Who /25+ virgin/ here?
How can a guy at this age lose his virginity?
Just wait until you meet the woman that's right for you. We're all on different journey's here. Don't judge yourself by the perception of what other people think you're supposed to do a certain ages.
Hey man, I'm there with you. I don't stress about it much anymore. I know I can't wait forever but I have some other shit to tackle first before I'm emotionally ready so I'm handling that as quickly as possible. In the meantime, if anyone asks me in person, I have a lie worked out. I don't plan to tell the first girl either, I imagine that would freak most girls out.
Worst case scenario, I go to Nevada and get an escort. Best case scenario I meet a girl and she looks past my awkward sex and lets me get better at it with her.
Anyways, now that you know I'm no authority on how to get laid I'll just fade away...
But seriously, just go with the flow in life. Things will happen if you remain open to them and show a modicum of respect to the women (or men) you meet/know in your everyday life.
>>17284338
I just turned 25. Can I join the party?
>>17284338
Lost my virginity at 24, because rebounding off a rejection, and fuck it.
Worst sex I've ever had and it fucked up my perspective of sex a bit.
Kind of regretted it and wished i'd waited a bit longer 'til my next partner (which was... at least ok).
But on the bright side, it also first hand taught me how absolutely worthless sex can be and completely destroyed any awkwardness or fucks given I had about it.
I've also since learned how amazing it can be, when it's with someone you actually share something with.
>>17284338
Fuck knows, I think we're trapped in some kind of purgatory for earlier mistakes. I think we have more issues than just being a virgin.
I know my social skills are worthless, so to go from autist to getting laid is a bigger leap than you think unless you pay for hookers.
>>17284338
Hookers.
>>17284338
I doubt it, all your problems that plagued you earlier, just get worse as you age.
Was 21 when I lost my virginity. Staying a virgin was a personal choice for me, even though I was knee-deep in pussy throughout school and had done other things besides actual sex. Consequently I was high pretty okay to low great at foreplay, but flopped around like a goddamned fish when I went to fuck. The girl I gave my virginity to, I thought might be the one. Wrong, but not the point. Only got it in maybe 5 or 6 times in the 2 years we were together, always complained i was too big. Felt bad man, soon as she started complaining that it hurt, instant limp. Broke up after 2 years, unrelated story. Found a 7-8 out of 10 wife-tier girl, long distance because of school, so had lots of time to discuss everything. She'd had 4 guys before me, and I was up front about my lack of experience, that I was practically still a virgin in everything but name. She didn't care, was even understanding. Didn't make fun, didn't put me down or think any less of me. Took maybe 2 or 3 good fucks before I found my rhythm. Finally marrying said girl in January.
>tldr; Find someone you Want to have sex with. Be upfront, and don't lie about history and/or lack thereof. Virginity doesn't matter. Let go and just have fun with it, it's not srs bidness.
>>17285234
Please don't post again.
>>17285248
Hahahaha, thank you for this
>>17284338
Why does it matter? I guess I can't tell you from the experience of waiting that long because I lost mine at 17 but you should be worried about building a relationship itself instead of losing your virginity.
>>17284338
28 year old virgin here. The only women I've kissed have been strippers. I'm thinking if I'm still a virgin by 30 I'm going to the bunny ranch (or somewhere like it) and just getting it over with. There's no point in expecting a romantic relationship now. I'm too far gone. No woman would want me due to my lack of experience so why not whore it up during the last few years of my pathetic life? The worst part is that I have so many people that are genuinely surprised when they find out about my lack of experience. I've never even had a girlfriend. Maybe my mind is broken?
>>17284349
>just wait until you meet the woman who's right for you.
That doesn't just "happen" tho. He may never meet a girl. He has to do something about it, which is what he is asking.
>>17285103
The worst part is that I've seen uglier guys catch the interest of women.
I'm fairly certain their personality is what helps because they tend to be more bold and abrasive.
>>17285807
Bingo. Personality is more important for a guy to have to attract women than his looks.
A woman can just sit there and look pretty and get dates despite having the personality of a rock.
>>17285640
>The worst part is that I have so many people that are genuinely surprised when they find out about my lack of experience.
I think most people assume it, since it is the default position. I get the same for all of 5 seconds before it clicks.
learn to connect with people...
make friends...
c'mon dudes
ya'll can do it today if you want to.
JUST DO IT!!!
have fun its amazing
>>17286508
Yup. I never want to correct people either. Their reaction when I do have to tell then is exactly how you described.
I'm thinking of trying to get the stripper who kissed me to have sex with me but she'll probably try to charge me fuck ton. God Damn I'm so fucking pathetic I hate this existence.
>>17284338
Lost it last year after meeting this chick who was also 24 and a virgin
Stop worrying about it, it'll happen when it happens
>>17284338
I wouldn't know lol I lost it when I was 17. But that was with someone I at least thought I loved at the time. It's better to wait for the right person, don't lose it to a hooker unless it's like a last resort.
>>17284338
You know there's websites now for that kind of thing...
turned 25 this monday
i dont even give a fuck by now....
25 male virgin. I assume it's because im ugly women don't approach me. I got fit and cleaned myself up, still nothing.
Im pretty depressed because of it, probably going to get a hooker at some point.
I made a post on here a few months ago and some girl told me she would rate me, I posted a pic and she told me 8/10. But if im an 8/10 women would be hitting on me.
Yup this shit sucks, the worst part is that if I could fix it myself I would. I literally spent over 2 years working out and getting in shape, but doesnt fix your face lol.
Just get drunk and go to a brothel. It's not as "special" as you think it is.
>>17286518
>learn to connect with people
If we knew how to do that, we wouldn't be here.
>>17286534
I just try to never get in the position of where it comes out. I learnt cues to leave NONCHALANTLY when sex is about to pop up in conversation.
they say you are not truly a champion until you have defended your title
I feel the same way about sex. I had sex once and the girl wasn't even fat or ugly, but it appears to have been a fluke since I can't rebottle that lightning
>>17286645
All my friends like to talk about sex so it's unavoidable. Oh well... I'm sure some woman is going to make a few hundred dollars off me in a couple years.
>>17286605
>muslim
>am one
You know, it took me a while to realize that nobody followed the "no drink, drugs or sex before marriage" rule, but that wouldn't stop them preaching to you. Even "devout" ones.
>>17284338
prostitutes, my son
>>17286691
>friends
How do you have friends and not get laid?
Most of us shit social skills with both sexes.
>>17286724
I have quite a few friends. So many that I sometimes don't have time to hang out with all of them. I'm not all that attractive so it's more difficult than it needs to be. I'm just that guy that everyone likes but nobody wants to fuck. Fair enough, I suppose. I wouldn't want to fuck me if I was them either.
>>17286742
>I have quite a few friends. So many that I sometimes don't have time to hang out with all of them. I'm not all that attractive so it's more difficult than it needs to be. I'm just that guy that everyone likes but nobody wants to fuck. Fair enough, I suppose. I wouldn't want to fuck me if I was them either.
It's still going over my head, I mean, you sound like you have a decent personality. I couldn't hold anyone's attention if my life depended on it.
>>17286830
This.
You are a very rare case man. It's like the worst of both worlds.
