Let me give you the quick and dirty:
> Be me
> Met really cool girl on Tinder
> Been talking pretty much non-stop for the past 2-3 weeks
> Have seen each other 5x since it started
> Broadway cast tour for Matilda is nearby
> Says she wants to go with someone
> Her b-day happens to be coming up too; show is several days before
> Thought that getting her nice seats at show would be a nice way of engaging in her interests, getting her a gift, and generally be a good excuse for a date
> Get pretty expensive orchestra seats
> Tell her
I didn't think about this until after I purchased the ticket, but is this too soon? I wanted to do something nice for this girl cause I like her, but I'm realizing that this may be coming on too strong. Did I fuck up?
if you're rolling in dosh it's fine, but if you spend a significant amount of your paycheck for someone you don't know that well, it might be a bit too strong
either way it's a win-win for her lmao
>>17270053
We've had sex already so at least it doesn't seem like a hail mary attempt to bang her for the first time, at least I don't think that.
You think I can bounce back from this? Like, should I just not spend >$50 during a given date until we know each other better?
i mean, you've met each other 5 times for the past 2-3 weeks, had sex already
this can be just seen as a nice birthday present, you should be fine
also, she says she wants to go with someone so maybe she was hinting about going with you anyways? i dunno, but i dont think you fucked up
>>17270053
This. Basically if it didn't cost you a significant amount of money relative to what you make, then you're good.
It doesn't really matter though because she'll never know the exact cost. For all she knows you know a guy and got a discount.
>>17270176
It cost about 6% what I earn in a month. Is that significant?
>>17270047
Too late now you bought the ticket. I don't know enough about your relationship to say you fucked up.
So yeah, maybe.
