While dating or in a relationship, what does one do about fetishes that are either A) something you don't want to try in the bedroom, or B) can't be accomplished?
Alternatively, would you tell someone you were with about your fetishes even though there's nothing that can come of it?
"I'm into _________ in porn/fantasy but it's not something I want to try in real life" "I like _______ in real life and want to try _______"
>>17270654
Okay, but is it worth even saying you're into #1? Why share that?
I know how to say it, but does it do your partner any good to know?
>>17270664
It's an optional way to deepen your bond with them.
>>17270683
It's also an optional way to make them uncomfortable and throw a wrench into whatever momentum your relationship has going on.
If you think she might be up for enduging you in your fetish, tell her. If you think you're going to marry her, tell her. If neither of the above, keep it to yourself.
Really depends on whether it's a fetish or just a fantasy (she doesn't need to know you want to bang a MILF).
A lot of fetishes have something deeper to them. Something that you can act on in a more socially acceptable way. Really depends on what it is.
What if she was trying to talk about her fetishes but you overreacted and now she doesn't want to talk about them at all anymore? Apparently i'm too vanilla to ever understand which is eating away at me.
>>17270654
What's the fetish?
>>17271155
You're probably not still around, but this is OP. I find dolls sexually attractive. I don't cum on them or anything but it's a weird thing. I also have a fetish for prostitution, but the combination of maybe getting in trouble with the law or getting some awful disease make it not worth it.
I also have a bondage fetish but I suppose that's at least something I could practically engage in if I really wanted to.
I had some others I was thinking of when I made this thread and now I can't really, but the doll one is the creepiest thing overall.