>>17286830
There's many different types of virgins, anon. We all don't fit into the typical stereotypes. I think you can do better than you think. Give yourself some credit!
26 year old virgin here
>work all the time in my teens because we were in poverty
>no time for fun, socializing and friends
>this goes on for a decade
>end up as a social retard
>have no game
>also ugly as heck
>tfw no gf
>>17284338
I'm 25 and just started dating a 21 year old girl who is a virgin. I gave her her first kiss last week.
And she isn't even unattractive. She's got a slight butter-face, yes, but she makes up for it with these ridiculously muscular thighs, because she runs track-and-field.
Now, I'm not personally a virgin, but I'm pretty close to one, since I've only had like three sexual encounters in my life and haven't dated anyone in like four or five years. So if I found a girl like this, and with relative ease, then I feel like it shouldn't be impossible for you either, OP.
>>17286151
As a 25 Y/O virgin you've then admitted to having the personality of a rock, why judge others that you don't know because you can't get laid?
>>17286843
>I think you can do better than you think. Give yourself some credit!
Ehhh.....
>There's many different types of virgins, anon. We all don't fit into the typical stereotypes.
That may be true but that vast majority fit into a certain type namely lacking in social skills and friends.Being a virgin isn't really a problem persay, it's more the issues that have led to the point where we've remained a 25+ virgin.
>>17286868
Forgot to mention, she's really into anime. So I've basicly struck gold.
Buzz buzz
>>17286878
I have friends and had girls want to fuck me and I barely had to speak. Had girls at parties look at me and kiss me, funny thing when I get kissed they always go in with tongue.
Im a virgin because I had a bad experience in which i saw a skinny white girl with a black guy. Almost threw up... I have no idea who to figure out which white girls like white guys and which ones dont. I thought skinny white girls didnt do that shit. I also pretty much exclusively attract white women, no idea why.
If I tell someone im a virgin i dont think they will believe me. Every semester I get at least one girl who likes me and im a fucking computer science student so i dont encounter too many girls. Ive had girls invite themselves back to my dorm at 2am, i've had them ask for my number and text me first, and called hot to my face.
>It strokes my ego knowing hot girls want me
It's funny to watch hot ones get nervous when i look at them.
>>17286930
Try running down a flight of stairs backwards.
>>17284338
I've stopped caring I'm a virgin but I do feel a pressure for the experience not to suck either.
Most people around me just assume its happened. So I'm a bit too far gone to ever discuss it.
Anyone have experiences of losing late. Fuck is there any prep?
>>17286941
im fit, but i cant do that Id fall.
You know women taunt you with their assets if they want you? The best one I got was a girl sits down in front of me in class, gets right up and im mirin dat ass she gets to the front of the room turns and looks at me directly in the eye. Comes back sits down and turns around to start a conversation with me.
>hoping to lose my virginity before 30, to a girl strictly into white men.
>>17286966
>im fit, but i cant do that Id fall.
Why don't you stick your dick in a plug socket instead?
>>17286966
Can confirm. This girl in highschool used to bend over in front of me all the time to show off her butt. Being the retarded highschooler I was I never picked up on any of it. She used to try and make me jealous by telling me about her first kiss and stupid shit like that. Looking back on it, she wanted me so bad. Fuck I'm retarded. She was crazy and probably would have been a horrible relationship but my Oh my she had an ass on her.
>>17286943
>but I do feel a pressure for the experience not to suck either.
You know, they could throw a pretty girl into my lap and I wouldn't know what to do.
>>17286975
Im American, my 6.5"x5" won't fit.
You want another funny story where i could have gotten laid?
So i have social anxiety and I like to avoid talking, but if im in a group and got to talk im a nervous talker so i dont stop talking. So one day im in this girls dorm with her 3 friends and two of mine. Im thinking well pick one and start talking or ill look like a faggot. So i did and i talked to her for the night and was happy she didnt tell me to fuck off. My friends(different set) wanted to go to a club two weeks later so i went and was fucked up. They see said girl dancing and go look how hot that girl is. 10 minutes later the girl approaches me and goes why haven't i seen you and then just blurts out you're hot.
>>17286988
>Im American
I'm so sorry, anon.
>>17286991
it's cool, Trump will win and I get my country back.
>>17286997
You'll still be american, that's the problem.
>>17286999
yeah and my country will be great again.
>>17286605
>I assume it's because im ugly women don't approach me.
I'd assume it's more personality, or lack thereof.
>>17287006
But you'll still be an american. That's sad.
>>17287012
Looks have so much to do with it, though. Way more than you're letting on. Women won't approach the shy fat dude even if he has a heart of gold because he's ugly. That's just how it goes.
>>17287012
but how can they know about his personality if they haven't approached him?
>>17287018
no sad is the amount of 7-8/10 that wanted to give me their vagina that i did not take. Got my dicked grabbed once too, was in HS. I was more scared of the teacher seeing and Ill get in trouble for it since im the guy even though shes the one sexually assaulting me.
How come I almost exclusively attract white women?
>>17287032
It is very sad for them to be attracted to an american.
>>17287032
probably because you're white? but why are you even posting? like 95% of what you've typed in this thread has almost no relevance at all to the posts you're responding to
i mean i guess it's cool if you want to brag, i understand, but why don't you go talk about all the girls you almost could have fucked with your friends IRL instead of anonymous strangers?
>>17287012
>>17287027
Sure looks play a role, but not to the extent you're getting at. Even if you're an autistic hunk, people tend to find out that you're an autist after a short while.
I know I'm going to get hate from redpill/mgtow/milo/pua but women are quite a bit less superficial that dudes.
>>17287053
Women are more selective. Humans are all superficial.
>>17287059
I guess, most couples are balanced but the skewed ones are usually ugly man and hot woman, (though could be a factor).
Never seen an ugly woman and good-looking dude as a couple.
>>17287081
I have seen the exact opposite: decent looking dudes with ugly/fat girlfriends. I would love to have a hot girlfriend as an ugly dude. That'd be amazing.
>>17287081
I have seen a guy dating a grandma because he wanted her money. He got kicked of by her family though.
>>17287048
I was bird having coffee before I go to the gym.
>>17287100
you just did it again
>>17284338
At 25+ I can't really think of any venues to meet people and still be allowed to catch up for lost time.
>>17287106
I know I'm at the gym now.
>>17287115
Still an american though. Sad, sad...
>>17287115
lol
>>17287120
>being jealous enough of this retard or triggered enough by his personality to keep making these pathetic and desperate baits
lol II
>>17287120
Stop feeding the troll
>>17287147
I'm on auto-pilot now.
You made me go back to read what made me respond to him. Maybe i should stop.
>>17287151
I'm not trolls and why should he be jealous I'm still a Virgin
>>17284338
don´t worry I´m 22 female and haven´t lost mine because I´m waiting for the right person.
just learn to trust yourself more
sex is not everything
work on yourself
learn to be happy by other means
If you really need it and you are shallow by all means use a whore
but, believe when I tell you sex is not important unless you believe other people´s opinions will affect you
>>17287203
>don´t worry I´m 22 female and haven´t lost mine because I´m waiting for the right person.
There is literally no reason to wait for "the right one" unless you're religious or have a medical issue.
>>17287203
>Sex isn't a big deal
>Villified for being "shallow" and using whores
If it wasn't a big deal then why does it matter how one goes about getting it?
