me while most men don't turn me on in the least, 2D also does and accomplishes great and wonderful things most men do not. I don't think the opposite sex is evil or pathetic (save for bitter virgin men who attack women for no reason) but most of its members aren't interesting enough for me.
>>17288796
BTW OP, never despair. I found my first bf-soon-to-be-husband when I was over 30 already, so older than you. He adores me and puts me and my happiness first in all matters, and he respects my love for 2D. Guys like him are rare, but I wish you find one like him too someday, that's the kind of guy it's worth to be with as he undestands and respects yourr love and needs for 2D. If I had not met him frankly I would have remained alone too, a man that doesn't accept and respect my love for 2D is unacceptable for me, better be alone than with an asshole who disrespects you and makes you unhappy.
These bait threads are dreadful.
You fucked up when you went down the 2d husbando route.
>>17288881
There's more than one gender you cis fuckhole
>>17288886
People who get pissed at other people not being interested in them tend to be of the straight cis male persuasion, so please don't bring other innocent genders into the debate.
>>17288877
yup, you're right. i gotta take that into consideration
>>17288881
wow, thank you!
Saying people annoy you nullifies even bothering to ask this question. Ignoring that, I feel the same way. Most women just annoy the hell out of me and I feel like I can only be friends with guys. This means there are other people like you out there. You just need to find them. They'll understand your situation and if you both really have the same mindset, they'll be more attentive to your specific needs (like not doing that stuff that annoys you). If you're fine with being alone, that's fine but you need to realize that the way you feel right now isn't the way you might feel later. I think the vast majority of humans require some form of romantic interaction to feel fulfilled. If you're one of those, just keep looking.
>>17288890
GET BENT, YOU HETEROPATRIARCHAL VICTIM-EXOTIFYING, CIS-ELITIST NAZI
>>17288896
>I think the vast majority of humans require some form of romantic interaction to feel fulfilled
That's what 2D is for, most often it satisfies and fulfills you better than real men.
>>17288881
*understands
*your
Apologies for the typos.
>>17288905
I guess I just don't understand that mindset personally but if it works for you, it works for you. I think you might find a real person more fulfilling and I also think you might find their flaws give them more character and depth than an anime character.
>>17288896
yeah, i wish people didn't annoy me. i wonder how guys date girls when girls annoy them? i guess the sex is worth it, haha. i'll probably change in some way as I get older, I'm trying to get more mentally healthy
>>17288914
>I think you might find a real person more fulfilling and I also think you might find their flaws give them more character and depth than an anime character
Then again they also might not. I like anime characters, they satisfy me visually and in terms of character my favorites are the best, plus I can do whatever I want whenever I want however I want with them. Most men are less interesting than anime characters.
>>17288916
I can't speak for other guys but I personally go on dates with girls because its expected of me. Usually I find dates to be extremely painful and uncomfortable experiences but I need them to feel... Well not happy I guess but successful. I would not suggest forcing yourself the way I do. The guy you're with should be having fun and making you feel like you're having fun. If it's just not fun, you either need to give him a couple more dates or if it's really bad just drop him.
>>17288916
>i guess the sex is worth it, haha
Too bad it's not worth it if you're a girl, I love my bf but I still only get my orgasms from my vibrator or masturbation.
>>17288924
Another case where we differ I guess. I find anime characters to be terribly predictable and boring. People are more complex by virtue of having an actual living mind instead of being the product of one. Actually... Now that I think about it, factually speaking anime characters are objectively less interesting than people. Unless you're fascinated by fictional aspects like having superpowers or something. I thought we were discussing personalities though.
>>17288914
Most real persons aren't as fulfilling as anime characters and most real person flaws are just annoying. That's why I've always liked cute fictional guys better.
>>17288916
> i wonder how guys date girls when girls annoy them? i guess the sex is worth it, haha.
honestly, it really isnt, especially if you know how to navigate internet porn
but men are romantics, if they fall in love with a woman they are going to put up with a lot of dumb shit because the girl becomes something they cant stop thinking about.
>>17288945
I feel this way about my husbando, i can't help feeling this way.
>>17288938
>I find anime characters to be terribly predictable and boring
You sounds like a snob here, that's really off-putting. You aren't encouraging a discussion here.
