Should i phone this dude

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Should i phone this dude 2016-06-22 06:05:52 Post No. 17280390
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Should i phone this dude Anonymous 2016-06-22 06:05:52 Post No. 17280390 [Report]

Okay long story short, i hooked up with this guy like 3 months ago, we were chating before that really great. After hooking up (we both aren't the type to do that) he didn't wanna talk to me before i heard from a souce it's because he thought i didn't like dogs or his dog (i have dogs myself maybe he forgot that) and things were abit awkward because i had the flu but i told him this before we hung out.

So i messaged him like a month ago, he messaged back for awhile then just stopped.

I messaged him today but one message says pending and i 'm not sure if he got it.
Was thinking of phoning tomrrow and asking if he wanted to walk dogs together.

I 'm kinda nervous tho i don't want him to hate me, like i 'm annoying him or some shit.

Fyi i 'm not interested in anyhing serious and he isn't either but i'd still like to be friends or date casually

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Anonymous 2016-06-22 06:15:20 Post No.17280422
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Anonymous 2016-06-22 06:15:20 Post No.17280422 [Report]

You write like an idiot. How old are you?

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Anonymous 2016-06-22 06:20:46 Post No.17280448
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Anonymous 2016-06-22 06:20:46 Post No.17280448 [Report]

>>17280422
Cut me some slack it's like 5am and i haven't slept

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Anonymous 2016-06-22 06:25:10 Post No.17280462
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Anonymous 2016-06-22 06:25:10 Post No.17280462 [Report]

>>17280390
Wait for reply, if it doesn't come a phone call would scream of clingyness. Then move on.

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Anonymous 2016-06-22 06:46:00 Post No.17280524
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Anonymous 2016-06-22 06:46:00 Post No.17280524 [Report]

>>17280462
I get that it just bothers me that he might not have even gottnen the message i sent.

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Anonymous 2016-06-22 06:51:30 Post No.17280542
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Anonymous 2016-06-22 06:51:30 Post No.17280542 [Report]

>>17280390
Are you a female?

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Anonymous 2016-06-22 06:54:32 Post No.17280550
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Anonymous 2016-06-22 06:54:32 Post No.17280550 [Report]

>>17280390
If you don't want anything serious, then I don't think you have anything to lose by calling

If he is a normal dude, he wont pass on a girl he hooked up with before - he knows what is there

What is the worst case scenario? he says no and hangs up? At least you will have your answer, then you can move on.

Maybe be a little more forward, like say straight up what you want to do. Trust me he wont hate you. Maybe he stopped messaging because you never gave him another opening to make a move, start dropping hints in those messages

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Anonymous 2016-06-22 07:07:24 Post No.17280585
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Anonymous 2016-06-22 07:07:24 Post No.17280585 [Report]

>>17280550
That all sounds pretty good and reasonable. i 'm just worried i'd be coming across as a clingy ex girlfriend (even tho we never dated) That would suck. I don't want to come across like i want something serious.

Maybe if i mention my phone feel in the sink and isn't working so i don't know if he go my message, it would sound less annoying.

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Anonymous 2016-06-22 08:59:21 Post No.17280828
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Anonymous 2016-06-22 08:59:21 Post No.17280828 [Report]

>>17280542
Yes why?