>>17287203
Would you perhaps be interested in having your cards read? Or perhaps like me to look into my crystal ball for you?
forget about it or fuck a whore, it's really nothing important it's just sex
18yo virgin here
>>17287248
Fuck off.
>>17287266
understandable
>>17287214
there is literally no reason to listen to your opinion anon. I don´t have a medical issue nor am I religious
>>17287222
it depends, I said that if it is a big deal for you then go buy it if it will make you feel better, I just think that OP should beware if he is indeed a shallow fella because it could harm him. caring about what people think of you in such a thing like sex is really silly, especially when it comes to matters of one´s private life
>>17287240
do you want to make a sacrifice with my virgin blood anon?
>>17287294
Why the fuck do you care about "the right one" it's just sex...
>>17287298
anon, you said it yourself.
It´s just sex.
>>17287294
>do you want to make a sacrifice with my virgin blood anon?
Not at all, I was simply going to offer a reading in exchange for a voice sample of about a minute of unrehearsed conversational speech.
I'm guessing that someone who comes to /adv/ might have a few concerns in their life. Would you say you do? Would you say that you appreciate a variety of opinions on matters that concerns you?
You see, even people who don't believe in divination often find that they are able to gain insight or new perspective for their issues, or that they are better able to focus their self-reflection.
So would you agree that it would be worthwhile to have something that could potentially be beneficial? Would you agree that, because I am charging nothing, you really have nothing to lose, save for a couple of minutes of your time that you are otherwise spending lurking elsewhere?
Doesn't it make sense to receive a free piece of insight for which people normally pay money when it only costs a minute-long voice sample?
>>17284338
Seriously, just buy a hooker
It will demystify sex for you and maybe you'll stop reeking of desperation every time you interact with a woman.
Sex really isn't that great. ESPECIALLY your first time.
>>17287304
Exactly, you are depriving yourself of something you want for no reason.
>>17287336
>do you want to make a sacrifice with my virgin blood anon?
Kinda, yeah.
>>17287294
>Exactly, you are depriving yourself of something you want for no reason.
She's saying she DOESN'T particularly want it that much.
It's JUST sex. In other words, if she feels like being picky, she'll be picky. What's your problem?
>>17287328
a minute-long voice sample? how do you even do that? do you want me to make a video?
>>17287336
is it really difficult to understand that some people just don´t want sex if they don´t feel like it? you don´t need sex as much as you think, that doesn´t mean I don´t touch myself anon.
but sex because of sex I don´t find that appealing
I will when I finish my career and when I´m able to actually worry about stupid things like sex and then find a suitable lover
that´s all. I´m not remaining a virgin forever if that´s what you want to hear anon. I have a lot of other things to worry about first
>>17287361
Woops, quoted those the wrong way around.
>>17287364
>a minute-long voice sample? how do you even do that? do you want me to make a video?
Google "Vocaroo".
Also, what state/country do you live in?
>>17287361
She never said that though...
>>17287364
I never even implied anything you said. I'm just saying you are not having sex just for not having sex.
>>17287364
I don't need a video; voice is enough. Most who give me voice samples use vocaroo.
What I need is 30 to 40 seconds minimum (more is better, of course) of freely spoken (nothing prepared or recited) conversational (like you're talking to someone) speech.
Things that are not necessary, but very helpful for me if you include:
>age
>whether or not you or anyone in your family has any occult/esoteric experience
If your native language is not English, please include something in your native language.
And, for your reading, merely let me know what your question is.
>>17287377
That's what she meant, though. She means she doesn't particularly care about sex. Meaning the only person who's going to get a bunch of enjoyment out of it is the guy. So why should she just let a bunch of fucking randoms have their way with her, when she's getting basicly nothing out of it? Why shouldn't she wait until she's in a committed relationship with someone she deeply loves?
Man, I relate to her. I'm not actually a virgin, but fucking hell, I've hated every time I've had sex. It's just fucking messy and awkward, and I always feel like I've been raped afterward. I've avoided all sexual encounters for like the last five years, and I'm pretty much never planning on having sex again, honestly. Not even if I loved someone very much.
I mean I guess I might suck them off or something. I've done that before, and I never felt like I'd been raped afterward. As long as I can keep my clothes on, I'm fine with it.
>>17287393
She never said anything like that until the post that came after yours.
She said she is waiting for the right guy; waiting implies that she wants to have sex, because nobody waits for something they don't want unless they are forced to.
Only now she says she isn't interessed in it.
Why couldn't she just say she isn't interessed in it in the first place?
>>17287410
>She never said anything like that until the post that came after yours.
No, she had already made her stance pretty clear. See below.
>She said she is waiting for the right guy; waiting implies that she wants to have sex, because nobody waits for something they don't want unless they are forced to.
Yeah, but then you said….
>Why the fuck do you care about "the right one" it's just sex...
And then she said….
>anon, you said it yourself.
>It´s just sex.
Implying she's disinterested in it.
>>17287432
She is contradicting herself but since "just sex" implies less disinterest than "waiting" implies interest and she said "waiting" first i presumed she cared about it.
>>17287458
I presumed that because i see no reason why she would lie about wanting sex in the first place.
>>17287458
>>17287462
I personally think you were reading too much into the word "waiting".
HERE'S HOPING SHE'S JUST TRYING TO FIGURE OUT HOW VOCAROO WORKS, AND HASN'T LEFT US FOREVER
I still want to know what state she lives in, and whether she'd be willing to let a person drink her blood.
>>17287491
The fuck, dude. Ask her that shit after I've finished reading her voice and already left the thread.
>>17287498
Man, I can't just not ask. How often do you get the chance to drink 100 percent pure virgin blood, from an adult woman?
>>17287478
>i haven't lost mine BECAUSE i'm WAITING for the right person.
Tell me it doesn't sound like she wants to have sex?
Based on that and the fact that she says sex is not a big deal, wouldn't it be logical to conclude that she has no reason to wait for the right one?
Then everything falls apart when she says she doesn't want to have sex.
It's contradictory, which causes confusion which brings us here.
>>17287513
>Tell me it doesn't sound like she wants to have sex?
It doesn't sound either way, to me.
Then, a few posts later, she said the reason why she wanted to wait was because it's "just sex", implying she has no desire for it. She will get no reward out of it. It's just a completely neutral thing for her, that she can either withhold or not, depending on trust, love, commitment, etcetera.
That's what I read into it, and it turned out I was correct.
>>17287410
>She said she is waiting for the right guy; waiting implies that she wants to have sex
Not really.
If I'm waiting for the right time to go on a holiday, that doesn't mean I want to go on one as soon as humanly possible. I wouldn't pack my things and go the second I got a long weekend if the weather is so shitty I wouldn't enjoy it. The fact that I'm indifferent enough to let a less than optimal opportunity pass doesn't mean I'm completely uninterested in going on a holiday.
Waiting is just waiting for the right circumstances for something you expect will happen at some point, and those circumstances can be as broad as "finding someone willing" to as narrow as "finding the person I'll marry."
>>17287509
Since ritualistic hematophagy promotes etheric Contagion, the prospect has never interested me. But, I'm sitting here waiting, so I'll answer: fairly rarely; I live in an extremely liberal area.