>People are more complex by virtue of having an actual living mind instead of being the product of one
Having an actual mind doesn't mean shit to me, if I think you're a boring piece of crap and anime characters are more interesting than you're a boring piece of crap and anime characters are more interesting. The product of a greater mind that wanted to reach out to others through artistic expression is far more interesting than a regular dull uninteresting boring mind, that's why the characters it creates are so much better than real people.
>Now that I think about it, factually speaking anime characters are objectively less interesting than people
Too bad there's no "factually" or "objectively" here because I decide what is interesting to me and what is not. Subjectively real people may be more interesting to you, but then I think you're bitter retard loser bitter than some women like fictional men better than real men (as that's what you sound like) so your opinion doesn't matter.
>Unless you're fascinated by fictional aspects like having superpowers or something. I thought we were discussing personalities though.
While I do find superpowers fascinating, I also find my anime loves' personalities better than real people's too.
>>17288874
I could hate fuck her if she wants. I could wreck that asshole of her so she wouldn't shit right for a week. That'd be up to her.
>2d husbandos/waifus aren't just a meme, some people are actually serious about it
Holy shit, you people are dysfunctional sad miserable fucks and need to get help asap.
>>17288971
anger = jealousy
>>17288972
>anger = jealousy
You can't even recognise and differentiate basic human emotions because those Chinese cartoons with their non-characters fucked you up too much.
>>17288959
how could anyone be bitter about a fat cunt liking cartoon boys senpai?
>>17288959
>The product of a greater mind that wanted to reach out to others through artistic expression is far more interesting than a regular dull uninteresting lesser mind
This basically. 2D is greater as it's created by greater minds than others, it's an embodiment of a superior thought. Lesser minds pale in comparison, that's why 2D > 3D.
>>17288977
Anger at people happily going on about their lives without crossing yours in any way just because they're paying attention to someone else and not you is a type of anger that stems from jealousy, you're an attention whore.
>>17288971
3D women are heartless sycophants that exist only to serve themselves
>>17288796
just be alone until someone REALLY makes you want to be with them.
this should be the default for human existence. everyones so willing to just date anyone they can when they should be single until someone exceptional comes along
>>17288981
You tell me sempai. All your posts you've been whining about those evil fat cunts liking cartoon boys and not giving you the attention you think you're entitled to just because you exist. You're mistaken.
>>17288988
>anger
I always sympathized with anime characters' dreams, thoughts, feelings and ambitions much better than real people's. Anime and manga have what I want while real people don't, unless they're exceptional but then exceptional people are rare and outliers. In fact I find that creating my own manga-like comic fulfills all my dreams, my fantasies, my ambitions and my feelings much better than anything else, it gives me as much as joy as an orgasm and it fills me with a huge swelling sense of pride, they're exactly the people I want and the things I want, in all ways. Plus anime guys are hotter than real guys. Anime and manga make me really happy.
Yikes. This thread.
OP, if you want to be alone with your fictional friends/romance, then do so. It really doesn't affect anyone else. Even people who know you in real life who might be interested but to whom you are unavailable, you're making yourself irrelevant to them. That's fine.
If you have some driving need to discuss this, it suggests that it's not fine with you. So why not?
>I always sympathized with anime characters' dreams, thoughts, feelings and ambitions much better than real people's
Probably because you're being fed uncomplicated story lines that omit the tedious and mundane aspects of real life, and are given direct insight into the characters' thinking via soliloquies and voice over.
If fictional characters give you exactly what you want, in all ways, why are you here?
>>17289048
>If fictional characters give you exactly what you want, in all ways, why are you here?
I'm the anon whose post you greentexted and I'm not OP, I'm just here to defend other women like me and our right to dream and be satisfied.
>>17289062
By "you" I mean the person who wrote this. Why are YOU here? You're getting everything you want from your fictional characters, why bother being here instead of spending your time fantasizing about whatever nonsense you're into?
>>17288796
Hey OP, I'm a perfect male reflection of you, I'm even also 28 and also out of long term relationship?
Wanna not make out?
>>17289079
Also 2D>3D, waifu not husbando in my case..
>>17289075
>Why are YOU here?
I told you, because here I see men attacking for no reason a woman who is like me so I want to defend her, as well as all other women who are like us too. What we do is good and I won't stand for a bunch of bitter men slandering it out of jealousy.
Wizard here.
I'm so jealous of you anons that have no need for a partner or companion. I'm so lonely, it's not even just a sex thing, it's just being starved for companionship.
