How do you become completely carefree in life? I feel like no matter what stage of my life I'm in I'll always wake up with something stressful on my mind. In middle school it was getting girls to like me by screaming obscenities at them, high school was me trying to barely scrape by grade wise. I wonder what college will be for me. Even if I was filthy rich Id still have some degree of shit to worry about just like right now.
>>17284160
You're a fucking kid.
What have you got to worry about?
>>17284162
i gotta worry about a girl finna fug my booty desu family member
>>17284162
Did you even read the thread you shit for brains? I'm talking about being stressed at all parts of life no matter how well off you are. Of fucking course when you look back to when you were a kid you realize how trivial that shit was but the stress is still there albeit on different parts of life.
>>17284160
Life generally sucks - Its a fact try to get over it
Maybe dont care as much of what others think, and hopefully that will let some of that stress go.
Find something actually out there in the world to do. I like computer shit, but fresh air and moving around a little works pretty well for things.
>>17284174
I'm not talking about stress controlling my life. It could be as minimal as an after thought. But no matter what there's always something there that when you think about it you can't help but sigh and be all moody and shit.
Thanks for the advice maybe somehow magically one day I will truely have absolutely nothing to sigh about
>>17284195
Im saying don't focus on that part
Try to focus on something else, like fill the time with other shit. We can do that - it might not go away, but it will make the days go by better
>>17284160
Is dangerous, but a good way to give no fucks is to get into existencialism, just beware that before you run out of fucks to give you will feel like shit because, well, how will you run out of fucks if you don't give some here and there?
Anyway, there is no absolute order but I suggest this one:
The metamorphosis (Franz Kafka)
The antichrist (Nietzsche)
Nausea (Jean-Paul Sartre)
Man in search of meaning (Viktor Frankl)
That's just a very brief selection but might help you, hope you don't turn into a nihilistic asshole instead, existencialism leans towards humanism and it's ultimate goal is for humankind to realize that there is no point in life, therefore being happy > being sad, however (and this is where most people fail) is up to you to find out what makes you happy.
>>17284160
I want to be carefree as well, like not be bothered by anything and just stay super relaxed at all times.
Kinda hard to do that with out drugs.