>>17287458
That's not a contradiction, you're just judging those words by the value you personally place on them. You can want something and be chill about waiting for it.
>>17287538
You're back!
How would you feel about letting a person drink your blood?
>>17287513
>I haven't seen Civil War because I'm waiting until it comes out on DVD
>>17287550
Different anon sorry.
>>17287554
Aww.
>>17287553
>spending money on a cinema ticket when you can just watch it at home comfy af
>>17287538
That's what waiting for the right one to appear means. Not what saying you don't care about it means.
Nobody waits for a holiday when you don't like holidays.
>>17287548
Yeah, you wait for something you want. I agree
>>17287553
You do that if want to see CW.
>>17287564
She wants to wait for the right one? Fine, that's her business but it's clearly not something that's held by the majority of the population, even by religious people.
>>17287585
What does that have to do with anything?
I guess i am a terrible writer because i have had 4 people completely misunderstand me.
We need an /adv/ version of this cartoon, specifically for threads like this.
>>17284338
25 year old virgin here. But i could've had sex during my teen years because i was a loner and attractive and girls saw me as a safe fuck or mysterious guy idk. Iv actually counted and fantaized all the girls that threw themselves at me and there's 8-12 potential times a really couldve had fucking sex if i werent a loner. That said i have gotten my dick sucked but i dont like counting it because we were 13 and she and i were both socially awkward friends.
That said im about to lose my virginity tomarrow and im nervous as fuck. Idk how to have sex and iv never kissed a girl before. Bitch is coming over here and i gotta kick my sister / friend out. I want to have sex but im embarrassed i might make myself look like a faggot. Fml. Also check out my cringe.
>>17287615
Fuck off Chad
>>17287591
I'm the one who posted the holiday/Civil War analogies, I think understood you, I think only one guy is confused. I agree with what you said in >>17287564, that was the point I was trying to get across.
You can want something and still be perfectly comfortable waiting.
>>17287598
Holy fucking shit I haven't laughed so much at something so stupid in a while, thank you
>>17287689
Yeah, that was my point but fuck this whole thing; i'm tired of typing on my cellphone.
Why the board that i have to type more doesn't allow me to post on my pc?
I wish girl-chan would come back.
I want to talk more about drinking her blood.
>>17287734
Fairly certain you scare her away, m8
>>17284338
>hooker
thats how
>>17287741
One of these days, man. One of these days I'll find an adult female virgin who'll let me drink her blood.
>>17284338
>How can a guy at this age lose his virginity?
The same anyone else does. Guys. The Game doesn't change. It's the same fucking Game.
You guys are always trying to turn checkers into fucking chess. It's checkers. It's just fucking checkers. Here, I'll write you a formula:
>Lift weights.
>Eat the correct types and amounts of food.
>Work on perfecting a skill.
>Strive to better yourself, your body, and your intellect.
Do that and I guarantee you will have chances to fuck women.
And if you don't know how to fuck women, watch porn, read about it, lookup diagrams, and then do them.
Let me tell you a story about anal sex. Once upon a time, I had never put my penis in a girl's asshole before just like you all haven't put it in a vagina. So what did I do? I went online and I researched how to get women to let me fuck their asses.
I tried different strategies, found the ones that worked, and forgot the ones that didn't. Then I looked up diagrams about positions, ass anatomy, etc.
The first time i ass fucked a girl she asked me "how I knew to do all of that" and "how I must be a player to know all of that."
Women don't even want to know how you know, they just want you to know. Use. The. Fucking. Internet. and LEARN.
>>17287778
>And if you don't know how to fuck women, watch porn
I hope you're talking about amateur porn or something, because the shit you see on Brazzers or whatever else is not a good guide.
>>17287814
>I hope you're talking about amateur porn or something, because the shit you see on Brazzers or whatever else is not a good guide.
The interesting thing though is that women want you to fuck them like Brazzers men fuck their women.
It's strange, I know, but women want dominant men. How *much* they want to be dominated depends and is on a range... but every. single. woman. I've ever fucked has liked dominance to some degree.... also Brazzers has GREAT camera angles so you can see what you're working with... OK, cool penis goes there and he grabs her there to kind of support himself... OK OK. See? Look at where his hands are - how is he holding his weight up? Maybe he can move his hips like that because he's supporting himself with a wall or other thing.
Sex is strategic. Learn the strategy and the tactics.
Also, watch amateur porn too. Then realize that's how most virgin teens have sex and not how I choke out my girlfriend with a vibrator up her pussy and my dick up her ass (Sunday). You don't usually see that in amateur porn.
But you do see the "love." That's a good thing too - do that as well. Ass fuck her while caressing her face and telling her she's yours. Watch how fast she gets off.
>>17287829
>The interesting thing though is that women want you to fuck them like Brazzers men fuck their women.
Brazzers is made for men and men alone. Lesbians don't actually finger blast each other with 3 inch long fingernails in the real world. For every piece of good advice you could pick up, there's 3 more bad ones.
I've seen them just take their dick and immediately start plowing the womans ass hardcore, and that's a great way to end the night bleeding everywhere.
>>17287839
...Except that women would get fucked like that if they could do it normally. A lot of the time they really wish you would just ram that shit up in them like a hulk. But desires are limited by mechanics.
So if you're human and have an asshole... and are stupid enough to think you can just ram things like that up assholes... and are too stupid to understand that there might be some exaggeration going on in Brazzers... well I can't protect people against that level of dumb.
>>17284338
24 year old virgin femanon here, let's just have awkward virgin sex together and then cry about the fact that it did nothing to solve any of our actual problems and issues
>>17287922
Where do you live, and how uncool would you be with a person drinking your blood?
>>17287922
See my previous posts:
>>17287240
>>17287328
>>17287386
The offer is open to you as well, but I'll get to it in the morning.
>>17287928
florida, and I wouldn't be completely turned off by it, actually, as I have a nose bleed fetish. we could help each other out in that regard
Does it count as the blood of a virgin if the blood is spilled as a result of her first penetration? I mean, the blood technically left her body before she was fully deflowered.
What if you collect virgin blood, put it on ice, and use it after the virgin's no longer a virgin, will it still work?
What if she has her finger in a tourniquet while having sex, and blood is collected from her finger afterwards, is it untainted since it was out of circulation at the time?
>>17287956
For what (theoretical) purpose do you intend this blood? I'm the dude offering the reading, not the hopeful hemophagist, but I do have a lot of occult experience.
>>17284338
Goong to e a 23 year old virgin in a few days
>>17287961
Hm, not sure. I don't know a lot about virgin sacrifice, I didn't really pay attention in high school.
Fuck, how's this, could a virgin use her OWN blood to cast a spell to make a hot dude fall in love with her so that she could finally lose her virginity?
>>17287956
For magical purposes, virginity is defined a little differently than it is typically meant in everyday conversation, and, specificly, it has to do with the moment of orgasm.
You are a type 1 non-virgin, for magical purposes, if a person has had an orgasm while making skin contact with you. You are a type 2 non-virgin if you have had an orgasm while making skin contact with someone else. You are a type 3 non-virgin if you are both type 1 and type 2. And type 0 is "true" virginity, in the magical sense.
