How does dating even work? Do I go out with a chick if I'm remotely interested (oh she's cute, but no butterflies) in her, or only if I'm attracted (butterflies in your stomach) to her?
you go out to have fun and meet someone you have an attraction to.
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Not everyone gets butterflies in their stomach, and if they do, it can come later. It all depends on the weird chemical concoction going on in your brain--your brain just does whatever the hell it wants. If you're wanting a relationship, go for someone that you would be friends with.
Whatever you want. Don't do anything because you feel like you're supposed to do it, go out with her if you want to.
But in my personal opinion, if you're single, there's never any harm in getting dinner and having a conversation with someone. Get to know her a little bit, maybe you'll become more attracted, or maybe you'll realize things aren't gonna work out. And either way, you won't have to walk around wondering what might've happened. A date doesn't have to be a big deal