>>17288931
>I don't cum from sex so it must not feel good for all women
![[Anime-Takeover]_Orphen_Revenge_Ep08_(4BC5017C).ogm_snapshot_07.00_[2016.02.25_22.20.38].jpg](https://i.imgur.com/c69n9nz.jpg "[Anime-Takeover]_Orphen_Revenge_Ep08_(4BC5017C).ogm_snapshot_07.00_[2016.02.25_22.20.38].jpg")
>>17288982
>>17288959
>The product of a greater mind that wanted to reach out to others through artistic expression is far more interesting than a regular dull uninteresting boring mind, that's why the characters it creates are so much better than real people
>it takes such a great mind to write a cookie cutter character in a generic shoujo series that was created for the sole purpose of capitalizing on my desires to make money, truly "artistic expression" trumps all
>>17289143
so did led zepplin and the beatles
You will be crying at white men once you turn late 30's and yoi will be hoardings cats ashamed you never started a family
>>17289108
The majority of women doesn't orgasm from sex, this is a documented fact.
>>17289166
i don't even like dadrock but that's not comparable at all
>>17289143
Just because you don't like it and it doesn't cater to you doesn't make it cookie cutter, anon, other people have the right to be catered to as much you. I don't see you complaining when a piece of media capitalizes on your desires so why are you complaining when other people see their desires fulfilled too? It makes you look like a petty selfish asshole who hates other people being happy, fulfilled and catered to and wants to keep all the fulfillment and satisfaction for himself, while others should just stay dissatisfied. This is very despicable of you.
>>17289185
Yes it is, different media but the same badmouthing from bitter jealous losers.
>>17289143
>stuff that caters to me is great
>stuff that doesn't cater to me is cookie cutter
male anime fans in a greentext ladies and gentlemen
>>17289185
two of the most loved bands in the world, they wrote songs that spoke to millions on a spiritual level...all written for the money. As confessed by Paul McCartney himself, stating that John would say, "Let's write us a new swimming pool!"
also, don't bad mouth classic music, it makes you sound not smart.
>>17289199
>Just because you don't like it and it doesn't cater to you doesn't make it cookie cutter
that's true, but most anime and manga are cookie cutter anyways. I highly doubt a woman's "husbando" would come from a quality series, let alone be a quality character. Why don't you tell me who your favorite male anime characters are, if you're one of the girls posting in this thread. I'm actually interested to know
>I don't see you complaining when a piece of media capitalizes on your desires
Yeah, but you also don't see me pretending that most of my shit is respectable high art because I'm too insecure to admit that I enjoy things that are stupid as fuck
I don't enjoy watching shit like Danmachi, Souma, Monmusu etc but if I did I wouldn't go around telling people how inspired the author was because he wrote a devoted tsundere character with big tits, unless I was being ironic or baiting
>>17289244
I'm not badmouthing it, I was saying their music had more merit than most anime/manga
>>17289252
>that's true, but most anime and manga are cookie cutter anyways. I highly doubt a woman's "husbando" would come from a quality series, let alone be a quality character
Quality is a buzzword. Beloved series that are popular and speak on a profound level to millions of people are called "cookie cutter" while forgettable series of little to no impact are called "quality" just because they're obscure. Just because something is obscure doesn't automatically mean it's trash, but it doesn't also automatically mean it's good. I'll judge what is quality and what isn't according to how much a series satisfies me, other people be damned, since their shit taste doesn't satisfy me at all.
>Yeah, but you also don't see me pretending that most of my shit is respectable high art
That's an attitude I don't understand, if you think this poorly of something then it's obvious you don't really like it, you'd be better off without it at all. You're like those men who talk shit about their girlfriends when they're not around but then act all sweet and loving when she's present. I don't understand this kind of two-faced acting. Either you love something or someone, and so you praise them, or you don't, and so you ignore them or state why you don't like them if asked. That's how I am. I don't pretend anything, any series I like I genuinely mean it when I say it's respectable high art because I honestly think that, if I didn't I wouldn't say it. I'm not capable of lying like you.
>I don't enjoy watching shit like Danmachi, Souma, Monmusu etc but if I did I wouldn't go around telling people how inspired the author was because he wrote a devoted tsundere character with big tits, unless I was being ironic or baiting
If you did you would because you would be enthusiastic about those series. You aren't, so you can't even imagine someone being different from you. This is a limitation on your part.