There are a lot of people who we wouldn't consider virgins by our society's standards, but who are virgins under the magical rules. There are also a lot of people we *would* consider virgins, in our culture, but who are *not* virgins, magically speaking.
With respect to your questions, the blood is virgin blood if it was extracted when the person was still a virgin. So, hymen blood from first penetration is, yes, virgin blood, since it left the body before orgasm occurred. Blood does, however, lose its magical properties very quickly, the longer it is outside of the body. Within probably a minute or two it is barely any more potent than plain distilled water.
However, the rate at which blood depreciates in magical value is inversely proportional to its temperature. So, if you could somehow keep the blood at body temperature, it wouldn't depreciate at all. And if you heat it to its boiling point, it actually becomes even more powerful. (Of course, then it would be very hard to drink, because it would burn your tongue.)
>>17287978
>could a virgin use her OWN blood to cast a spell to make a hot dude fall in love with her so that she could finally lose her virginity?
Yes, there's a voodoo recipe that involves cooking a pie with menstrual blood and feeding it to the guy. I don't know it myself, but it's well-known.
Why you would actually want to go through the trouble of using magic for something that can easily be accomplished by mundane means is beyond me.
>>17287987
>Yes, there's a voodoo recipe that involves cooking a pie with menstrual blood and feeding it to the guy. I don't know it myself, but it's well-known.
Jesus fucking christ, yeah, I'm sure that'll win a guy's heart.
I think a regular pie would have better odds.
>>17287985
Here I was thinking you're just a fetishist. Color me surprised.
>>17287997
Yeah. Unfortunately >>17287934 lives in Florida and I'm all the way up in Minnesota.
My girlfriend is a virgin, though, so maybe I can somehow work it into conversation. I'll have to be careful not to freak her out, though. Maybe present it as a joke at first, and see how she reacts.
>>17288007
Care to help a fellow occultist out and get me a voice sample from her? There's a reading or two in it for you, and I wouldn't mind giving you any information I've uncovered in my research that might help you in whatever it us you're doing.
>>17287994
Apparently the recipe is meant to hide the taste very well. Obviously I've never tried it, but I've heard it really works.
Still, I'd say mundane means would accomplish your goals just fine.
>>17288017
Oh, no, personally I think most occult stuff is pretty far off the mark. Some of it hits pretty close by pure guesswork, but often times the magical rules can be quite specific, in ways that can't be guessed a priori (such as I've described above with virginity).
Certainly there is some magic residuum in a person's voice, and it may be that your "readings" have some basis in truth. I certainly wish you luck and success in your practices.
I'm just after the blood. Obviously I can't *bathe* in it, as would be ideal, since that would require a volume more copious than a living and willing person can provide— and blood willingly given by the living is far more powerful than that taken by force from the murdered— but drinking it should be an adequate substitute, especially if it is either sucked directly from the wound, or else quickly heated to roughly the temperature of hot chocolate, before it has enough time to cool down.
I look forward to drinking my girlfriend's blood from a hot, steaming, Christmas-colored drinking mug, while curled up in bed beside her. We can even share it together (although I'm not sure whether one can get any magical effect from one's own blood, even if it's virgin blood).
Sometimes I think about ways of harvesting large quantities of blood from a living host. Perhaps I could perform small daily effusions over the course of several months, always allowing them plenty of time between drawings to replenish their natural supply. The main difficulty, though, is with storage: the blood would have to be kept close to its boiling point at all times, day and night. If the temperature were allowed to fall even briefly, all that effort would go to waste and it would become a worthless tub of powerless blood that would do nothing. At that point I might as well have just murdered some non-virgin frat boy and drained him out, for all the good it would do me.
>>17288046
Oh, I don't really subscribe to the standard occult tradition; I've just done my own research based on energy behavior and a few sensical laws.
As far as all the blood stuff...you kind of lost me, but...good luck?
Who else here is way off their mark?
In highschool I always thought I was going to meet a nice girl, maybe not the one I would spend the rest of my life with, but someone - and have that nice typical highschool romance. But rejection after rejection, and literally never meeting someone who showed any interest in me whatsoever it just never happened. Out of highschool with no experience I've sort of just "given up" at this point, if you can even call it that. It's not like any of the girls I meet show any interest anyways. There was that one girl in highschool, but I blew that shit before I even realized the opportunity.
So who else's romantic life didn't pan out as they had hoped?
>>17284338
Here, I don't really care about it that much, I had opportunities in the past but for some reason I take very serious that stuff and just thought that it wasn't the right woman. Still waiting for the one, tho. (yeah, I'm a helpless romantic)
>>17284338
>How can a guy at this age lose his virginity?
I wish I knew
>>17288075
I kept my head down while at secondary school to avoid getting it kicked in, so by the time I got to college and uni I was socially retarded and kept my head down out of habit.
My school was devoid of anything remotely geeky, just gang fights and a vaguely defined group of popular kids. So meeting dudes into geeky stuff was almost zero, let alone any girls into it.
I would have liked to have met someone dorky and cute (I know, I'm shallow) kinda like Lindsey Sterling (I don't how much of her dorkiness is an act).
>>17288075
I guess not everyone will find love.
There ISN'T someone for everyone.
>>17288100
>meal for one
Didn't even know they had a section for that.
>>17288974
Thinking about it; it's kinda degrading for the people who are self-conscious with bring alone.
>>17288997
I think they just printed it out of pure pragmatism.
They probably have it going up to "four".
>>17288075
In high school I thought I would be alone for my entire life and never lose my virginity. I ended up in a fairly serious relationship in my last year of high school and now going onto my last year of university, I've only ever gone a few months without getting laid and have been in relationships for 75% of that time.
28 and got really lucky, I lost my v when I was like 25 exactly. Now I cannot imagine how to meet new people. Online dating, tinders and shit is the only option for you imo, unless you are into some very social hobby that makes you meet new girls.
Clubbing is rather bad because it's all about chads and bitches, they don't like late bloomers, everyone there has to be awesome, ya know.
im a 30 yo virgin, 0 dates
to scared to even talk to girls in bars
>>17289132
What part of 25+ do you not understand?
>>17289208
https://youtu.be/-zCCugB1DCk
yeah
I've lost my virginity when I was 36, about half a year ago. I didn't really give a damn about girls up until I was 33, because I was obese and waaay too lost in a dead end job with no motivation, and additionally MMOs.
I simply started doing something with my life when I've turned 33. Got a new job in IT at an entry-level position that a trained monkey could do, and advanced from there. Picked up cycling and traveling as a hobby. Saved up money for it. Started talking a lot to strangers during my travels, it all slowly built up and changed me. I have guts and game now, and gradually after getting closer and closer to various girls, I happened upon one who was really flirty. She was a slut, but we really clicked. She was 27 and thought I was 28. I lied to her about my experience, I've told her that I haven't had sex in a while so I am rusty. We ended up having sex. First time was goddamn awful and I came pretty fast, but wanking it to all that amateur porn, it gave me a lot of experience in what to do and I ended up going down on her.
Chicks really dig the traveling stories and all the "you are crazy, traveling by yourself" I get I take as a boost of confidence. Makes for good conversation, even if they might just be stories you've heard yourself.
>>17286930
>funny thing when I get kissed they always go in with tongue
yes, that is how you kiss...
