One of my friends told me that he gets women to travel long distances to meet abd date him consistently.
How the fuck dies he do this? Getting a girl to go out with me is like pulling teeth. While he doesn't pay a dime of the woman's travel fee.
How the fuck does he do this? I am 27 and never had a girlfriend. He is 27 as well and has had many women.
He told me he doesn't even bother going out most dates. Just orders Chinese food abd watches Netflix with the girl.
What kind of fuckibg Magic is he using?! What the fuck is going on and why can't I do it?!?!
It seems so crazy that women would spend half a months pay to come see some fuck living in a condo abd eats Chinese food every day. What the FUCK is going on?
What am I missing?!
He knows how women like to be treated. Turns out that's an extremely rare quality in straight men, so sometimes a girl is willing to travel a bit for a couple great nights.
>>17285726
Confidence. Probably.
>>17285726
post a picture of yourself. then post a picture of your friend.
if you cant do this then literally nothing we say will matter and we wont say much so...
>>17285726
He's good looking and charismatic. You aren't.
>>17285726
>all this rejection-rage
>hurr why not me???
Think for a second, I'm sure you've seen a woman say "no" to him before. How does he take it? Does he get angry like you do?
It's mostly about looks.
If you're fat, you're probably not gonna get laid, man or woman alike.
>>17285778
>Fat women don't get laid
Pffffftt hahahahahahahahahahahahahaha
I have a buddy who has had some luck with women in the past.
The thing he does is that he talks to women everywhere. For example, he tends to always abuse women behind couters, like receptionists and the like.
Probably it's his way to practice, so when shit gets real, he knows what to do. Or it's just the fact that if you try many times, you get more chanses.
>>17285787
The people who date landwhales are phatetic losers.
>>17285769
I get angry because I have to put in do much effort to get nothing. He seems to put in little effort abd get a lot. It's shit.
>>17285769
I get angry because I have to put in do much effort to get nothing. He seems to put in little effort abd get a lot. It's shit. It's also super discouraging.
>>17285800
So phatetic, I agree. Yet fat women still get laid either way.
>>17285813
post a picture of yourself.
>>17285808
>I get angry because I have to put in do much effort to get nothing. He seems to put in little effort abd get a lot. It's shit.
This is what I mean. Your whole mindset is fucked from the start. You'll probably never understand
Women never want to feel like they're SUPPOSED to give you sex in exchange for gifts/activities/whatever "effort" means to you. As soon as you start putting on that pressure, any attraction they have for you starts dying. You're working backwards
>>17285821
I do not even want sex! I just want a girlfriend and to experience what other males have during their younger years. I don't give a guck about sex.
>>17285828
but think about the way you are wording it. you are saying that you shouldnt have to treat a girl special. why would a girl want to just be yours if they arent special to you?
the whole point of dating is finding that 'special someone'.
etiher way the fact that you wont post a pic tells us ur just ugly and are reaching too high.
>>17285828
What happens when you go about it with this mindset is that you tend to fall in love with the idea of falling in love, but not with the person you're dating.
>>17285828
>I don't give a guck about sex.
Sex is part of dating... I'm not saying you should settle for random hook-ups if that's not your thing, but women don't exactly want to hear "I don't want sex! I don't care about sex!" Asexual is not a great trait in most relationships
>>17285726
Ask him for advice.
>>17285855
Not that guy but, what if i have erectile dysfunction? Can they be ok with doing something else than penetration (because i know i can't have penetrative sex, it just won't work).
>>17285866
Have you tried meds, have you seen doctors about this problem?
Everybody's different, if you get creative with the right partner, you can find a way to make it work. But it is gonna make it tougher to find someone compatible. You gotta be willing to get kinky.
>>17285873
meant for
>>17285870
>>17285763
/thread
>>17285873
Nope. I keep postproning it because i have no gf anyway, and i have porn so it's fine.
>>17285880
That's a really bad idea. There are many different things that can cause erectile dysfunction. If it's a physical problem, you could be making it worse by ignoring it. Maybe today, you can still fix/cure it, but in a month it'll be too late. You wanna deal with this for your whole fucking life just because you're too embarrassed to talk to a doctor??
>>17285726
Must've been one hell of a dude because I have never traveled for anyone.
Guess he's like their best friend but also meets the characteristics of a potential mate.
>>17285854
this. so much this. ive been looking for that wording for months cuz thats exactly what it is and its exactly what so many people suffer from especially on /adv/.
they focus on finding ANY relationship.
>>17285889
I've ruled out some possibilities, it can't be low testo for example, because i have no problem building muscle, and i have lots of body and facial hair.
It's, most probably due to prolonged porn use, or it's a physical problem, and then they can't fix that anyway.
If it's arteriosclerosis in my young age, i don't really wanna know, and i think there should be other sympthoms.
I checked all my blood values (not testo) a year ago and everything was fine.
So, they're probably gonna give me viagra, which is good, but of no use if i don't have a girl to fuck anyway.
>>17285911
Stop believing in bro-science.