>>17289263
I disagree. Most anime and manga has more merit than the beatles and most certainly than led zeppelin, as their songs have done nothing much for me (I don't even listen to led zeppelin) while anime and manga has made me dream so wonderfully.
>>17289252
danmachi is gr8
anyone who disagrees probably hasn't touch a vagina in 20 years or is a bitter fat girl
>>17288796
you are mentally disturbed. Seek profesional help.
this is my husbando...the yellow one
>>17289273
>you can't even imagine someone being different from you
what a hypocritical statement, as most of your post is based in your inability to understand someone being different than the only kind of people you know (this is implied by your comparison to men who talk shit about their girlfriends, which is flawed because anime series don't have feelings like women do)
>while forgettable series of little to no impact are called "quality" just because they're obscure
When did I ever mention obscurity? You just assumed I only enjoy obscure anime, even Death Note is one of my favorite anime and the same category of person you seem to think I fall into shits on it all the time. I like other mainstream series too
>That's an attitude I don't understand, if you think this poorly of something then it's obvious you don't really like it
Not true at all, it just means I can recognize that I only like something because it caters to certain tastes I have, or that it has its fair share of flaws. Not because I think it's some objectively amazing artistic masterpiece.
>if you think this poorly of something
you also just assumed here that I hate everything I watch or something, I never elaborated on or quantified my dislike for the shows I watch
>I'm not capable of lying like you
Where in my posts did I lie? Being able to recognize flaws in something or that you like something stupid for your own personal reasons =/= lying
You seem to think in a very black and white manner
>If you did you would because you would be enthusiastic about those series
This is you holding everyone else to your standards, can't you imagine someone being different than you? :^)
>>17289285
it's absolute garbage and touching a vagina would only serve to lower my opinion of it further, but I guess it's fine if you enjoy it if you don't actually believe that it has well written characters or a point other than to serve as a self insert fantasy for horny 13 year olds or pathetic neckbeards
>>17289317
>what a hypocritical statement
Nothing about hypocritical about it though. You talk shit about my stuff, I talk shit about yours. I well understand people are different and I respect that, but only if they respect me too. As you've shown not to respect me, you don't deserve respect from me either.
>is flawed because anime series don't have feelings like women do
But fans of those series do, they see themselves and put their love in those series so it's inevitably a personal attack on them when you go and talk shit about something one loves. Don't pretend it isn't; you wouldn't resort to namecalling and insults when someone disagrees with you if it weren't.
>When did I ever mention obscurity?
I don't know shit about you so I can only presume by your posts what you are like, you post like the typical /a/ poster I'm going to presume you think like the typical /a/ poster, who is exactly like that.
>Not true at all, it just means I can recognize that I only like something because it caters to certain tastes I have
I don't see anything wrong with that, I am happy with my own tastes. They satisfy me perfectly. There is nothing wrong with them so I see no reason to think less of something because it caters perfectly to them, if anything I think higher of it. Are you ashamed of your own tastes? I'm not, sounds like we differ in this.
>or that it has its fair share of flaws
I am different from you in this too, either I like something or I don't. There is only black or white for me. If I like something, it has no flaws for me, my experience and opinion of it will be entirely positive. Likewise if I don't like something, my experience of it will suck shit so there'll be nothing redeeming about it and I will ignore its existence.
>>17289317
>>17289380
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>Not because I think it's some objectively amazing artistic masterpiece
There's that word again, "objectively". Why does it matter to you? Art is subjective, not objective. Plenty modern art that hangs in museums is called "objectively amazing artistic masterpieces", and it looks just like utter shit to me and I'm not afraid to say it. Art is bound to the tastes of the creator and the viewer so it cannot be objective, as taste is subjective.
>you also just assumed here that I hate everything I watch or something
Again you sound like the typical /a/ poster, I'm going to treat you like the typical /a/ poster.
>Where in my posts did I lie?
I see talking negatively about something you say you like as lying, because I can't talk negatively about something I like just like I can't talk positively about something I don't like. My opinion is all-encompassing. If your isn't, good for you, but I can't help but think either you don't really like that thing and don't want to admit it or you haven't formed your opinion yet or you just want to be pedantic to annoy people.
>You seem to think in a very black and white manner
When it comes to things I feel very strongly about, yes I do think like that.
>This is you holding everyone else to your standards
Nah just knowing there are other plenty other people like me too out there.
I'm glad my thread created this love connection between you two
