>grandma just died
>shit sucks and she was an amazing person but I honestly don't feel it that hard, people die
this isn't weird right? I'm not a sociopath I just don't think I'm really gonna be devastated about this, I'm more worried about how my mom is gonna feel
She wasn't as close to you as your immediate family.
That's just how it goes.
>>17275436
this is completely normal. i mean i imagine you dont see her often right. once a year? twice a year?
thats not like feeling bad that someone you saw once or twice a year just got busy. or a friend moved. its not THAT different. yes their life ended but in relation to you its not a big deal.
we all 'love' our grandparents and its great, but they arent like our parents who raised us from the beginning. you are not a bad person for not being devastated. the fact that you care about your mom\s feelings in this show you have deep love for those you bond with.
>>17275436
my grandmother died not long ago and i too felt little to nothing. I was not saddened by her passing . My dog died a week after her and i cried like a little bitch.
if you never lived with your grandma for an extended period of time then no. A dog you helped raised as a young adult/kid or owned in midlife is gonna effect you more than a relative you don't see every other day.
