How do I become a more chill person? I just want to relax when talking to people sometimes and not worry what people think. I also seem to think people think I'm condescending because even when trying to be sincere.
fake it till you make it
>>17270213
That's what I've been doing. What bothers me is that I put to much thought into what other people think of me .I know that I shouldn't. How do I just not give a fuck?
Smoke weed everday!
>>17270232
Everyone wants people to like them.
But think about it, do pro basketball players spend hours worrying "oh god what if I don't win the championship..."? No, it just stresses you out for no benefit. They just practice their skills and let the outcome settle itself.
You, just go out, have fun and let the outcome settle itself.
>>17270193
hang out with them when youre tired so youre not as shaky. helps to genuinely like them and have interests. ask about themselves too.
>>17270213
Real talk.