Can she use tampons? What's your size?

How big is your donkey dick?

>>17268081
I hope you burn alive after being hit by a drunk driver

It appears you are trying once every six months and then giving up because it doesn't fit. I do not recommend this approach. I recommend that you plenty of lube and start with inserting one finger, and then two, and then a dildo. Eat her out, make her orgasm, make it a pleasant experience for her that she looks forward to. If any sort of insertion is painful to her then she should consult a specialist.

>>17268092
she uses pads

>>17268093
big enough

>>17268098
okay chap

>>17268104
okay frequency could be an issue since we don't see each other too much. but i had this problem with a girlfriend i lived with and i had the same issue.

>>17268113
>pads
Likely vaginismus. Look it up.

Still though, it could be the size of your dick. For whatever reason men never seem to factor in that vaginas come in different size and length as well. That you had no issues with a number of other women doesn't mean it cannot be a mismatch with her.
Still though, if she can't do tampons 100 bucks says vaginismus.

>>17268113
Then you know your problem. If this happened with you with other girls too, your dick is too big for the average vagina.

>>17268119
im aware of vaginismus but i'd have to be pretty fucking unlucky to have every girl i have ever been with all have it.

>>17268129
nigga plz i barely scrape in at 7 inches

I know its not small but its hardly donkey sized

>>17268135
Oh shit, I managed to completely overlook the part where you said this happened with other girls as well. Have you considered that your length is more average than your girth? You have a website where you can fill in your stats and see how you match up like http://howlongismyschlong.com/
Other people's accounts of their size is nothing to go by.

Honestly though, it would be shitty if this is the issue. If length is the problem you can buy attachments that keep you from going balls deep so you can thrust away without hurting her, but thickness would be another deal.

>>17268141
Grith, that's what matters.

>>17268151
>http://howlongismyschlong.com/
yeah okay it said im thicker than 99.2% of guys and longer than 93% of guys.

wow i actually have a problem others would kill for...

Thanks anon... i guess

>>17268181
Well, yeah, that's your issue. As I said from browsing the internet you feel like every other guy has an 8" dick, whereas in real life a 7" dick is pretty damn rare. By far most men are around 5.5"-6".

Sadly I don't have advice for the girth issue other than either accept that penetrative sex is going to be a point of difficulty and adjust your sex life - although I bet she won't comfortably give head either then - or go looking for a partner with a wider set vagina. (There is by the way no substantial correlation between height/frame and size of the vagina.)

>>17268181
become a master at cunnilingus and get used to hotdogging.

>>17268081
ALL of you faggots don't know there's nothing as too big? Babies pass right through there. I'd know, I've had it three times, man.
Plus my husband's huge and I still don't have problems with him (except the first few times back then when we were awkward inexperienced teens).
Also there's no such thing as a loose pussy. It's a fucking gigantic muscle and if trained well enough, it can crush your dick even after pushing out the babies.

So op, more foreplay and communicate more. Ask her what feels good for her while having sex, let her give you directions. It could also take some time for her to trust you enough to let herself go and feel aroused.

For gods sake kids.....

>>17268216
>Babies pass right through there.
Yeah, after a flood of hormones, lots of contractions, the pelvis bones growing more soft/flexible and even then sometimes damage to the vagina. Not exactly an everyday scenario.

>my husband blahblah
Vaginas differ in size. That he can comfortably fit into you (with foreplay or lube or whatever) doesn't mean he will be able to with every woman, let alone go balls deep with every woman.

And OP mentions them having been together for three years and lots of foreplay in the OP.

>>17268261
>Vaginas differ in size.
They are stretchable.
How come it doesn't fit into your head?

Babies.
Pass.
Through.
There.

You don't need to tell me about the hormonal and other details. I told you I've had it three times, without pain killers.

Of course you'd rip the woman to death if you tried to push some baby through without the hormones. But vaginas are stretchy. If you/op didn't suck that much at sex, you'd be able to work your way up to fitting inside after a little slow and nice practice.

>>17268261
>lots of foreplay
Also maybe he might think he's doing lots of forplay. Whereas she might think OK, it's not gonna be fun this time either.................

>>17268287
Yes, every vagina becomes a few inches longer when the muscles relax and she is aroused. But they have a given size, they are small or long, and from that starting point they become longer. That still leaves you with a difference. I don't get why it's baffling that if you are statistically a freak of nature (sorry OP), an average woman won't be an easy match.

I don't see what an exceptional situation that takes the body months of prepping for has to do with OP's everyday life. I am not saying that vaginas are not stretchy, but that they are stretchy doesn't mean they'll accomodate anything you want them to.
And Jesus, another thing OP already mentioned (going slow). Clearly it is not enough if after three years it's still only 10% going okay.

>>17268294
For three entire years?? And at no point after, you know, a year or so of having to constantly abort sex, he would reckon that perhaps his idea of a lot of foreplay isn't enough?

>>17268301
OK..... just on a side note:
>In that whole time we have only comfortably been able to have sex a handful of times
If they were able to do it even ONCE it means it is possible to fit him inside.

What are you thinking anon... that her size varies from day to day?

>>17268299
>but that they are stretchy doesn't mean they'll accomodate anything you want them to.
Man, you don't even have a vagina. I have one and trust me, even if you are a freak if nature, the size of your penis is not even close to the size of a baby. The stretchiness is enough for even the hugest penises.

>>17268325
I think the level of being able to relax the muscles to allow for deep penetration depends on the point of her cycle, her overall mood at that point, possibly hormones. Assuming that he actually gives her proper elaborate foreplay and goes slowly every time, 10% means it's technically possible under the right circumstances but not a comfortable physical fit.

>>17268334
>you don't even have a vagina
I do. And we already agreed that the "stretchiness" that allows for childbirth is far removed from the normal amount of stretchiness so I don't understand why you keep finding this relevant information.

>>17268081
There are some physical conditions women can have that make intercourse painful, and she should check with her doctor. But they are very rare.

It is far, far more likely that what you consider "plenty of foreplay" isn't enough. Try doubling or tripling the time you spend before attempting entry. Do what gets her sopping wet and begging for it. Give her an orgasm or two by hand or mouth before you even consider climbing aboard. And use lots of bottled lube.

>>17268364
Your arguments are totally bullshit. Op sucks at sex/communication and thats his only problem. And either you are a foreveralone virgin or you have a vagina only in your dreams.