My boyfriend is upset because I don't enjoy breast sucking or fondling
What do
Tell me you don't enjoy it. It's weird as fuck.
>>17277963
Tell him * not me lol. Im drunk
>>17277963
I did. He's upset
>>17277970
Tell him if you can bite his balls whenever you want, he can bite your tits.
Or just tell him to stop being a fucking baby.
>>17277972
He's not biting my tits lol
>>17277958
your nipples really sensitive? my gf is like that. she's okay with folding but not sucking. I can lick around them or something but she gets too sensitive directly.
what's the problem with folding?
When you say he's upset... be more specific. Does he think you're being unfair? Does he want you to just grit your teeth and let him do it? Or does he think that if you try hard enough you can start enjoying it? Or is he just raging at the heavens, all "damn our sexual incompatibility!"
you have breast cancer
>>17277979
No my nipples aren't sensitive at all. He wants them to be
>>17278024
I think he thinks I'm not trying hard enough to like it
>>17277958
Whip out da tiddy or you'll get no piddy
Do you guys have a pretty healthy sex life otherwise? You have sex a lot, you're not super conservative in bed otherwise? (You don't have to be a porn star or anything, don't get me wrong.)
If your sex life is good, otherwise, then you're completely within your rights to tell him, "Dude, my nipples aren't that sensitive. It's not a mental thing, it's my body and I CAN'T CONTROL IT. Stop whining already."
>>17278447
>>17278451
Wait wait wait
Hang on
He's upset not because HE enjoys it and can't do it, but because even though you let him do it, you don't get off on it?
Am I understanding this correctly?
Is his repertoire of sexual techniques so fucking shallow that he just does the one thing, that maybe a previous lover enjoyed, and is blaming you for not enjoying it?
Is he so resistant to putting in effort that he actually cannot be arsed to learn what you DO enjoy?
Have I understood correctly?
>>17278477
He has a pretty good sex life. Unfortunately my whole body is not sensitive enough to enjoy sex
Be firm. I'd show him a source about how nipple sensitivity is personal exactly once. If he whines again, tell him "I showed you that it's an individual matter. I cannot change this. I don't bother you about not liking [whatever is relevant for him], it's pointless to bug me about something I have no control over. Let it go." If after that he tries again, don't say ANYTHING on the matter other than "We discussed this. I have nothing else to say."
>>17278496
There's nothing that I enjoy, and he doesn't find that sexy, he wants me to moan and writhe around in ecstasy from foreplay and sex but I'm just not that sensitive
>>17277958
Aw man I feel for him. I'm an ass man but I love sucking on tits. Luckily my girlfriend has super sensitive nipples. I guess I figured all women did since everyone I've slept with loved playing with them.
How's the rest of the sex? Maybe you just aren't feeling it.
>>17278507
I see. It sounds like he wants to think of himself as being a good lover (which he may be!) and the fact that you don't respond to sex the way he wants you to is threatening to that fantasy. So he's taking it out on you.
Ok, that makes a bit more sense. He's still an asshole, though.
Do you consider yourself asexual? That is, do you get horny, do you have sexual desire? If you do, how do you get off? What do you think about?
While it's immature and uncaring I can kinda understand his feelings, if you don't enjoy the sex he's going to feel pretty useless. His ego is taking a knock. Any underlying cause for your lack of enjoyment or is it just the way it is? Have you ever enjoyed it?
>>17278514
Yes I have a sex drive and have sexual fantasies, but I'm really sexually frustrated because I can just never get enough satisfaction/pleasure because my body is fucking numb.
>>17278514
>he's an asshole
Maybe he just wants to please her too so sex can be mutual rather than unsatisfyingly one sided
Maybe he feels like de isn't being responsive enough to tell him what he should be doing
Maybe she doesn't know her own body enough to know what does feel good
Maybe trying different things is a good idea to see what works.
Also asexuality is made up wank, it wouldn't cause lack of sensitivity, that's a nerve and cardiovascular thing
>not wanting your boyfriend to play with your tits
You're terrible.
>>17278559
You must have a way to get off consistently by now. How about you explain to him how to make you cum better, if that's his aim.
>>17278559
If you play with yourself more, and have him play with you more, you will become more sensitive with time
My gf used to not have sensitive nipples byt now she loves it and now complains they are too sensitive sometimes
>>17278538
>not wanting your gf to lay there like a dead fish and be unresponsive means your immature and uncaring
Yea alright reddit
>>17278573
More sex and masturbation doesn't make me more sensitive, I wish it did.
i couldn't be with a girl who didn't like titty play. she'd had to be perfect wife material for me to look past it.
sit him down and tell him that it just doesn't do anything for you and that he can still play with them but not to expect any reaction from you. teach him other ways to please you.
>>17278573
this is quackery
>>17278569
Why would I want to cum? That's like the end of whatever pleasurable sensations I can feel.
