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when you feel like you want to fuck someone who is not your SO, what do you do? i normally jack off but she's gone for a few months and ive been getting bored of jackin it 2x a day
ways to ensure i keep my urges under control¿ i dont want to mess up a good thing you get me?
"what she doesnt know wont hurt her" is a bad way to look at it i think. i just want to be cool and not think about acting on this
>>17281341
Realize that you're only infatuated with the idea because it's new/a thrill/a chase/risky. Utilize some fucking discipline and just stop thinking about it. Fap to your SO and how attractive you think she is.
If you can't do that, break up and maybe kill yourself.
>>17281341
>"what she doesnt know wont hurt her" is a bad way to look at it i think.
When she does find out, it will hurt her. How's that for a way to look at it? Keep your dick in your pants, for god's sakes.
>>17281341
It's too late OP. You're a weak faggot and I think anything I say will be dust in the wind. If you really don't want to cheat though then you should maybe stop focusing on sex for awhile, hang out with friends or something, indulge in hobbies, anything that can keep your mind off fucking. I don't know why you need someone to help you, seems like you've got problems as most normally functional people would be capable of controlling themselves. Are you really, truly committed to this girl? If not then fuck it, if yes then why the fuck are you asking for help.