I'm 20 but I'm well on my way. I've never had any female friends and I've been laughed/mocked for being ugly pretty much since elementary school. Having a shit personality, no confidence, and no social skills doesn't help, but I've more or less accepted it since I'm too scared to talk to any woman who isn't my mom or my therapist. I think once I have my own stream of cash I'll see an escort, but I really hope whoever that is doesn't laugh at my less than 4 inch erection. People tell me I shouldn't believe this since I'm 20, but I have enough difficulty making friends at this age so romance and losing my virginity is out of the question at this point. Some people just aren't made for relationships
>>17289224
>36
Surprisingly, even as a 27 KV, I's not really inspired by your story.
Accept where you're at and make changes to correct it. It'll be worth it if you really want it
Just so you know, you'll still have problems lol
Anon, you're incel. The feminist society created the incel problem, and they're oppressing us.
The only good thing you can do is terrorism against lib-dem politicians.
>>17289307
I understand that. You are as old as you think you are though. Change comes from within. Desperation reeks and others, especially women, can smell it from a mile away.
What really helped me personally was just focusing on myself instead of focusing on the stupid goal to get a girl. A mantra really helped me in this, which was "In order to attain something, you have to learn to let go of it first.
>>17289339
>My problems are everyone else's fault!
>>17289452
Ignore the troll.
>>17289481
You're him.
I lost my virginity at 27 to a hooker. It was nothing special. Only had sex like 3 times again that year, also with hookers. Haven't had sex since, or felt any desire to, and I'm 30 now. I don't care about women one way or another anymore.
>>17289192
Congrats on achieving wizardry; I've got nearly five more years.
>Too scared to even go to bars
>>17284349
>Just wait until you meet the woman that's right for you.
Are you serious?
You guys are all fucked up man, and you need to realize it.
Not because you're virgins at 25 (or later), but because you give so much of a shit about it.
Give me all the pseudo-science bullshit you want about how we're biologically designed to desire women and need validation via fucking and how genetics are against you and social injustices blah blah blah blah. Do you even realize how much you sound like the Social Justice Warrior - Feminazi alliance you hate so much?
It's literally all in your head, and it's fucking you over. Flirting and getting the attention of the moderately attractive women is not really all that hard. I had a brief chat with an average looking but sweet eastern european girl Lyft driver the other day (the ride literally lasted 10 minutes) and by the end of it I'm sure I could've asked for her digits and gone for coffee some time later.
Some women are never going to like you. Some women are just going to be in the wrong mood when you approach them. Some women are taken. Other women you might not be attracted to in the least. But there are A TON OF WOMEN out there, and I guarantee you that some of them would be on your wavelength if you just put in a bit of effort to get your foot in the door.
Dress like an adult. All it takes is a button down shirt, pants, shoes, and a shave every now and then. Putting away the graphic tees, cargo shorts, and sandals sometimes when you go out is not going to erase your sense of self, I fucking promise.
>>17290176
Treat women like human beings. Seriously - don't try to be an extreme gentleman, don't try to be super macho or "alpha", don't try to be sweet, don't try to "game". Just literally be a decent goddamn human being. Get out of your own head and care about someone besides yourself for once. Make a quick comment about the weather, ask her about her day or how it's going, give a bit of information about yours, ask what they're doing in the city or whatnot... and then if it doesn't seem like they're reciprocating, LET IT THE FUCK GO. This is KEY. If they're not feeling it, it's COOL, just back off and let them be on their merry way. You know those Jehova's witnesses that show up at your door and try to convert you? Yeah, no one likes that and neither does the girl if you're laying on the pressure and trying to push them to talk or get their info if they're not into it. Shut the fuck up, wish them a good day, go on with your life and think nothing of it.
Being a virgin at 25 literally means nothing. People, on average, are extremely average lovers. If she likes you, she is not going to ditch you just because you didn't rock her pussy the first time you fuck. She will if she's just out slutting it up for some easy going dicking, but that's not the kind of girl you want to be with anyway is it?
You tell her later on that you were actually a virgin and she was your first, she will fall in love with you all over again because she'll think it's the sweetest thing ever (after you get her to believe you, that is). What kind of fucking autist blurts out "...I'm a virgin!" Like just scenario are you imagining where she is going to know? There are plenty of awkward fucks who have gotten their dick wet before, so virginity has nothing to do with whether you suck ass with girls or whether you find some you can connect with. It has EVERYTHING to do with your outlook on the world and how you carry yourself.
>>17290197
> If she likes you, she is not going to ditch you
shit normies say
>>17290176
>a lotta words saying absolutely nothing.
My problem is a lifetime of crippling depression, lack of anything resembling self esteem, zero social connections, and zero will to live.
Being with someone isn't going fix any of that, and I know that. All of that is stuff that I need to fix on my own, and it will never happen. I've just accepted I'll die alone soon and that will be the end.
>>17290203
Shut up pegasus.
>>17290176
>>17290197
>Being a virgin at 25 literally means nothing.
Course it means something, otherwise we wouldn't be having this discussion.
>>17290216
You're trying to lead the flock astray with your normal aspirations
They should desire to be more than meat poles for dumb whores
>>17290176
I wear dress pants, button up shirts, shave regularly, have a degree, a stable white collar job, no debt outside of a mortgage on a home I own
This is this terrible notion that everyone "deserves" love or sex or something. This idea is harmful to everyone. People like me just need to pay their taxes, do their part to contribute, and be grateful we are allowed to exist at all.
Yes the loneliness hurts and no, it never gets easier. But to intrude into another person's life? Would an otherwise happy person honestly enjoy being approached or trapped in a relationship with an undesirable? No. Just let him/her be happy with someone else, and take pride in doing your part for society.
I volunteered at soup kitchens when I was younger, but the homeless didn't want to take food from someone so ugly. Yes I am serious!
>>17290197
>Being a virgin at 25 literally means nothing.
The point at which I realized I could disregard your post. If you're that retarded the rest of it can't be any good.
>>17290220
Shut up faggot.
>>17290225
>But to intrude into another person's life? Would an otherwise happy person honestly enjoy being approached or trapped in a relationship with an undesirable?
That's always worried me, even in my flights of fancy, that my burdens would kill them.
>>17290236
>flights of fancy
no wonder you scare away pussi jabroni
At least you are a Virgin OP
I gave into my shame a few years ago.
I found a fucking ugly sinful who're and enacted my list upon her. The shame of it will never leave me. It will haunt me forever. I wish I was a Virgin again, I could be pure and curious and happy.
>>17290176
>>17290197
This only works if you are attractive. I am ugly as fuck and do all of this. I make a fantastic friend to these women doing what you suggested but never someone they want to fuck.
I was a 24 year old Virgin until the loneliness basically broke me. I don't know if it was a mental breakdown or whatever ( there was other really heavy bullshit going on in my life at the same time) but for about half a year I was a complete basket case. I eventually got so sick of being a complete wreck that I went through a period of self improvement, and started seeing a therapist. I got so frustrated at being a Virgin and was at such a low point that I basically said fuck it, I'm gonna do the whole game thing and approach as many girls as I can and who gives a fuck if I get rejected a million times. It was incredibly hard and shockingly embarrassing ( nothing more humiliating than a girl asking if you're a Virgin at a bar and then her and her friends laughing at you), but I didn't punk out and I stuck with it. It took me about 5 months of going out regularly, basically daily, until I got laid ( she was a 7/10 20 yr old and I lasted like 10 second lmfao) I'm 28 now and have slept with 18 girls and now have a really sweet girlfriend and am basically a complete normie now. This shit is real man, you can change. You have to get the leverage to take complete control of your life and then run your life with an iron will. Look at every part of your life and all your habits and be brutally honest whether it's helping you out or not. If not you got to cut that shit out and do what you can to tackle your fears.
