Should I dump someone if my gut says that they're not interested

Thread replies: 6
Thread images: 1

Anonymous
2016-06-19 21:27:53 Post No. 17272455
[Report] Image search: [Google]

File: caught.jpg (36 KB, 550x400) Image search: [Google]

Anonymous 2016-06-19 21:27:53 Post No. 17272455 [Report]

Should I dump someone if my gut says that they're not interested in maintaining anything further, or is it usually wrong to trust your gut?

I don't really have a good reason to dump this person other than that my gut is saying that something is wrong on their end and I should leave, probably because they have been withdrawn. Every time I ask about it it ends in me being guilty that I asked in the first place.

>>

Anonymous 2016-06-19 21:29:07 Post No.17272456
[Report]

Anonymous 2016-06-19 21:29:07 Post No.17272456 [Report]

>>17272455
trust your gut

>>

Anonymous 2016-06-19 21:31:55 Post No.17272463
[Report]

Anonymous 2016-06-19 21:31:55 Post No.17272463 [Report]

>>17272456
What if it ends up being the one that got away or whatever and a dumb mistake?

>>

Anonymous 2016-06-19 21:34:20 Post No.17272467
[Report]

Anonymous 2016-06-19 21:34:20 Post No.17272467 [Report]

>>17272455
there must be other reasons besides your fat gut

list them

>>

Anonymous 2016-06-19 21:36:28 Post No.17272480
[Report]

Anonymous 2016-06-19 21:36:28 Post No.17272480 [Report]

>>17272463
what if it's a total disaster and you missed the right one because you wasted your time trying to force your gut to shut up. That gut is there for a reason.

>>

Anonymous 2016-06-20 01:36:20 Post No.17273069
[Report]

Anonymous 2016-06-20 01:36:20 Post No.17273069 [Report]

>>17272455
I would investigate further before taking decisive action. Ask different questions, do different activities with them and try to notice if there is a change in their attitude and demeanour. Something might be up with them unrelated to you.

Better to make an educated decision rather than jump to conclusions