I'm socially inept due to growing up with social anxiety

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2016-06-22 20:33:53 Post No. 17282484
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Anonymous 2016-06-22 20:33:53 Post No. 17282484 [Report]

I'm socially inept due to growing up with social anxiety and never really having any friends. I've been trying hard to change by socializing more and making myself uncomfortable and I met a girl who I think might like me. I'm not entirely sure because as far as I know, no girl has ever liked me before. We've been friends for a little while now, we have a few classes together so we always sit together. Now and then we study together and sometimes we go out to lunch or dinner. So we aren't complete strangers. For all I know though, she may only keep me around because I help her study. I want to make some kind of move to see if she likes me, but I'm not sure how to go about doing that. I was thinking I might just ask her if she wants to come over and hang out, but I don't know if she'd think it was a friend thing or if she'd assume I want sex and get offended or what. Even if she did agree, I don't know what I would do once she got here.

Please give me advice. I'm lonely.

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Anonymous 2016-06-22 20:39:10 Post No.17282495
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Anonymous 2016-06-22 20:39:10 Post No.17282495 [Report]

>>17282484
It is standard procedure to ask her out for coffee. Start there and talk about things.

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Anonymous 2016-06-22 20:40:38 Post No.17282499
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Anonymous 2016-06-22 20:40:38 Post No.17282499 [Report]

Just ask her to hang out,there is nothing bad there,don't worry too much.
Btw.Try meditating,it helps.

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Anonymous 2016-06-22 20:48:29 Post No.17282520
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Anonymous 2016-06-22 20:48:29 Post No.17282520 [Report]

>>17282495
I'm not really a coffee drinker, and I don't think she is either. What would we talk about?

>>17282499
So if I ask her to hang out and she comes over, what do I do? I don't really know how to entertain guests. Do we just watch tv? Do I cook us dinner? Do we just sit on my couch and talk? And how do I even approach the topic of mutual attraction?