>>17278590
I can't find ways that please me, it's like I have no erogenous zones
>>17278590
>>17278578
>>17278565
>>17278564
>>17278538
See these replies OP? Study them well. This is how the typical man thinks.
Many women are sexually frustrated, unfulfilled, or just plain don't like/enjoy sex; but we all have to put on the show for our loved ones anyway. You can't just lie there, you have to pretend to enjoy it. Learn to fake an orgasm and dirty talk to stroke his ego and eventually he'll shut up about it. You still won't get anything out of it, but try not to think about how bored you are. Sometimes if you put an effort in, you can even learn to enjoy the activity of sex, even if you aren't orgasming. I'm the same as you, but I think it's a fun activity to do with the boyfriend once I started actually trying. Sometimes I even do orgasm.
Fake it til you make it, I guess is what I'm saying.
How old are you OP?
This might sound stupid and unlikely but maybe you dont know yourself sexually enough. You should try experimenting new things, even for the less orthodoxes things.
>>17278629
I'm 23
Apart from dangerous/gross stuff I've done a lot of experimenting
>>17278565
underrated post
>>17278621
>instead of putting effort into their sex life women prefer to just fake it
>rather staying frustrated instead of confronting their partner
What the hell is wrong with women. If you aren't happy open your mouth. We can't read your minds.
>>17278881
sometimes women just can't get orgasm, mate. Some men have ED, but there's no pill for the woman that just can't orgasm, unfortunately
>>17278881
OP did do this and her boyfriend's response was to get pissy about it. That's the problem, men get their ego in a twist if you tell them you're not enjoying the gift from heaven itself that is their dick.
>>17277970
>>17277958
>mfw your bf was probably breastfed until he was 15
get a new bf
>>17278603
Have you ever came before? Can't women cum multiple times "consecutively"
Be the girl he really wants or fuck off.
>>17278934
>the gift from heaven itself that is their dick.
>>17278514
>threatening to that fantasy
lel, every time with you cunts
it's not a power/ego thing
if the girl doesn't enjoy it or consider trying to he might as well masturbate into a sock.
there's no point if you're not both into it.
just let him do it even if you dont get off on it. easy
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>>17277958
It seems to me that was his go to foreplay and now you're telling him that it's not very effective. If I had to guess why he's upset then I'd say it's because he's been trying it on you for a while thinking it was getting you off and now you tell him after the fact that he was wasting his time (and being shitty in bed as a result).
You need to coach him on some other way to please you that will take the place of the pleasure he thought he was giving you. Something that he can do for you to turn you on.
>>17277958
Ops image is triggering me
So, are you even turned off by that or you just don't enjoy it?
Because you could at least let him, even if it doesn't turn you on. If you actually hate it then nevermind, if he can restrain himself then just find another fuckbuddy, because a relationship that fails at sex won't go for very long. He might be tempted to cheat just because of that silly quirk of you not liking boobplay
>>17279593
I doubt he would jeopardize his relationship with his SO just because she's not into titplay.
>>17279468
Look, if I stop seeing textbook examples of men with fragile, fragile egos projecting their insecurities concerning their masculinity outwards, I'll stop pointing it out.
I am sorry you dont enjoy sex much. In all honesty, it will be difficult to keep a man satisfied for long. You dont have to writhe around and shit, but it is important to most men to feel wanted and like you enjoy fucking them.
Omn the other hand, it is shitty for him to get pissy about it. Thats life, its all give some, getsome.
In the mean time, go down on him and the punch him n the balls.
>>17278621
>being so bitter about your shit sex life that you preach about it being a chore to other ignorant women
>actually believing that your relationship is healthy and functional when you fake enjoying sex, which is pretty much the basis of being in a committed relationship
You sound like my ex, go to hell
Your bf is a child for being pissy about not getting titplay
However, you did say your sex life was fine, so just firmly communicate to him that he needs to chill on being a little faggot. Would he blame you if you were into ass play and tried sticking your fist up his anus as foreplay?
>>17277958
>150lbs.
Jesus hamflapping Christ.
please tell me how to get a girlfriend.... im so alone it hurts. i wanna die.
>>17277958
>>17277958
So what he is upset? Getting upset about that? Is there no other way he can please you? Try to f*ck his asshole with a strapon and see if he likes that. And if he doesn't, so what? Be upset. Idiot. My condolences to you.
>>17279844
As if women arent insecure aboit a lot of things too.
>>17277958
Tell him to piss off. Don't let him goad you into it, if you don't like it.
>>17278621
>Many women are sexually frustrated, unfulfilled, or just plain don't like/enjoy sex; but we all have to put on the show for our loved ones anyway.
Then stop having sex and go wither away by yourself, why would anybody put up with somebody that can't enjoy one of the most basic functions in life?
I feel like most of you are just 2cool4sex
>>17277958
suck his breasts instead
>>17277972
Enjoy being a fucking dyke, dyke