Being attractive and/or assertive is the solution
>>17290284
>I'm gonna do the whole game thing and approach as many girls as I can and who gives a fuck if I get rejected a million times.
You know that's not what normal people do? I know I have limited options in what to do but going round asking every girl is not quite what I had in mind.
>>17290314
Yeah I know it's not what normal people do, but you know what else normal people don't do? Wait until they're over 25 to get laid. Look, I had such bad social anxiety and it was really fucking me up. I read that you can get better socially by approaching a lot so that's what I did and it worked. Sometimes life puts you into situations where you have to be a little extreme to get out of them.
>>17290284
>Virgin
What's with the capital v?
>>17290257
Why haven't you killed yourself pegasus?
>>17290380
I don't know my phone keeps changing it for whatever reason
>>17290284
>I was a 24 year old Virgin until the loneliness basically broke me. I don't know if it was a mental breakdown or whatever ( there was other really heavy bullshit going on in my life at the same time) but for about half a year I was a complete basket case. I eventually got so sick of being a complete wreck that I went through a period of self improvement, and started seeing a therapist. I got so frustrated at being a Virgin and was at such a low point that I basically said fuck it, I'm gonna do the whole game thing and approach as many girls as I can and who gives a fuck if I get rejected a million times. It was incredibly hard and shockingly embarrassing ( nothing more humiliating than a girl asking if you're a Virgin at a bar and then her and her friends laughing at you), but I didn't punk out and I stuck with it. It took me about 5 months of going out regularly, basically daily, until I got laid ( she was a 7/10 20 yr old and I lasted like 10 second lmfao) I'm 28 now and have slept with 18 girls and now have a really sweet girlfriend and am basically a complete normie now. This shit is real man, you can change. You have to get the leverage to take complete control of your life and then run your life with an iron will. Look at every part of your life and all your habits and be brutally honest whether it's helping you out or not. If not you got to cut that shit out and do what you can to tackle your fears.
I want to believe
>>17290394
Seriously, why not try to go out for a month straight and talk to let's say 5 girls a night? Even that one month you'll make so much progress. Why not?
>>17290284
tell us more about the time when the girls at the bar laughed at you for being a virgin, sounds cringe af.
>>17290383
If only it was that easy.
>>17287829
This guy gets it. Disney sex can fuck off
>>17290383
What is dead may never die
>>17290435
It would make for an interesting greentext.
Sex workers. Yeah yeah you don't want to lose your virginity to a prostitute because you feel like it doesn't count because it's shameful or because your inadequacy about being an older male virgin is rooted in some kind of social approval complex, but trust me on this one. I saw a hooker when I was 19, saw like 10 more before I was 22, and finally got laid aged 22. I genuinely believe that if I hadn't gone through hookers, it wouldn't have happened for me - it takes the edge off, you'll be less worried and more prepared when the actual thing happens, and you'll be able to actually converse with normies about sex, which it turns out is actually a major form of flirting.
This works best if you combine it with fixing other aspects of your life - being at a healthy weight, having a place of your own to live, having a job, having a car, etc. etc. You can't really change your personality overnight, it comes with time.
>>17287203
Completely different. You could get it whenever you want and haven't because you don't want to.
OP wants it and can't have it and is trying to find out how to get it.
Not even being sexist, EVERY virgin thread has 2 or 3 virgin women giving shit advice on a subject they have next to no exposure to. Society praises virgin women and shames virgin men, your mileage varies too much to offer useful advice. Blah.
>>17290176
>and I guarantee you that some of them would be on your wavelength
you had me going up until this part. this isn't some fucking fairy tale or rom-com. there are people that just don't find someone to spend their life with.
lets ignore the "virgin" thing for a second. it is crazy how so many people think that's so important. experience though, that's completely different. if you never got to experience a couple relationships and learn shit back when everyone else usually does (highschool or maybe even college) than you are fucked. it's not something you can even lie about to women you meet. yeah, you can - but sooner or later they'll realize you're full of shit because it will be so obvious you have no idea what the fuck you're doing. it's a lose-lose situation. no experience means nobody.
yeah, maybe there's that 0.5% chance you'll find the one girl that doesn't care and will understand, because they are very few and far inbetween, but chances are they're already taken anyways. most will either avoid you because of their own personal biases of dating someone with no experience/it's a huge red flag, or they'll get pissed down the road when they find out that you lied and they were your first everything.
there are no magic guides, or guaranteed-to-work miracle advice, anything, that can help people like this. people with no experience whatsoever. fucked for life
25 year old female virgin here. guess i'm too picky. but i'd probably make a good wife.
>christian values
>likes to laugh
>likes children
>will try to satisfy husband as much as i can.
>>17290734
Are you a virgin because of those christian values? As in you won't have sex before marriage? If so, sorry to say, but you're definitely not wife material and that's why guys stay away from you.
>>17290734
See my previous posts:
>>17287240
>>17287328
>>17287386
I don't know how much this appeals to Christians, but the offer is open to you as well.
>>17290176
>>17290197
Get outta here with your "making sense", and your "normie values". This is a self-pity thread.
>>17290220
Why the fuck is that chick who is clearly not Asuka dressed like Asuka? Does she think she's good enough to be Asuka? If so, she's got a rude awakening coming, because Asuka is clearly best girl, and this girl is not best girl.
>>17290384
Fucking insidious corporate bastards.
>>17290734
Would you ever let a person drink your blood?
>>17290799
This is /adv/. Fuck off back to /r9k/, bitter virgin.
hard mode here
27 y/o, disabled
i'm 6'4, which makes me really weird looking
Take the idea of a relationship or sex, and try to demonize it. Then find something, say a dream (could be as realistic or unrealistic as you want), then want it more than anything in the world. Want that dream so much until you feel that you could sacrifice everything, including your friends and family, just to obtain that dream.
Say the following: "Having this will make me happier than anything in the world. I'd rather stay a friendless virgin who's doing ------- than a mediocre man who has a girlfriend/wife."
Then watch as your dream turns to mist and you will behold a woman as your vision clears.
>>17290804
Lol, what the fuck part of my post made you think I was either bitter or a virgin?
Fucking autist detected.
>>17290989
God, this is painfully fucking true. Are you me?
>>17290953
How disabled?
>>17284338
I was this close to pay for an escort but I accidentally wasted my money with some buddies and now I have to save for vacation.
I feel like this was a sign so I'm not getting an escort anymore. I'll just wait until shit happens. I'm going to vacation with a few girls so maybe shit'll get better, and next year I'm starting college because I only worked after HS.
Oh well, my life could be worse but I'm horny as fuck all the time.
>>17290284
I feel like this shit only works in America. The dating / sex scene works differently where I'm from.
