I've been reading all this stuff about healing 'healing

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2016-06-23 22:49:23 Post No. 17286828
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Anonymous 2016-06-23 22:49:23 Post No. 17286828 [Report]

I've been reading all this stuff about healing 'healing your inner child' basically it's just about healing those wounds from when you were a kid.

There's a lot of behaviours I do that don't work for me in real life. I have a very unhealthy relationship with authority. I fear it when I can see it, it was the same for my dad. Whenever he was around I would just be silent and wait for him to tell me how to act.

When he wasn't around I could be 'myself' and when he came home it was 'oh shit, he's here. Quick hide' type feeling.

Being the youngest I never had a relationship with my dad. He passed away recently so it had me thinking about things.

How can I repair that meaning of what a father is to me? Can I be my own authority now?

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Anonymous 2016-06-23 22:58:54 Post No.17286862
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Anonymous 2016-06-23 22:58:54 Post No.17286862 [Report]

>>17286828
Sounds like massive daddy issues. If you're a chick, you're going to be dating lots of bad dudes who will take advantage of you. if you're a dude, just man up and take charge of your life. Who cares about the past.

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Anonymous 2016-06-23 23:05:31 Post No.17286885
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Anonymous 2016-06-23 23:05:31 Post No.17286885 [Report]

>>17286862
>if you're a dude, just man up and take charge of your life

I'm a god damn male. The thing is everything I've been doing has just been to cover up this problem. I'm 23 and I'm still a god damn boy

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Anonymous 2016-06-23 23:38:37 Post No.17286969
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Anonymous 2016-06-23 23:38:37 Post No.17286969 [Report]

>>17286885
My dad died when I was 4,and at 20 years old I still feel like a boy,not a man.Perhaps this is why and I never made the connection