My girlfriend wants me to dominate her hard.
We have cuffs, a collar, a leash, a mask and a ball-gag.
I have no idea what to do though. Any advice?
>>17277530
Just tie her up during sex and call her degrading shit. Maybe rape roleplay
https://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/13tu08/my_howto_guide_for_men_on_how_to_dominate_a_woman/
whats most important is you do what you want to do to her. You gotta have the mindset that its about you and what you want not her.
>make her eat your asshole
>fart in her face.
Shove her to the bed and cuff her and pin her down and if she makes too much noise put the gag in her mouth. Tease the fuck out of her and fuck the shit out of her only when she's trembling and convulsing from all the teasing.
>>17277574
I thought about teasing, but that isn't dominant enough, is it?
Just take her. Throw her on the bed and go to town.
>>17277632
It is. Making her beg for the dick shows you're in control of whether or not she gets it.
Bump for more advice.
>>17277823
As dumb as iz sounds look up the sec board om reddit.
If you ever get into any crazy shit, have her sign a contract so that you can't get accused of being abusive or something.
Not op but best way to do a rape roleplay?
Tie her down and play with her clit until she cant stand anymore, then play with it some more. Degrade her, mildly, find her boundaries and go right to her limit. Use the old red amber green safe words.
>>17277988
THIS
>>17277530
You gonna need more than a safe word if you're gagging her.
As someone else said, play with her clit right up until it becomes super sensitive. Then I'd let thibgs mellow out (breast play, light fingering, etc.) Then pick it up again. That's when you put her in an embarrassing position and fuck the piss out of her.
Hope you two have a great time!
Insulting, slapping, light punches in stomach, choking, hair pulling, spitting. You don't need any tools.
>>17277988
>>17278377
In real life shit does not fly like this, if you have a healthy trusting relationship your partner is going to be pissed as fuck by the implication that they would do something like that over a mutual sex act.
For OP, first precautions:
>talk beforehand about what she'd like to try, if anything's off limits, if she wants to be surprised or know what's coming
>agree on a safe word!!! that you don't want to use playfully (so not "really stop" but "pomegranate")
>if she's gagged, give her something heavy to hold that she has to drop when she wants you to stop, as a safe "sign" or whatever
>do not forget aftercare, very important - aka cuddling and sweettalking afterwards to transition from a violent scene into boyfriend/girlfriend and not leave her with a bad feeling despite enjoying it sexually
As for concrete tips, in no particular order;
>use the cuffs on her and tease her body until she begs, finger her or eat her out until she almost comes then back away, if she gets intense growl at her that she comes when you tell her to come
>call her names - slut, whore, good girl, bad girl - make her say she's yours
>make her beg to suck your dick, push down her head, fuck her mouth
>whenever you fuck her do it hard, push her down on the bed or up against a wall so she has no space to move, pull her hair (at the roots), put a heavy hand on her neck, make her say she's a slut during sex, twist her nipples or slap her body/face if she likes pain, switch positions by forcibly moving her around
>if she's into pain, drip hot wax on her while she has the gag in, tell her if she makes any noise you're going to spank the shit out of her to punish her, you can also do the same with rough sex saying she's not allowed to make noise (like the whore she is etc) and if you hear any slutty noise leaving her mouth sex is over and she gets punished etc
There's loads online honestly. Probably better than this still, look around to get some ideas.
>Any advice?
Watch some porn about BDSM or something. Oh, and tell her to stop reading Fifty Shades of Grey.
>>17278609
Thats pretty solid. Hardest part will be to shut down my brain and just do things.
>>17277530
Lol I don't know OP. But there's some professional BDSM pro out there who makes vids. His setting is that of a lighted room in the day that almost looks like a basement, but there's like windows and trees outside, so he must be in a secluded area, but none of those dark room torture scenes. he's some professional is all I could tell. And it's kinda all I know. I was happening to watch those japanese hot BB webm's in a BDSM thread for like no reason, that's how I found out.
A friend of mine recommended for me The New Bottoming Book by Dossie Easton and Janet W Hardy. Read it not long ago and they seemed to know what they were talking about. They also have The New Topping Book, which sounds like it'd be more useful to you. I've also heard good things about Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns by Philip Miller and Molly Devon.
Start reading up on this stuff and do a little research, it'll pay off.
Always remember to put safety first: Establish a safeword and make sure you both know it. When using a ball gag, substitute a clear sign or action for your safeword. Pause to check in on your partner occasionally to make sure they're really okay. If you tie somebody up with rope, have a knife handy for cutting them loose in an emergency. If using locks, have a spare key in a safe place. Never cut off blood circulation, check for numbness and loosen restraints if need be. Check occasionally to make sure your partner is breathing properly when gagged. Etc, etc.
Practice and don't get discouraged if it's not perfect the first couple of times: this stuff can be work depending on your level of involvement but speaking personally as a sub, the more effort, knowledge, and experience the dom puts in, the more fun it can get.