There's no such thing as lone guys going to girls in bars.... Because there's no such thing as girls in bars.
32 no I aint paying for hookers
>>17291229
bruuuh
Fucking do it as soon as you can, it is 100% worth it, you will NOT regret it. You know who tells you you'll regret? Guys that didn't do it. You know who never tells you you'll regret it? Guys that did. Fuck an escort, nothing to lose, everything to gain.
>>17291270
Unless you're on the breadline or you live in a country without regulated sex work, there is no good reason not to. Give me even one.
>>17285234
woah
>>17290600
>saw hooker at 19
Advice null and void.
>>17291404
I wish I'd done it at 18 to be honest.
>>17290600
>Society praises virgin women and shames virgin men, your mileage varies too much to offer useful advice.
Society does not praise cat ladies you retard, they only interest the super-religious or the type of dude that smacks his girl for even looking in another man's direction.
>>17291413
Oh outside a certain age group, sure. But women are encouraged to cherish their virginity and make the first time special and so on and so on, whereas men are pressured to get rid of it as soon as possible. A 22 year old virgin female is saving it, and somewhere in the back of everyone's mind is more virtuous for it. A 22 year old virgin male has something wrong with him.
lol @ you guys for having any hope. I am only 21 and I have already accepted the fact that I'll die alone. The ride never ends.
>>17290600
>Completely different. You could get it whenever you want and haven't because you don't want to.
>OP wants it and can't have it and is trying to find out how to get it.
This is a valid point.
>Not even being sexist, EVERY virgin thread has 2 or 3 virgin women giving shit advice on a subject they have next to no exposure to. >Society praises virgin women and shames virgin men, your mileage varies too much to offer useful advice. Blah.
This is being sexist.
The fact that she's a woman is not the reason her advice is misplaced. Her advice is misplaced because it comes from a completely different set of desires, and no actual experience from which to proclaim sex isn't that important.
Her being a woman has nothing to do with it.
>>17291424
>21
Please read the thread title and fuck off.
>>17291419
The view that women should cherish virginity is becoming pretty antiquated. I don't doubt it still runs deep in many areas, but in many others it's becoming weirder and weirder for women to remain virgins beyond a certain point. And the fact that people think it should be so easy can actually be a hinderance, since adult virgin women have even less excuses for not being able to make it happen. And that purity angle can become a double edged sword when a woman actually strives to lose her virginity for its own sake as a man does, because a woman wanting that isn't always considered normal.
In reality, it's not as simple as going to a bar and saying "who wants to fuck?", any more than a man losing his virginity is as simple as hiring a hooker. That's just not generally done. It's embarrassing, it's degrading. And suggesting it's a solution is like wondering why someone complains about not being able to afford eating at a fancy restaurant by saying "You know they don't lock their dumpsters, right?" You have to be pretty fucking desperate and reckless and uncaring of social taboos to get to the point where that's an acceptable means to an end.
But as much as you can say a female virgin is given respect while a male virgin is scoffed at, you an equally find a female virgin who's forced to consider proverbial dumpster meat is scoffed at while a male virgin who does the same is sympathised with (obviously varying depending on present company).
Not to mention the issue of actually being able to ENJOY having sex with someone, which any woman would be very lucky to find through random strangers. Being able to find someone who'll use your warm wet hole for free isn't exactly something to write home about. Might as well boast about your wealth based on how many dirty bums ask you for change.
>>17291444
All fair points, I hear where you're coming from. On balance I still think I'd rather be a female virgin than a male one, and I don't think there's any way to frame the comparison that makes the disadvantage exactly one to one.
I also don't consider that seeing a sex worker has to be embarrassing or degrading either, regardless of what stigmas attach to it. It is what you make of it, some of the paid sex I've had has been way more sexually and personally satisfying than the unpaid sex I've had. It's like ego therapy.
>>17290745
so what makes a woman wife material then?
>>17290799
>Would you ever let a person drink your blood?
nope not into that
>>17291484
Definitely not "chrisitan values while browsing 4chan".
>>17291502
How does this not make a woman not wife material?
>>17291507
how does this make a person not be wife material*
>>17286742
this is exactly me, i honestly think its because of my self image and body image.
>>17291511
>christian values
>browsing 4chan
Can you see the conflict here?
>>17286988
That anon is clearly telling you to kill yourself because he's asshurt that you don't play around with coalburners
In any case I think your real problem might be that you have autism
>>17290176
>put away your sandals
Why do you ask the impossible of me?
Let's at least reach the post limit.
>>17284338
Men define themselves by their actions, and if the greatest action you can define yourself by is porking some chick, then you probably deserve to be viewed as pathetic.
What did everyone learn from this thread?
>>17292552
That Pegasus is the an authority on feminine penises and anal play
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>>17292357
I never understood why faggots like you concentrate on the sex part of virginity instead of social failing part of it.
>>17292552
Nothing we haven't been told before and pegasus is sad sack of shit, who undoubtedly will start claiming he isn't despite trolling /adv/ for at least a year and being a namefag. In his head he probably thinks he's far superior than most anons.
25.
The longer I go without it the more bitter and hateful I become.
The feeling of seclusion is unbearable.
I have friends and a social group but when I see them have girlfriends I end up hanging out less and less. It's like going your whole life eating shitty canned food (masturbation) and everyone around you is eating steaks and lobster with milk shakes (sex).
>>17292731
I never understood why faggots like you get so triggered by a tripcode
I literally means nothing and it gives you a way to filter my posts, I've been generous
>>17292878
I've never understood why you are such a faggot. What do you gain posting crap?
>>17292878
Tripcoding is for fags because anonymity is the foundation of this site. By tripfagging you are showing how narcissistic you are because you have to have your posts recognised by ID. Go to a forum if you want a permanent identity you bellend
>>17292929
>anonymity is the foundation of this site
[citation needed]
>>17291526
and? I don't think this makes me any less wife material desu.
>>17292934
Do you feel your opinion is so important it warrants us knowing who you are? Why do you insist on a permanent identity? Nobody wants you here.
>[citation needed]
tripfags are genuinely this delusional
>>17292956
So you have no evidence? I guess its because its 2016
Keep projecting retard
>>17292963
keep dodging the question then, faggot
if you don't understand the important of anonymity on 4chan you're beyond saving
how about answering my questions?
>>17292968
You do realize there are filters, right? Use them and ignore the attention whores
25, turning 26 in a couple of months. I haven't ever tried to date or fuck anyone so I suppose it's on me really. Doesn't help that I'm not that attractive, I'm super lazy and have a bad personality.
I also have a weird fetish which is impossible to fulfil in real life, so that's something I bet. Also the internet and anime have ruined my standards of what I consider attractive. I possibly could get laid if my standards weren't so high.
>>17292968
not an argument
try providing evidence
>>17292954
>And?
The fact that you don't find a conflict between the cack heap called 4chan and "christian values" kinda tells me you're not. It's a website that is racist, misogynist, homophobic and deviant at the same time, even if you browse the saner boards like /cgl/.
All the cool memes that pop out of it are buried within a heap of cack.
>>17293458
>not wife material
Scratch that, not saying you aren't wife material but it would concern me that you browse 4chan and still hold christian values.
>23 going on 24 in a couple of months
Frankly it's just whatever man.
